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pinktricam
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j_ung wrote: pinktricam wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: Hey pinktricam, I know you don't care for homosexuality, call it a sin against God and believe that there's a homosexual agenda beyond simple equality, but what do you think about lesbians? I'm talking about hot-as-hell, porn-style lesbos. Pinky cannot publicly admit that he has ever seen porn, so he cannot say that he knows what they look like. What she said. And here's a public FYI: I know a couple folks here think I'm a bit of a prude, but just so you know I'm open-minded enough that I'm currently reading The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk. Although I don't condone his self-destructive lifestyle, I do admire his spunk. Ah, lying. Check.
Really? Lying?
Which part am I lying about? Because my post is 100% factual.
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j_ung
Feb 24, 2012, 8:49 AM
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pinktricam wrote: j_ung wrote: pinktricam wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: Hey pinktricam, I know you don't care for homosexuality, call it a sin against God and believe that there's a homosexual agenda beyond simple equality, but what do you think about lesbians? I'm talking about hot-as-hell, porn-style lesbos. Pinky cannot publicly admit that he has ever seen porn, so he cannot say that he knows what they look like. What she said. And here's a public FYI: I know a couple folks here think I'm a bit of a prude, but just so you know I'm open-minded enough that I'm currently reading The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk. Although I don't condone his self-destructive lifestyle, I do admire his spunk. Ah, lying. Check. Really? Lying? Which part am I lying about? Because my post is 100% factual.
You can't publicly admit to seeing porn. Hence, lying.
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j_ung
Feb 24, 2012, 8:51 AM
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Though it may seem counter intuitive, only the men who responded to this thread, "Worthless without pictures," even remotely understood it.
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notapplicable
Feb 24, 2012, 12:34 PM
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Who said anything about nudity or genitalia? J_ung is asking about a tender, yet passionate kiss between two beautiful women.
IMO, if we're talking about a single frame image, I think the kiss is sexier than someones crotch (male or female) 98.677% of the time.
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guangzhou
Feb 24, 2012, 5:17 PM
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notapplicable wrote: Who said anything about nudity or genitalia? J_ung is asking about a tender, yet passionate kiss between two beautiful women. IMO, if we're talking about a single frame image, I think the kiss is sexier than someones crotch (male or female) 98.677% of the time.
Very very true.
Using the same wisdom as above, women should be attracted by two men making out too.
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notapplicable
Feb 24, 2012, 7:55 PM
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guangzhou wrote: notapplicable wrote: Who said anything about nudity or genitalia? J_ung is asking about a tender, yet passionate kiss between two beautiful women. IMO, if we're talking about a single frame image, I think the kiss is sexier than someones crotch (male or female) 98.677% of the time. Very very true. Using the same wisdom as above, women should be attracted by two men making out too.
Perhaps. Maybe some of the straight women can comment.
For me personally, while I am attracted to men, I don't think two men kissing has nearly the same aesthetic appeal as the women.
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camhead
Feb 25, 2012, 1:15 PM
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Here's a question to take it into the realm of too-serious.
If a man catches his wife cheating on him with another woman (lesbian), he is less likely to divorce her than if he were to find her cheating with another man.
If a woman catches her husband cheating on her with another man (gay), she is MORE likely to divorce him than if she were to find him cheating with another woman.
(can't remember the citation)
Why is this? The fact that dudes find female on female makeouts so hot might be part of the reason.
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j_ung
Feb 25, 2012, 1:17 PM
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Part of the reason? 
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wjca
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One of my personal favorites. It has something for everyone.
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guangzhou
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wjca wrote: One of my personal favorites. It has something for everyone.
Don't drink or smoke. Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray.This shot doesn't do much for me.
While I have fantasized about two women, I am also smart enough to know that me with two women will mean at least one of them will be unsatisfied. One woman is much more capable of satisfying two men than the other way around.
More appealing by far than two women making out on the Beer kegs. Stale beer taste doesn't do much for me, silk sheets, well.
An invitation to things to come, enough left over for my imagination of what I'll find.
Again, an invitation. No doubt where things are headed, but some definite foreplay coming first.
