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If you want to be a private group, then deal with being treated like a private group...

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The city of Berkeley can charge marina fees to youth sailors connected with the Boy Scouts of America in response to the Scouts' discriminatory policies, the state Supreme Court ruled Thursday.

The court unanimously rejected claims by the Berkeley Sea Scouts that the city violated the group's free speech and freedom of association rights by charging it berthing fees, which nonprofit groups that comply with a 1997 nondiscrimination law do not pay.

The city revoked the group's subsidies in 1998 because the Boy Scouts bar atheist and gay members. It's one of several cases in which federal, state and local governments have distanced themselves from the Scouts.

The U.S. Supreme Court ruled in 2000 that the Boy Scouts' membership policies are legal, but the state high court ruled that governments remain able to deny benefits to organizations that discriminate.

"What the California Supreme Court said was that private clubs can discriminate, but the taxpayers don't have to fund that discrimination," Berkeley City Attorney Manuela Albuquerque said.

Scouts spokesman Bob Bork called the ruling "another in a continuing legal backlash against the Boy Scouts for asserting and winning its constitutional rights in the United States Supreme Court."

The Sea Scouts are a branch of the Boy Scouts that teaches sailing, carpentry and plumbing. City officials had told the group that it could retain its berthing subsidy if it broke ties with the Boy Scouts or disavowed the policy against gays and atheists, but the Sea Scouts refused.

The Sea Scouts pay $500 a month to berth one boat at the Berkeley Marina; the group removed two other boats because it could not afford the rent. The group has about 40 members, down from as many as 100 before the subsidy was removed.


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Never fear, blonde one, there's plenty of support still out there...

When I land a job, which won't be too long from now, I plan to support the BSA financially and professionally (as a metal craft merit badge/CPR instructor/anything else they can use) faithfully.

I've had it with the intrusions attempted by this ultra-liberal generation.


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Never fear, blonde one, there's plenty of support still out there...

When I land a job, which won't be too long from now, I plan to support the BSA financially and professionally (as a metal craft merit badge/CPR instructor/anything else they can use) faithfully.

I've had it with the intrusions attempted by this ultra-liberal generation.

Good for you, pinky. I, too, would support the Scouts if it was still the organization that my family used to support. That would be before this polarized version emerged that's been garnering media attention for the last ten years. If the Scouts want to maintain their present ideology, that's entirely acceptable. If they want to function as a true non-profit organization open to all youths, that's also acceptable. But to successfully fight for their 'rights' to their policies, only to turn around and bitch about being treated like they've asked to be legally treated?? The hypocrisy and irony is certainly not lost here.

So fund away, while shielding yourself from your surroundings via the myth of American ultra-liberalization. All I'm arguing for here is a little consistency.


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When I land a job, which won't be too long from now, I plan to support the BSA financially and professionally (as a metal craft merit badge/CPR instructor/anything else they can use) faithfully.

On another note, since when did the BSA start allowing gays into their organization?


OK, so I'm not strong enough to withstand the will of the juvenile remark... so sue me!


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The liberalization of America aint no myth, babe. Our culture is being eroded by it on an epic scale. Maybe you don't notice it yourself because of...what is the term...over saturation?

I will remain persistent...but you already knew that, didn't you? :wink:


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gotta love an organization that fuels discrimination

glad the courts have made them pay for that choice

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quite the opposite you effing bigot

http://www.boldering.com/...s/default/smiley.jpg for PTC please go back to the dark ages where you came from. don't forget to send in your KKK dues while you're writing donation checks
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^^^...another case of desensitized over saturation eroding an individual's God given conscience.

*Tsk*


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"god" doesn't have any more on me than Nessie or Bigfoot

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with a body like that (your personality certainly isn't going to get you anywhere ) you shouldn't limit your options ;)
i'm sure there is a gay antisemite you'd be great for.

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btw.. i have nothing against folks who are religious... just those people who use it to discriminate.


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btw.. i have nothing against folks who are religious... just those people who use it to discriminate.

Funny how this works. I see it in all camps. I also see it as a tool to get favoritism. It appears that we are so scared to be called such that we tend to lighten up on our own personal values. Where does one draw the line ... seriously, on any matter.


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btw.. i have nothing against folks who are religious... just those people who use it to discriminate.

Why are you trying to get personal here? Trying to make fun of PTC based on the way he looks? What does that have to do with anything? Everyone discriminates so get over it and if you don't think you do, well you must be the one person in the world.

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not sure how me bouldering at the gunks is white trash but :shrug:

it just really irks me how much PTC trashes gays and lesbians.. if he were coming out here and firing out racial slurs and saying we should go back to slavery more people would see the problem with it. I don't see a difference. How about if he was saying that all Jews should be wiped from the earth? How about aparheid.. that was fun times wasnt it? i'm sure PTC had no problems with oppressing a whole race in S. africa

So.. twisting bible verses to discriminate and take away rights of men and women
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Islamic extremists twisting the Koran to justify making war with people they dont like.

if you condone one then you can't fault it when it doesn't work out in your favor


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not sure how me bouldering at the gunks is white trash but :shrug:

it just really irks me how much PTC trashes gays and lesbians.. if he were coming out here and firing out racial slurs and saying we should go back to slavery more people would see the problem with it. I don't see a difference. How about if he was saying that all Jews should be wiped from the earth? How about aparheid.. that was fun times wasnt it? i'm sure PTC had no problems with oppressing a whole race in S. africa

So.. twisting bible verses to discriminate and take away rights of men and women
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Islamic extremists twisting the Koran to justify making war with people they dont like.

if you condone one then you can't fault it when it doesn't work out in your favor

Please point to me one statement where he "trashes" gay and lesbians. What if I said to you that being gay was scientifically unsound? They do not reproduce so genetically and evolutionarilly if it was a gene mutation it would be lost real quick. If being gay is genetic how is it passed on since gay people do not sexual reproduce? Would these statements allow me to be discriminatory?
I have never seen PTC twist biblical statements to take away the rights of men and women. I don't think Islamic extremists twist anything "Fight the unbelievers in your surroundings, and let them find harshness in you." (Quran 9:123).
I have never seen PTC use any type of slur, He doesn't believe in same sex marriage and he is allowed to have that opinion. He said he supports the boyscouts cause they have similar beliefs to himself, what is wrong with that?
I fail to see any logic whatsoever in your argument but hey...

PS. Making discriminatory remarks about someone's body doesn't seem to bother you and that has a better link to genetics than homosexuality. Keep trying jake cause you are struggling here.


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it just really irks me how much PTC trashes gays and lesbians....

