i the only time i have decked was with a female belayer, but on the contrary, my current gf is a much better belayer than the majority of others that i climb with
It doesn't have anything to do with whether your partner is a girl or a guy. I've had guys belay me who literally scare the hell out of me and girls who I have been fine with.
I'm a big guy, so the only thing I'd ever worry about is my weight in comparison to the girl.
The only people I've seen deck have been female with a female belayer.
Also, the most dreaded belays I have ever received have come from women.
So who would you rather have belay you? Of course its better to look down and get a sneak peak at some cleavage if you aren't already hooking up with the belayer, but on a hard climb that you don't want to deck on: Would you rather have a man or woman belay you?
whatever. i trust my girl with my life. i never have to worry about a thing when she's got me on belay.
I've been belayed by my wife over 1000 times. I could care less how little the belayer is as long as I know they will take the hit and not pass out or let go. I have took wippers and pulled her into the wall many times. She has took some really hard hits and never even blinked.
The best single belay I have received was from a woman I outweigh by 30 lb. She jumped backwards off a ledge to keep me from grounding after a 30 foot whipper. Stopped me two feet off the deck.
But then again I will only climb with somebody I know belays safely.
And I'll probably get banzed for mentioning climbing in scummunity.
girls are lighter so they give softer catches and put less force on your top piece.
bennydh wrote:
PT = ? FTW = For the Win??
I promise once you figure it out you'll be pissed for spending as much time/energy as you did trying to figure it out. at least that's what happened to me.
edit: well, I fucked that one up.
(This post was edited by fresh on Nov 21, 2008, 7:24 PM)