Not an invitation, but certain willingness to let things develop.
In this case, the shirt is what does it, says I willing to be a spur of the moment kind of person. The most seductive of the above for me.
The other day, my wife and I decided to watch these adult movies passed on to us. After about ten minutes, we moved on. They were devoid of anything.
What causes me to see a woman as attractive is partially the anticipation of what's to come, and something in her spirit. The way she carries herself, not sexually, but confidently.
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pinktricam
Feb 26, 2012, 12:03 AM
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rrrADAM wrote: pinktricam wrote: I know a couple folks here think I'm a bit of a prude... I am amazed at how often "good behavior" gets the credit that is really due to "lack of oportunity". And, some are actually sexually frustrated and jealous of lesbians, since they get more pussy than they do.
I know you have a kid, so you've probably had sex at least once.
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sungam
Feb 27, 2012, 12:34 AM
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wjca wrote: One of my personal favorites. It has something for everyone. [image]http://highlatencylife.files.wordpress.com/2011/01/drunkgirlskissing.jpg[/image]
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pinktricam
Feb 27, 2012, 6:47 AM
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curt wrote: guangzhou wrote: While I have fantasized about two women, I am also smart enough to know that me with two women will mean at least one of them will be unsatisfied... Good thing you're only speaking for yourself.  Curt
Heck, even I can understand curt's point.
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j_ung wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: caughtinside wrote: I know a bunch of the ladies who like ladies, and I can tell you that they are very cool and generally pretty fun. Of the 10 or so weddings I have been to in the last 3 years, the lesbian wedding was the most fun. Yeah, whatever. Yawn. What I'm trying to figure out is, how can any heterosexual male (taking pinky at his word here) look at this... https://www.google.com/...tGT76yE6jr0gGe07i1Dg ...and be entirely against homosexuality?! And let's be serious for a moment. Any heterosexual male who isn't turned on by this kind of thing is either lying about it or not really heterosexual. Edit: screwed the tags. trying again. O.K., serious answer. What you are missing here is the fact that a) the majority of those girls in the photos are probably straight, and doing the whole kissing thing for the purpose of arousing that heterosexual guy. (profoundly annoying, IMO, but this is off-topic...) b) many heterosexual guys find the idea of more than one girl at a time very appealing, if not in the real world of their personal lives, then definitely in the realm of fantasy. So they are not looking at those pictures and thinking: ooohhh, two lesbians, how hot is it that these two girls are having sex with each other, and never want anything to do with the guys? Awesome! They are thinking ohhh, two hot girls kissing, I want to be in the middle of THAT action, totally, I'd do them both, ohhh... It is sort of like some women finding gay porn to be hot, NOT because they are homosexual themselves, but because gay or bi- porn is the only situation where you would see some good-looking guys. Let's face it, the guys in regular porn are, on average, rather ugly. Since porn consumption by men is much higher than porn consumption by women, what "regular" heterosexual porn showcases is hot girl(s), and any random guy(s) who have working equipment of reasonable size, and are capable of using it. I didn't miss that at all. It's just irrelevant.
it is extremely relevant, becuase your question was:
In reply to: What I'm trying to figure out is, how can any heterosexual male (taking pinky at his word here) look at this... ...and be entirely against homosexuality?!
And my answer is, it is because any heterosexual man who looks is likely not turned on by the thought that these two girls are LESBIAN, e.i. want nothing to do with men, when it comes to sex, but is turned on because he thinks of having sex with the two of them, e.i. them NOT being homosexual.