You ever consider that mebbe he's just baiting people and getting a rise outta them?

(Not that I'm sticking up for anyone, nor do I condone any specific behavior, nor should you consider this to be a contract, either expressed or implied.... blah, blah, blah, lawyer speak disclaimer...)


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It seems like most religions preach hate, so why bother with them?


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It seems like most religions preach hate, so why bother with them?

please name these religions and the specific "hate" they preach.


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Just read 99% of what gets said on the threads regarding religion. I read a lot of hate, anger, and intolerance. Now, i'm not going to waste my time trying to quote the Bible or the Koran or anything just for a thread post, but i'm sure you're all intelligent enough to fingure out what i'm talking about. if not, oh well, no hard feelings.


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It seems like most religions preach hate, so why bother with them?

please name these religions and the specific "hate" they preach.

My favorite bits of violence, murder, rape, hate, and slavery come from the Deuteronomy. I'm sure you'll agree.

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Deuteronomy 2: 33-36 the Lord our God delivered him into our hands; we killed him with his sons and all his people. We captured all his cities at that time and put to death everyone in the cities, men, women, and dependants; we left no survivor. We took the cattle as booty and plundered the cities we captured.

Deuteronomy 7: 1-2 When the lord your God brings you into the land which you are entering to occupy and drives out many nations before you- Hittites, Girgashites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizites, Hivites, and Jebusites, seven nations more numerous and powerful than you- when the Lord your God delivers them into your power and you defeat them, you must put them to death. You must not make a treaty with them or spare them.

Deuteronomy 13: 1-5 When a prophet or dreamer appears among you and offers you a sign or a portent and calls on you to follow other gods... That prophet or dreamer shall be put to death

Deuteronomy 17: 12-13 Anyone who presumes to reject the decision either of the priest who ministers there to the Lord your God, or of the judge, shall die; thus you will rid Israel of wickedness.

And this just with a quick look.


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THanks, styndall, i heart you!


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THanks, styndall, i heart you!

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I got yer back.


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It seems like most religions preach hate, so why bother with them?

please name these religions and the specific "hate" they preach.

My favorite bits of violence, murder, rape, hate, and slavery come from the Deuteronomy. I'm sure you'll agree.

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Deuteronomy 2: 33-36 the Lord our God delivered him into our hands; we killed him with his sons and all his people. We captured all his cities at that time and put to death everyone in the cities, men, women, and dependants; we left no survivor. We took the cattle as booty and plundered the cities we captured.

Deuteronomy 7: 1-2 When the lord your God brings you into the land which you are entering to occupy and drives out many nations before you- Hittites, s---, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizites, Hivites, and Jebusites, seven nations more numerous and powerful than you- when the Lord your God delivers them into your power and you defeat them, you must put them to death. You must not make a treaty with them or spare them.

Deuteronomy 13: 1-5 When a prophet or dreamer appears among you and offers you a sign or a portent and calls on you to follow other gods... That prophet or dreamer shall be put to death

Deuteronomy 17: 12-13 Anyone who presumes to reject the decision either of the priest who ministers there to the Lord your God, or of the judge, shall die; thus you will rid Israel of wickedness.

And this just with a quick look.

No offense Styndall but that has nothing tat all do with Christian hate. Dueteronomy was the second giving of the law by God to the ANCIENT Israelites, modern day protestant christianity does not follow that.

Yeah sure I quoted the Quran for you already, so that is what one religion we have that preaches hate. I am still waiting for this MOST religions thing. And yeah I love the excuse, "Well it is everywhere go look it up yourself." hahaha

PS. I think you are all intelligent enough to figure out what I am talking about if not oh well.


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Lots of Christians disavow many of the rules of the old testament, while cheerfully keeping with the ones that confirm their prejudices. Note the anti-gay passages in the old testament and the adherance to that passage of many (especially evangelical) branches, while these people think nothing of eating shrimp or catfish, and certainly don't mind wearing fabrics of mixed materials.

Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

If Jesus, by some miracle actually returned, you'd just nail him right back up again.

Islam is no more natively hateful than Christianity or Buddhism. In modern Islam, however, we do see the dangers of fundamentalism that are arising to a lesser extent in modern America.


p.s. I'm pointedly not too stupid to see your point; I'm actually a fairly clever guy. Clever enough, it seems, to see the things about modern Christianity you'd rather not pay any attention to.


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it just really irks me how much PTC trashes gays and lesbians....

You ever consider that mebbe he's just baiting people and getting a rise outta them?

(Not that I'm sticking up for anyone, nor do I condone any specific behavior, nor should you consider this to be a contract, either expressed or implied.... blah, blah, blah, lawyer speak disclaimer...)


I can help polish up that disclaimer language if you'd like. Get it dialed for you.


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Another fine example of intolerance - in the name of tolerance.

Can someone show me where BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs?


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Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

Where do you get this stuff?


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Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

Where do you get this stuff?

My question exactly, funny how people call PTC an evil religious prejudice hatred filled christian yet can provide no evidence. We are talking about Scriptural teachings of all religions, not what you think some churches preach, you seem to be so well informed on churches, how many have you attended regularly? I have never heard any Left Behind book mentioned by church staff at any church I have attended.
I ask one more time, to you and carabiner96 provide evidence of this hatred in most religions, through the teachings.
As for the old testament I think most of christianity has dropped the whole old testament reference to homosexuality because of its hypocrisy(see PTC's sig). The only people who actually follow the old testament nowadays are some forms of judaism and I believe even they don't follow it completely.
If you read the bible in the New Testament it says Jesus died to fulfill all the law(Leviticus, Deuteronomy). So the law is null. The old testament is reference to Christianity not the basis of the religion.


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Where do you get this stuff?

What do you mean, where do I get it? I read a chunk of the first of those "Left Behind" books and found it pretty profoundly disturbing, what with all the images of unbelievers being unstrung by their knees. These things are pretty vicious. I do realize that was a bit of a purple passage on my part, but it's also quite accurate. Would you like to refute any of it?

And organic: Most mainstream Christian denominations are pointedly against gay marriage, yet they're justifying their position with that famous bit of Leviticus, while ignoring completely the other laws laid out therein.

I'm not arguing here that all religions preach hate, that's a bit of stretch. But most religions I can think of right now have gotten used pretty frequently as an excuse for violence. In Christian terms, you can start around 400 CE and run up through the very recent past to find examples of atrocities commited. Examples in Islam are pretty obvious. Nepalese Buddhism, I've read, ran something of a police state before China over-ran the country. Zen buddhism helped samurai get set to kill people. et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

Also, I think the thing about pink_tricam that people dislike is not his religion, but rather how cheerfully he goes about fighting against equal rights and freedom of religion in this country.


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, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

It's pretty pathetic when people who otherwise seem pretty intelligent, resort to using extreme caricatures of fringe groups to make general condemnations of Christians in this country.


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Another fine example of intolerance - in the name of tolerance.

Can someone show me where BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs?

Au contraire, the BSA crying intolerance in instigating this futile lawsuit (instead of using the $$ to fund more activities, maybe??) is more like the intolerant crying intolerance against those acting on behalf of tolerance... something clear like that.

My friend was a highly touted eagle scout and was planning on being a scout leader and volunteering as much of his time as possible to give back to the BSA. He was apparently seen marching in a Pride parade on TV; the next day the organization cut off all contact with him. Unfortunately, it's not an isolated story, and it's not as though the BSA has a 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy...


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Another fine example of intolerance - in the name of tolerance.

Can someone show me where BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs?

Au contraire, the BSA crying intolerance in instigating this futile lawsuit (instead of using the $$ to fund more activities, maybe??) is more like the intolerant crying intolerance against those acting on behalf of tolerance... something clear like that.
WTF does this mean???

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My friend was a highly touted eagle scout and was planning on being a scout leader and volunteering as much of his time as possible to give back to the BSA. He was apparently seen marching in a Pride parade on TV; the next day the organization cut off all contact with him. Unfortunately, it's not an isolated story, and it's not as though the BSA has a 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy...
Oooo. A non-specific anecdote to further your bigotry. How quaint.


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The liberalization of America aint no myth, babe. Our culture is being eroded by it on an epic scale. Maybe you don't notice it yourself because of...what is the term...over saturation?

I will remain persistent...but you already knew that, didn't you? :wink:

How could I have missed the liberal agenda perpetuated by this administration. It must have also been at work when the FDA caved to 'moral' leaders' wishes to have language removed from their website that addressed health concerns specific to gay men, though the liposuction sections were entirely acceptable. Was the liberal agenda evident when states began a hasty sweep to amend their constitutions in order to ban gay marriage? Or has it been here all along as the GOP has continued to 'quietly' erode the 1st Amendment, separation of church and state, and Roe v. Wade? And the gross intervention of the government during the Terri Schiavo matter must be part of the conspiracy, too, I imagine. Please, feel free to fill in the gaps, lest I missed something that conclusively proves that liberals are 1) the prominent force in America today, and 2) out to destroy cultural morality.


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Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers

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, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

It's pretty pathetic when people who otherwise seem pretty intelligent, resort to using extreme caricatures of fringe groups to make general condemnations of Christians in this country.

Except the Left Behind thing is not an extreme fringe at all. This is no minor phenomenon, no tiny fringe group of nutjobs, no Fred Phelps. One of these books was the best-selling novel of 2001, and the authors are up on Amazon.com's Authorial Hall of Fame for having been in the top ten purchased authors on Amazon since the company's inception.

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The hugely successful Left Behind books, with their apocalyptic evangelical Christian vision, are the all-time bestselling Christian fiction series. Six books in the series debuted at the number-one position on the bestseller lists for the New York Times, USA Today, Publishers Weekly, and The Wall Street Journal. More than 62 million copies have been sold.

This isn't some tiny fringe.

p.s. I just found out that their publisher and I share an approximate surname. Tyndale Publishing House, doubtless named after the martyred translator of the bible, and moi, Stephen Tyndall, one of any number of Tyndale/Tindall/Tyndall decendents on this continent.


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My friend was a highly touted eagle scout and was planning on being a scout leader and volunteering as much of his time as possible to give back to the BSA. He was apparently seen marching in a Pride parade on TV; the next day the organization cut off all contact with him. Unfortunately, it's not an isolated story, and it's not as though the BSA has a 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy...
Oooo. A non-specific anecdote to further your bigotry. How quaint.

I don't have time or patience for your bullshit this morning. I don't name names of people I know personally when relating stories about them that are pertinent to the present situation. If you want to live your life with blinders on, that's fine by me.

I don't get upset at being called names or derogatory words in regards to anything having to do with my personal appearance, but it really pisses me off when someone, completely unprovoked, calls me a bigot, and I'd be lying if I said it didn't sting more coming from you. Because I know some bigots and their ideologies; they're on the side of the family that I don't talk to anymore. And if you had any inclination to read anything beyond your usual bait-material and ideological correlatives, you'd see that in my second post on this topic, I said I'd support the BSA if they were anything today like the organization they were before becoming overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives. Before anyone ever heard of the Defense of Marriage Act, the BSA had no policy in effect that could be described as discriminatory. Since that's changed, I consider it detrimental to the interests of all boys and girls involved in the organization, because the primary focus is no longer on them.


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Thorne, dude, The scouts have a systematic policy of excluding gays: "Findings of Fact..., R.D. Pool & M.S. Geller vs. Boy Scouts of America..." Commission on Human Rights, Government of the District of Columbia, 1998-MAY-1

even YOU could have googled that.. ;-)


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I said I'd support the BSA if they were anything today like the organization they were before becoming overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives.

The BSA is essentially no different than the organization your" family used to support". It's just been forced to make some unpleasant decisions.


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Thorne, dude, The scouts have a systematic policy of excluding gays: "Findings of Fact..., R.D. Pool & M.S. Geller vs. Boy Scouts of America..." Commission on Human Rights, Government of the District of Columbia, 1998-MAY-1

even YOU could have googled that.. ;-)

I see. The treatment of two individuals proves a "systematic policy" for a national organization. :shock: How'd that case play out?


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Except the Left Behind thing is not an extreme fringe at all. This is no minor phenomenon, no tiny fringe group of nutjobs, no Fred Phelps. One of these books was the best-selling novel of 2001

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[quote="Amazon.com"]The hugely successful Left Behind books, with their apocalyptic evangelical Christian vision, are the all-time bestselling Christian fiction series. Six books in the series debuted at the number-one position on the bestseller lists for the New York Times, USA Today, Publishers Weekly, and The Wall Street Journal.
Where'd you get this information? Amazon ranks the 1st book below 2000th in sales. Only one of these books makes Amazons top ten in Christian Fiction... and it comes in at #10.

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More than 62 million copies have been sold.

With 12 books in print, that averages out to 5 million per book.

There are approximately 240 million Christians in this country.

Do you really think these books are having a significant impact?