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Feb 27, 2012, 8:33 AM
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lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: caughtinside wrote: I know a bunch of the ladies who like ladies, and I can tell you that they are very cool and generally pretty fun. Of the 10 or so weddings I have been to in the last 3 years, the lesbian wedding was the most fun. Yeah, whatever. Yawn. What I'm trying to figure out is, how can any heterosexual male (taking pinky at his word here) look at this... https://www.google.com/...tGT76yE6jr0gGe07i1Dg ...and be entirely against homosexuality?! And let's be serious for a moment. Any heterosexual male who isn't turned on by this kind of thing is either lying about it or not really heterosexual. Edit: screwed the tags. trying again. O.K., serious answer. What you are missing here is the fact that a) the majority of those girls in the photos are probably straight, and doing the whole kissing thing for the purpose of arousing that heterosexual guy. (profoundly annoying, IMO, but this is off-topic...) b) many heterosexual guys find the idea of more than one girl at a time very appealing, if not in the real world of their personal lives, then definitely in the realm of fantasy. So they are not looking at those pictures and thinking: ooohhh, two lesbians, how hot is it that these two girls are having sex with each other, and never want anything to do with the guys? Awesome! They are thinking ohhh, two hot girls kissing, I want to be in the middle of THAT action, totally, I'd do them both, ohhh... It is sort of like some women finding gay porn to be hot, NOT because they are homosexual themselves, but because gay or bi- porn is the only situation where you would see some good-looking guys. Let's face it, the guys in regular porn are, on average, rather ugly. Since porn consumption by men is much higher than porn consumption by women, what "regular" heterosexual porn showcases is hot girl(s), and any random guy(s) who have working equipment of reasonable size, and are capable of using it. I didn't miss that at all. It's just irrelevant. it is extremely relevant, becuase your question was: In reply to: What I'm trying to figure out is, how can any heterosexual male (taking pinky at his word here) look at this... ...and be entirely against homosexuality?! And my answer is, it is because any heterosexual man who looks is likely not turned on by the thought that these two girls are LESBIAN, e.i. want nothing to do with men, when it comes to sex, but is turned on because he thinks of having sex with the two of them, e.i. them NOT being homosexual.
I actually think that, in the fantasy that you describe above, a man would be just as "turned on" by thinking that he is the special case who could just "turn" lesbians into cock-craving hetero-females.
There is also the whole thing with female sexuality being more fluid, females are more likely to be bi than males, blablabla.
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pinktricam wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: Hey pinktricam, I know you don't care for homosexuality, call it a sin against God and believe that there's a homosexual agenda beyond simple equality, but what do you think about lesbians? I'm talking about hot-as-hell, porn-style lesbos. Pinky cannot publicly admit that he has ever seen porn, so he cannot say that he knows what they look like. What she said. And here's a public FYI: I know a couple folks here think I'm a bit of a prude, but just so you know I'm open-minded enough that I'm currently reading The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk. Although I don't condone his self-destructive lifestyle, I do admire his spunk.
GU all over my face on this one I"M SURE, but you admire his... spunk. awesome.
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drivel
Feb 27, 2012, 8:41 AM
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camhead wrote: Here's a question to take it into the realm of too-serious. If a man catches his wife cheating on him with another woman (lesbian), he is less likely to divorce her than if he were to find her cheating with another man. If a woman catches her husband cheating on her with another man (gay), she is MORE likely to divorce him than if she were to find him cheating with another woman. (can't remember the citation) Why is this? The fact that dudes find female on female makeouts so hot might be part of the reason.
not the reason.
if a man is caught cheating with a man he's likely to just be gay. as in- not interested in women, NEVER WAS interested in women, and the wife feels horribly betrayed because every time they've ever fucked was a lie. feeling desired is such an important component of many if not all women's sexuality, and to find out that it was all a fake must be devastating.
on the other hand, if a woman is caught cheating with another woman... well... research shows that women's sexuality is "more fluid" than mens. as in... she's probably just bi. many women are somewhat bi.
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guangzhou wrote: While I have fantasized about two women, I am also smart enough to know that me with two women will mean at least one of them will be unsatisfied. One woman is much more capable of satisfying two men than the other way around.
durpity.
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pinktricam
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drivel wrote: pinktricam wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: Hey pinktricam, I know you don't care for homosexuality, call it a sin against God and believe that there's a homosexual agenda beyond simple equality, but what do you think about lesbians? I'm talking about hot-as-hell, porn-style lesbos. Pinky cannot publicly admit that he has ever seen porn, so he cannot say that he knows what they look like. What she said. And here's a public FYI: I know a couple folks here think I'm a bit of a prude, but just so you know I'm open-minded enough that I'm currently reading The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk. Although I don't condone his self-destructive lifestyle, I do admire his spunk. GU all over my face on this one I"M SURE, but you admire his... spunk. awesome.