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Thorne, dude, The scouts have a systematic policy of excluding gays: "Findings of Fact..., R.D. Pool & M.S. Geller vs. Boy Scouts of America..." Commission on Human Rights, Government of the District of Columbia, 1998-MAY-1

even YOU could have googled that.. ;-)

I see. The treatment of two individuals proves a "systematic policy" for a national organization. :shock: How'd that case play out?

don't be lazy, do your OWN google.


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Where'd you get this information? Amazon ranks the 1st book below 2000th in sales. Only one of these books makes Amazons top ten in Christian Fiction... and it comes in at #10.

Amazons Ten Year Anniversary Author Hall of Fame

Note that the Left Behind authors are number 9.


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Thorne, dude, The scouts have a systematic policy of excluding gays: "Findings of Fact..., R.D. Pool & M.S. Geller vs. Boy Scouts of America..." Commission on Human Rights, Government of the District of Columbia, 1998-MAY-1

even YOU could have googled that.. ;-)

I see. The treatment of two individuals proves a "systematic policy" for a national organization. :shock: How'd that case play out?

don't be lazy, do your OWN google.

I just wanted to see if you'd post that, in the end, the BSA won.

Of course this has nothing to do with widely (and falsely) held belief that the BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs.


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Where'd you get this information? Amazon ranks the 1st book below 2000th in sales. Only one of these books makes Amazons top ten in Christian Fiction... and it comes in at #10.

Amazons Ten Year Anniversary Author Hall of Fame

Note that the Left Behind authors are number 9.

Which book was "the best-selling novel of 2001"?


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I just wanted to see if you'd post that, in the end, the BSA won.

Of course this has nothing to do with widely (and falsely) held belief that the BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs.

In that case, please enlighten us as to what the policy actually is, should you have the capacity to utilize search engines.


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I just wanted to see if you'd post that, in the end, the BSA won.

Of course this has nothing to do with widely (and falsely) held belief that the BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs.

In that case, please enlighten us as to what the policy actually is, should you have the capacity to utilize search engines.

I'm unaware of any prohibitive policies regarding religion or sexual orientation, for boys in any of their programs.


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Thorne, dude, The scouts have a systematic policy of excluding gays: "Findings of Fact..., R.D. Pool & M.S. Geller vs. Boy Scouts of America..." Commission on Human Rights, Government of the District of Columbia, 1998-MAY-1

even YOU could have googled that.. ;-)

I see. The treatment of two individuals proves a "systematic policy" for a national organization. :shock: How'd that case play out?

don't be lazy, do your OWN google.

I just wanted to see if you'd post that, in the end, the BSA won.

uh, duh, I knew that was your game, what with all your protestations. that ploy is rather tansparent. I figured it'd be better to let you say it yourself.

but more to the point, no kidding einstein, in every case brought against the BSA for discrimination against gays, the courts have decided for the BSA because they fit the rules of a private club, which makes them exempt from anti-discrimination laws. They can exclude whomever they want, for whatever reason they want.

BTW, the results of that particular case didn't absolve the BSA of discrimination, in fact, it said that they did dioscriminate, and could becasue of their status as a private club. so it really doesn't go a long way towards supporting your assertion that they don't exclude kids based on sexual orientation.

reading thru the findings, it seemed to me that, as long as the scout makes no mention of sexual orientation, he or she is good to go. once outed though, it's the old frye boot for you, Brucey-woocey! Or, Brucella.

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Where'd you get this information? Amazon ranks the 1st book below 2000th in sales. Only one of these books makes Amazons top ten in Christian Fiction... and it comes in at #10.

Amazons Ten Year Anniversary Author Hall of Fame

Note that the Left Behind authors are number 9.

Which book was "the best-selling novel of 2001"?

I've lost my citation for that one (I'm in the school lab now, typing out Gothic paradigms for a quiz later tonight), but a google search should bring it back. If you've not gotten hold of it by the time I get home in the evening, I'll try to dig it up again.

Anyhow, if you take Amazon as any kind of model for the actual book market, these people sell books in a league with Stephen King and Tolkien, who are right above them on the list.

Plus, anecdotally, these books have been passed around and used in the churches and especially youth groups of a fair number of my friends, people who are far from right-wing nutjobs and who attend fairly average, mainstream Christian churches. This is true even in Athens, which is a little island of progressive politics and religion in the midst of the largely conservative state.

These things are fairly mainstream, getting space in bookshops and grocery stores all around here.


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The BSA is essentially no different than the organization your" family used to support". It's just been forced to make some unpleasant decisions.

Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.


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The BSA is essentially no different than the organization your" family used to support". It's just been forced to make some unpleasant decisions.

Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.

How ad hominem of you...

I'm amazed at how you can (at times) demonstrate a high level of intelligence and education, and then make incredible displays of ignorance and shallow thinking.


Tyndall,

You're right about one of those books being #1 for 2001. Apparently, sales went through the roof following 9/11.

In looking for info on these books, I found some interesting stuff on the publisher's (or writers') website - The Day of Reconning is June 6, 2006 (6/6/6).

You better get right with the Lord before it's too late!!!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:


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Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.

Uh, not to pick sides, but the BSA was founded in 1910.

Thorne may be old, but he ain't THAT old.


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Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.

Uh, not to pick sides, but the BSA was founded in 1910.

Thorne may be old, but he ain't THAT old.

I wasn't around when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor, either.


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Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.

Uh, not to pick sides, but the BSA was founded in 1910.

Thorne may be old, but he ain't THAT old.

I wasn't around when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor, either.

The Germans didn't bomb Pearl Harbor; it was a conspiracy invented by the liberal media.

Is my sarcasm always this indistinguishable?


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I don't have time or patience for your s--- this morning. I don't name names of people I know personally when relating stories about them that are pertinent to the present situation. If you want to live your life with blinders on, that's fine by me.

I don't get upset at being called names or derogatory words in regards to anything having to do with my personal appearance, but it really pisses me off when someone, completely unprovoked, calls me a bigot, and I'd be lying if I said it didn't sting more coming from you. Because I know some bigots and their ideologies; they're on the side of the family that I don't talk to anymore. And if you had any inclination to read anything beyond your usual bait-material and ideological correlatives, you'd see that in my second post on this topic, I said I'd support the BSA if they were anything today like the organization they were before becoming overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives. Before anyone ever heard of the Defense of Marriage Act, the BSA had no policy in effect that could be described as discriminatory. Since that's changed, I consider it detrimental to the interests of all boys and girls involved in the organization, because the primary focus is no longer on them.


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In looking for info on these books, I found some interesting stuff on the publisher's (or writers') website - The Day of Reconning is June 6, 2006 (6/6/6).

You better get right with the Lord before it's too late!!!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock:

Can I quote this so that on June 7, 2006 we can again see another example of religious bullshit?


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Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.

Uh, not to pick sides, but the BSA was founded in 1910.

Thorne may be old, but he ain't THAT old.

I wasn't around when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor, either.

The Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Wow care to cite that?


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I don't have time or patience for your s--- this morning. I don't name names of people I know personally when relating stories about them that are pertinent to the present situation. If you want to live your life with blinders on, that's fine by me.

I don't get upset at being called names or derogatory words in regards to anything having to do with my personal appearance, but it really pisses me off when someone, completely unprovoked, calls me a bigot, and I'd be lying if I said it didn't sting more coming from you. Because I know some bigots and their ideologies; they're on the side of the family that I don't talk to anymore. And if you had any inclination to read anything beyond your usual bait-material and ideological correlatives, you'd see that in my second post on this topic, I said I'd support the BSA if they were anything today like the organization they were before becoming overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives. Before anyone ever heard of the Defense of Marriage Act, the BSA had no policy in effect that could be described as discriminatory. Since that's changed, I consider it detrimental to the interests of all boys and girls involved in the organization, because the primary focus is no longer on them.

Usually, I enjoy arguing with you, but you're really just being a jerk here.

Her friend got kicked out of the boy scouts because he marched in a pride parade, and you just called her a liar about it. That's way unnecessary.


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Was this sarcasm, too?

In order to prevent what's left of your brain from shortcircuiting, no, the excerpt you quoted wasn't meant sarcastically. But take from it what you will; you didn't exactly jump to respond the first time around.


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The Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Wow care to cite that?

Don't tell me you never saw "Animal House"....


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Another fine example of intolerance - in the name of tolerance.

Can someone show me where BSA prohibits gay or atheist boys from participating in their programs?

My friend was a highly touted eagle scout and was planning on being a scout leader and volunteering as much of his time as possible to give back to the BSA. He was apparently seen marching in a Pride parade on TV; the next day the organization cut off all contact with him.

BLB,

How old was your friend when this happened?

What did you mean by "you didn't exactly jump to respond the first time around"? I may have ignored some of your bogus claims, but I don't recall ducking any of your points.


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Don't tell me you never saw "Animal House"....

I actually haven't but I might go pick it up now...


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Don't tell me you never saw "Animal House"....

I actually haven't but I might go pick it up now...

You should... it's a classic movie.

Anyway, there's a scene towards the end, where the fraternity guys are trying to rally support, and Belushi's character goes on a rant:

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D-Day (Bruce McGill): War's over, man. Wormer dropped the big one.

Bluto: Over? Did you say "over"? Nothing is over until we decide it is! Was it over when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Hell no!

Otter (Tim Matheson): [whispering] Germans?

Boon (Peter Riegert): Forget it, he's rolling.


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BTW, the results of that particular case didn't absolve the BSA of discrimination, in fact, it said that they did dioscriminate, and could becasue of their status as a private club. so it really doesn't go a long way towards supporting your assertion that they don't exclude kids based on sexual orientation.

reading thru the findings, it seemed to me that, as long as the scout makes no mention of sexual orientation, he or she is good to go. once outed though, it's the old frye boot for you, Brucey-woocey! Or, Brucella.

This case has/had nothing to do with "excluding kids based on sexual orientation". Get your facts straight.


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Lots of Christians disavow many of the rules of the old testament, while cheerfully keeping with the ones that confirm their prejudices. Note the anti-gay passages in the old testament and the adherance to that passage of many (especially evangelical) branches, while these people think nothing of eating shrimp or catfish, and certainly don't mind wearing fabrics of mixed materials.

Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

If Jesus, by some miracle actually returned, you'd just nail him right back up again.

Islam is no more natively hateful than Christianity or Buddhism. In modern Islam, however, we do see the dangers of fundamentalism that are arising to a lesser extent in modern America.


p.s. I'm pointedly not too stupid to see your point; I'm actually a fairly clever guy. Clever enough, it seems, to see the things about modern Christianity you'd rather not pay any attention to.

Hmm, well you can turn right to the new testament book of romans, chpt 1 and read wht it has to say about homosexuality. But there is no excuse or reason to be hateful or angry at the people, just stand up for what you believe. I think thats all that PTC has done. You don't know too much about the religions that you hate, do you?


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I'm unaware of any prohibitive policies regarding religion or sexual orientation, for boys in any of their programs.

As a former scoutmaster for a BSA troop in my area, I was familiar with all the policies published to units regarding eligibility for membership.

There is no specific prohibition of gay or athiest youth from joining the program. There is a requirement for the first rank (scout) that reads "Understand and agree to live by the Scout Oath or Promise, Law, motto, and slogan, and the Outdoor Code." (http://meritbadge.com/adv/join.htm) The first two lines of the Oath are
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That's as close as it gets to prohibiting an athiest scout. Some interpretations of that are that an athiest scout has no duty to God and therefor that section of the oath is a null statement. It's all up to the scoutmaster and the board of review (troop comittee) at that point to determine membership eligilbility.

There isn't to my knowledge written prohibition of adult scouters, but I have been told in training that BSA does not accept openly gay adult members.

There was a fairly high profile case in the northwest a few years ago where a scout had his eagle rank revoked for not declaring his belief in God or even in just a "higher power". The local administration did not want to remove his rank and were trying to give him an out to just declare his belief in a "higher power" but he stuck to his guns and had his rank was pulled.

The prohibition of gay scouts comes from the unit itself from what I can see. Either scouts, the scoutmaster, or the comittee will make the gay scout uncomfortable and he will leave (damn shame too... I've known some that were good scouts in many ways). I've actually had a comittee member tell me "that boy needs to find a different troop to join" referring to a rather effemenite young boy who was a potential recruit into our troop.

When I ran the troop, I didn't tolerate singling out of a scout based on his skills, appearance, or demeanor. I had the occaisional scout that had to sing for his dinner because he left something behind and someone found it (leave your book behind, someone finds it with your name on it, and you sing "I'm a little teapot" for your dinner).


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Considering that the BSA wasn't even formed yet when you were growing up, I question your insight regarding the notion that the BSA was 'forced' to make said unpleasant decisions.

Uh, not to pick sides, but the BSA was founded in 1910.

Thorne may be old, but he ain't THAT old.

I wasn't around when the Germans bombed Pearl Harbor, either.

The Germans bombed Pearl Harbor? Wow care to cite that?