Yes, apparently he had a LOT of it!
The book's also been a colorful and insightful tale of the political and historical foundation of the modern "gay agenda," as well as California politics.
All in all, a pretty entertaining read actually.
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drivel
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lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: lena_chita wrote: j_ung wrote: caughtinside wrote: I know a bunch of the ladies who like ladies, and I can tell you that they are very cool and generally pretty fun. Of the 10 or so weddings I have been to in the last 3 years, the lesbian wedding was the most fun. Yeah, whatever. Yawn. What I'm trying to figure out is, how can any heterosexual male (taking pinky at his word here) look at this... https://www.google.com/...tGT76yE6jr0gGe07i1Dg ...and be entirely against homosexuality?! And let's be serious for a moment. Any heterosexual male who isn't turned on by this kind of thing is either lying about it or not really heterosexual. Edit: screwed the tags. trying again. O.K., serious answer. What you are missing here is the fact that a) the majority of those girls in the photos are probably straight, and doing the whole kissing thing for the purpose of arousing that heterosexual guy. (profoundly annoying, IMO, but this is off-topic...) b) many heterosexual guys find the idea of more than one girl at a time very appealing, if not in the real world of their personal lives, then definitely in the realm of fantasy. So they are not looking at those pictures and thinking: ooohhh, two lesbians, how hot is it that these two girls are having sex with each other, and never want anything to do with the guys? Awesome! They are thinking ohhh, two hot girls kissing, I want to be in the middle of THAT action, totally, I'd do them both, ohhh... It is sort of like some women finding gay porn to be hot, NOT because they are homosexual themselves, but because gay or bi- porn is the only situation where you would see some good-looking guys. Let's face it, the guys in regular porn are, on average, rather ugly. Since porn consumption by men is much higher than porn consumption by women, what "regular" heterosexual porn showcases is hot girl(s), and any random guy(s) who have working equipment of reasonable size, and are capable of using it. I didn't miss that at all. It's just irrelevant. it is extremely relevant, becuase your question was: In reply to: What I'm trying to figure out is, how can any heterosexual male (taking pinky at his word here) look at this... ...and be entirely against homosexuality?! And my answer is, it is because any heterosexual man who looks is likely not turned on by the thought that these two girls are LESBIAN, e.i. want nothing to do with men, when it comes to sex, but is turned on because he thinks of having sex with the two of them, e.i. them NOT being homosexual.
this.
i'd also argue that the guys in fact KNOW that the two girls kissing (in porn, in public at parties, ect) are straight. and while the girls might legit get turned on while they're kissing the other girl... they may or may not be getting turned on BY kissing the other girl. but rather the idea that they're being seen as highly desirable to the nearby het guys.
it's also a power thing, because it's like, look at this sexy thing i'm doing NOT with you, no touchee, but isn't this hot?
and the guys are turned on at least in part because they KNOW the girls are straight and are putting on a show. there's no real fear that the women will *actually* exclude them from sexual activity, because they're not really lesbians. they're straight girls who are putting on a show.
so the guys are turned on by the idea of being catered to, and the girls by the idea of being desired, and this idea is just as present in most of those images as it is in real time, at-a-party-blah.
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It's not difficult to understand.
It's the "Rooster Effect":
- When one rooster is in a hen-house, he can strut for the hens. Everybody is at peace.
- When a second rooster comes into the hen-house, the guys have to assert their dominance, strut and crow, and maybe fight.
It's the same with men:
- If a guy is kissing a girl, he's OK.
- If another guy is kissing the girl, that's the time and place for his macho maleness to strut and crow, and maybe fight.
But the girl-on-girl scenario is not another guy kissing the girl, so his macho maleness doesn't have to assert itself, and he can watch without the need for dominance.
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If Drivel is right, then it has nothing to do with homosexuality. In fact, confronted with real lesbian girl-on-girl, a hetero guy might feel excluded, which is not a turn-on.
As for me, images like that aren't about homo- or hetero- they're just pictures of hot (or not) girls being sensual. Which is typically a turn-on (duh).
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