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As early as 1978, the Boy Scouts of America circulated a memorandum with national executive staff explicitly stating that they held the Scout Oath and Law to be incompatible with homosexuality. Similarly, since at least 1985, the BSA has explicitly interpreted the Scout Oath and Law as being incompatible with agnosticism and atheism. In both instances, the organization asserted that it was not a "new policy" to expel atheists and gays -- rather, the BSA argued it was just enforcing long-held policies which had never been published or publicly challenged.
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Position on atheists and agnostics

The Boy Scouts of America's position is that agnostics and atheists cannot participate as Scouters (BSA registered adult leader volunteers and salaried employees), Scouts (youth members), or chartered organizations (Scouting unit hosts):

"The Boy Scouts of America maintains that no member can grow into the best kind of citizen without recognizing an obligation to God. In the first part of the Scout Oath or Promise the member declares, ‘On my honor I will do my best to do my duty to God and my country and to obey the Scout Law.’ The recognition of God as the ruling and leading power in the universe and the grateful acknowledgment of His favors and blessings are necessary to the best type of citizenship and are wholesome precepts in the education of the growing members." [2]

The BSA believes that an atheist or agnostic is not an appropriate role model of the Scout Oath and Law for boys and thus will not accept such adults as leaders.[1] The Boy Scouts of America prohibits youths and adults who do not agree to the Scout Oath, which includes the provision of doing ones "duty to God".
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Position on homosexuals

The Boy Scouts of America's position is that known or avowed homosexuals cannot participate as Scouters (BSA registered adult leader volunteers and salaried employees), Scouts (youth members), or chartered organizations (Scouting unit hosts):

"The BSA believes that homosexual conduct is inconsistent with the obligations in the Scout Oath and Scout Law to be morally straight and clean in thought, word, and deed. The conduct of youth members must be in compliance with the Scout Oath and Law, and membership in Boy Scouts of America is contingent upon the willingness to accept Scouting’s values and beliefs." [3]

Since 1981, openly-gay youths and adults have been officially prohibited from joining the BSA. Some people claim that the BSA allows openly gay youths to join or does not expel them; however, the BSA's policy of prohibition is clear. The reason for this misconception may be that none of the publicized disputes between BSA and a gay person involved a person under the age of 18. The only publicly known case involving a youth was a Scout summer camp staff member employed by a local Scout council. [4]

The language used to describe the BSA's policy's on homosexuals has evolved over time. Prior to 2004, the policy explicitly stated:

"We do not allow for the registration of avowed homosexuals as members or as leaders of the BSA."

In 2004, the BSA composed a new policy statement that is somewhat more ambiguous:

"Boy Scouts of America believes that homosexual conduct is inconsistent with the obligations in the Scout Oath and Scout Law to be morally straight and clean in thought, word, and deed. The conduct of youth members must be in compliance with the Scout Oath and Law, and membership in Boy Scouts of America is contingent upon the willingness to accept Scouting’s values and beliefs. Most boys join Scouting when they are 10 or 11 years old. As they continue in the program, all Scouts are expected to take leadership positions. In the unlikely event that an older boy were to hold himself out as homosexual, he would not be able to continue in a youth leadership position."



I guess you and all the rest of the wingniuts don't mind the gays as long as they stay in the closet, I'll side with the socalled ultra liberals on this

some rich guy should pay for their berth at the docks if they feel it is an important part of scouting in the bay area


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Hmm, well you can turn right to the new testament book of romans, chpt 1 and read wht it has to say about homosexuality. But there is no excuse or reason to be hateful or angry at the people, just stand up for what you believe. I think thats all that PTC has done. You don't know too much about the religions that you hate, do you?

Oh, fer crap's sake, I don't hate religions. Heck, I'm a huge fan of reading about them, especially the older ones in the older languages.

Standing up for your religion is noble. Oppressing others in the name of religion (i.e. forbidding gay marriage, requiring prayer in schools, teaching christian creation mythology in science classes, getting in some kind of silly uproar when a cashier tells you 'happy holidays' instead of 'merry christmas,' feeling somehow oppressed when people want your religion to carry the same status in public life as other religions, etc. etc.) is the opposite of noble.


Mark 4:7 (at least in the Gothic bible I have at hand) is apropos here:
And a certain [seed] fell among thorns, and the thorns rose up and choked it, and it gave no fruit.

What we're seeing is the rise of the thorns.


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How old was your friend when this happened?

He was 22 when he told me about it, but I believe the Pride episode was after his senior year of high school when he was 17. He was seeking the scouting job as an adult.

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What did you mean by "you didn't exactly jump to respond the first time around"? I may have ignored some of your bogus claims, but I don't recall ducking any of your points.

Because it wasn't included in your initial response to the post in which it was included.

Off of rhaig's comment about prohibition of 'openly gay' adult scout leaders: 'Openly gay,' as far as the BSA is concerned, references individuals who actually are openly gay, as well as others who have been accused as such. Like I said previously, it's not a 'Don't ask, don't tell' situation.


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Position Statement on the Cradle of Liberty Council's Stance Regarding the Leadership Standards of the Boy Scouts of America
Monday, June 9th, 2003, 9 a.m.
Recently the Cradle of Liberty Council Board of Directors held discussions concerning a non-discrimination disclosure that the council has signed in order to qualify for United Way funds. These United Way funds are used specifically for the council's Learning for Life program at the request of the local United Way executive board.

This non-discrimination disclosure was directed to the use of United Way funds in the Learning for Life program and was not, and was not intended to be, an indication of any desire by the board to depart from the National Council policies nor should it be construed as any indication that Cradle of Liberty Council will fail to uphold any policies of the Boy Scouts of America.

The Learning for Life program working through schools, businesses and other community organizations delivers values based programs to thousands of children. This program is not a membership program and selection of the adults who deliver the program is up to the institution that sponsors the program.

The Cradle of Liberty Council is chartered by the National Council, Boy Scouts of America to conduct its various programs in Philadelphia, Delaware and Montgomery Counties. As such the local council affirms that it will carry out all policies as set forth by the national organization.

Cradle of Liberty Council, Boy Scouts of America is strongly committed to the moral and spiritual development of Scouting youth in accordance with the values in the Scout Oath and Law. In the Oath and Law, the Boy Scout promises to do his duty to God and to be morally straight, as well as to be clean in his thoughts, words and deeds.

The traditional membership programs of Cub Scouting, Boy Scouting, Varsity Scouting and Venturing have specific requirements and standards of leadership pertaining to all volunteers of which there are approximately 10,000 registered in this council.

Applications for leadership and membership do not inquire into sexual orientation. However, an individual who declares himself to be a homosexual would not be permitted to join Scouting. All members in Scouting must affirm the values of the Scout Oath and Law, and all leaders must be able to model those values for youth.

Consistent with the obligations of the Scout Oath and Law, Scouting teaches youth to show tolerance and respect for all human beings. The Scout Law requires youth to be helpful, friendly, courteous, and kind to all, and Scouts are taught to be respectful of those whose views may be different from their own. Scouting teaches both tolerance and clear moral values. Tolerance for all does not mean that all behavior must be accepted as appropriate for those in Scouting.
http://www.scouting.org/...30612/statement.html


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Hmm, well you can turn right to the new testament book of romans, chpt 1 and read wht it has to say about homosexuality. But there is no excuse or reason to be hateful or angry at the people, just stand up for what you believe. I think thats all that PTC has done. You don't know too much about the religions that you hate, do you?

Oh, fer crap's sake, I don't hate religions. Heck, I'm a huge fan of reading about them, especially the older ones in the older languages.

Standing up for your religion is noble. Oppressing others in the name of religion (i.e. forbidding gay marriage, requiring prayer in schools, teaching christian creation mythology in science classes, getting in some kind of silly uproar when a cashier tells you 'happy holidays' instead of 'merry christmas,' feeling somehow oppressed when people want your religion to carry the same status in public life as other religions, etc. etc.) is the opposite of noble.


Mark 4:7 (at least in the Gothic bible I have at hand) is apropos here:
And a certain [seed] fell among thorns, and the thorns rose up and choked it, and it gave no fruit.

What we're seeing is the rise of the thorns.

Hey, you know what styndall, I didn't even make the connection that it was your post I was responding to or I probably wouldn't have said you don't know too much, sorry, (though I'm sure we all have learned not to take posts personally). I think your right about the thorn thing, 100%. But they will be dealt with in due time, hopefully soon.


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Recently the Cradle of Liberty Council Board of Directors .....

that's the position of that specific council. I'm in a different council. (not that ours probably didn't issue something similar about the time the United Way pulled BSA funding, but I never saw it)


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Recently the Cradle of Liberty Council Board of Directors .....

that's the position of that specific council. I'm in a different council. (not that ours probably didn't issue something similar about the time the United Way pulled BSA funding, but I never saw it)

Maybe I was reading between the lines a bit too much, but it looked like something that a local council had put out in response to having their committment to the issue called into question, then posted on the parent organization's website, "for the record."


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I believe it's a sin to be a practicing homosexual. However, we all sin. I have no desire to "oppress" anyone. That said, I will stand up for what I believe when pushed against a wall (forcing the re-definition of marriage, for instance). Our laws define what we believe and value as a country. If you want a law changed, you better be able to show why. "Because I want everyone to condone my behavior" isn't a valid reason. Screaming that everyohne who doesn't agree with you is "oppressive" makes you sound like a whiny 2 year old. Being a practicing homosexual is a choice. I don't doubt some people tend to be attracted to people of the same sex. I tend to love getting high and driving way too fast. I mean I REALLY love it. Gave up drugs a long time ago, and I take it to the track or way out in the country these days. Sometimes we have to control our impulses for our own good, or the good of society. I love women, but for the sake of my family, wife, and society (not to mention my beliefs), I'm a faithful husband. It's going to be a sad world when the most base desires define our laws and what we value.


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that's the position of that specific council...

Maybe, but it's a view that's sanctioned by the BSA. I was an assistant coach for a year with a high school rowing club that was affiliated with the local scouts council for insurance purposes. All we as coaches had to do was to sign up as volunteers for the 'venture' program (I can't remember the exact name... it was like signing up to be an alternate in case they ever needed an interim leader), but the form was on BSA letterhead, and signing up meant abiding by all of the BSA's oaths and policies. After the divide within the BSA gained national attention, our group (though this was before my time) put enough pressure on the local council to change their policies that they actually had to sever all ties with the BSA in order to do so. The problem that the Berkeley Sea Scouts faced was similar. So essentially, in order to be an active subsidiary of the BSA, a club that doesn't have a problem with homosexual individuals cannot 'out' itself, which is sadly appropriate given the larger issue.


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Being a practicing homosexual is a choice. I don't doubt some people tend to be attracted to people of the same sex. I tend to love getting high and driving way too fast. I mean I REALLY love it. Gave up drugs a long time ago, and I take it to the track or way out in the country these days...

The fact that it took five pages for this proverbial drivel to show up astonishes me. And, like Katie Holmes and scientology, I'm still going to allow myself to succumb to the inanity.

By your analogy, are you saying that 1) gays should be quarantined somewhere out in the country (though hopefully not Laramie, for obvious reasons), or 2) gay experiences are akin to illegal intoxicants? Please clarify.

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Sometimes we have to control our impulses for our own good, or the good of society. I love women, but for the sake of my family, wife, and society (not to mention my beliefs), I'm a faithful husband. It's going to be a sad world when the most base desires define our laws and what we value.

Can you please explain where, in all of your circuitous reasoning, the private behavior of two [or] individuals of the same gender threatens your beliefs and your family? And how your rationale as to why homosexuality should not be sanctioned in the law is any different than people who wish to fit the law to their beliefs? Is your spirituality that transparent?


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Edited: I don't think what I originally wrote was too funny. It may have hit a little close to home.


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Can you please explain where, in all of your circuitous reasoning, the private behavior of two [or] individuals of the same gender threatens your beliefs and your family? And how your rationale as to why homosexuality should not be sanctioned in the law is any different than people who wish to fit the law to their beliefs? Is your spirituality that transparent?

MY circuitous reasoning?!?! You call it "private behavior", but I can't turn the TV on without hearing about it, and they want society and I to accept it to the point of passing laws recognizing and validating the behavior. You want to be homosexual? I think it's a poor choice, but fine, keep it behind closed doors. You want to smoke weed? Do it in your house and grow your own. What we do affects others whether we like to admit it or not. Every selfish impulse we give in to has negative consequences.

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The fact that it took five pages for this proverbial drivel to show up astonishes me. And, like Katie Holmes and scientology, I'm still going to allow myself to succumb to the inanity.

By your analogy, are you saying that 1) gays should be quarantined somewhere out in the country (though hopefully not Laramie, for obvious reasons), or 2) gay experiences are akin to illegal intoxicants? Please clarify.

Gays should consider the consequences of acting on their impulses instead of trying to tell themselves it's OK by working relentlessly to make society accept them.

I'm still waiting for the reasons why we should legalize gay marriage other than "Because we want to". Feel free to chime in....


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You call it "private behavior", but I can't turn the TV on without hearing about it, and they want society and I to accept it to the point of passing laws recognizing and validating the behavior. You want to be homosexual? I think it's a poor choice, but fine, keep it behind closed doors. You want to smoke weed? Do it in your house and grow your own. What we do affects others whether we like to admit it or not. Every selfish impulse we give in to has negative consequences.

As I've said previously, the publicity of gay marriage and gay related issues would not be prominent at all if it wasn't constantly blown out of proportion by fearful and insecure individuals and groups who oppose it.

As for keeping it behind closed doors, try this for a week - or even just for one day. Go out in public without holding your wife's hand or showing her any signs of affection. And when you're alone and people ask if you're attached, tell them about your wife but only by referring to her as your 'partner,' while using gender neutral terms. See if that doesn't drive you insane for more than an hour.

As for homosexuality being a choice? The only choice involved is whether or not you express what's a part of you, or whether you enter into a vicious cycle of denial and self loathing. If you're advocating keeping the 'choice' to yourself, go ahead and start advocating on behalf of masochism, because that's exactly what it is.

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Gays should consider the consequences of acting on their impulses instead of trying to tell themselves it's OK by working relentlessly to make society accept them.

The only reason it's a challenge to tell yourself that it's ok if you have sexual feelings for and towards people of the same gender is because it's such a shunned topic. You probably never [consciously] questioned your heterosexuality at an early age because it wasn't forbidden territory. And in direct response to your above statement, those who oppose gay marriage, adoption, etc. due to its 'threat' to society should cease projecting their own personal issues onto others in the manner you've clearly demonstrated.

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I'm still waiting for the reasons why we should legalize gay marriage other than "Because we want to". Feel free to chime in....

Because, as devoted partners - like you purport to be in your marriage - it's nice to be able to recognize that legally. Because partners want to be able to leave their possessions to their partners. Because they want to visit each other in the hospital. Because it's unconstitutional NOT to allow two people of the same gender to form a union in the eyes of the law. Because it doesn't invade religion. Because adoptable children deserve two loving parents over an orphanage any day. Because it's economically beneficial across the board. Because it reinforces the strength of the concept of marriage in a secular manner, upholding separation of church and state.

Because it is un-American to stipulate that only people that meet certain demographic requirements be allowed to pursue happiness.


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Because it's unconstitutional NOT to allow two people of the same gender to form a union in the eyes of the law.

How about three?


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Why are homosexuals so determined to marry?

The church created, defined and upheld marriage for thousands of years before anyone started demanding that homosexuals be allowed to do it too.

Why does it make sense to demand that the church change an instution which it created? Why don't homosexuals just create an institution of their own?


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This is a very good point. The church should be treated as a private institution, and therefore be able to choose to whom it should offer its services. At the same time, all legal rights/benefits associated with "marriage" should be removed. These benefits should instead be obtained by filling out a form and sending it to the correct public office.

This is also the opinion of GOD:


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Then the Pharisees went and took counsel how they might entrap him in his talk. They sent their disciples to him, along with the Herodians, saying, "Teacher, we know that you are honest, and teach the way of God in truth, no matter who you teach, for you aren't partial to anyone. Tell us therefore, what do you think? Is it lawful to pay taxes to Caesar, or not?"
But Jesus perceived their wickedness, and said, "Why do you test me, you hypocrites? Show me the tax money."
They brought to him a denarius.
He asked them, "Whose is this image and inscription?"
They said to him, "Caesar's."
Then he said to them, "Give therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's."
When they heard it, they marveled, and left him, and went away.

Remember, it's not required to belong to a church to be a christian.


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Why are homosexuals so determined to marry?

The church created, defined and upheld marriage for thousands of years before anyone started demanding that homosexuals be allowed to do it too.

Why does it make sense to demand that the church change an instution which it created? Why don't homosexuals just create an institution of their own?

Ironically, (some) homosexuals feel they are entitled to completely rewrite the definition of marriage, to insure that they get certain rights that they never previously had.... and they think that by not being given these newly thought up rights, they are somehow being marginalized.

Talk about your sense of entitlement. :roll:

BSA seems to be a popular target for lawsuits by gay or atheist groups. Can anyone produce a single discrimination case, involving any boys active in the scouts?


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Why are homosexuals so determined to marry?

The church created, defined and upheld marriage for thousands of years before anyone started demanding that homosexuals be allowed to do it too.

Why does it make sense to demand that the church change an instution which it created? Why don't homosexuals just create an institution of their own?

Ironically, (some) homosexuals feel they are entitled to completely rewrite the definition of marriage, to insure that they get certain rights that they never previously had.... and they think that by not being given these newly thought up rights, they are somehow being marginalized.

Of course, by 'newly thought up rights,' you mean rights currently enjoyed only by heterosexual people.

Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed. Curiously enough, the church didn't create marriage at all. Otherwise, pre-Christian Rome wouldn't have had marriages, nor would the Indo-Aryans and Hittites have documented marriage-types long before the Hebrews.

Differing ideas of family structure in various parts of the world have yielded vastly different ideas and senses of connection. Anthropologists call these "kinship systems," and a little research would do you some good.

I'm sure that instead, you'll get back to ignoring the fundamental truths of history, because that way, it's easier to keep gay people from having the same rights you do.


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Hmm, well you can turn right to the new testament book of romans, chpt 1 and read wht it has to say about homosexuality. But there is no excuse or reason to be hateful or angry at the people, just stand up for what you believe. I think thats all that PTC has done. You don't know too much about the religions that you hate, do you?

Oh, fer crap's sake, I don't hate religions. Heck, I'm a huge fan of reading about them, especially the older ones in the older languages.

That would explain:
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Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

This looks like a poorly considered example of using the behavior of a very minor group to make sweeping assertions about Christianity in America.

Please tell us which mainstream denominations are recommending these books - The Roman Catholic Church? The United Methodist Church? PCUSA? PCA? ECUSA?


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Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed.

Good job nobody here said it has been then.


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Why are homosexuals so determined to marry?

The church created, defined and upheld marriage for thousands of years before anyone started demanding that homosexuals be allowed to do it too.

Why does it make sense to demand that the church change an instution which it created? Why don't homosexuals just create an institution of their own?


How long has the church been supporting pederasts?


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Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed.

Good job nobody here said it has been then.

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The church created, defined and upheld marriage for thousands of years before anyone started demanding that homosexuals be allowed to do it too.


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Of course, by 'newly thought up rights,' you mean rights currently enjoyed only by heterosexual people.

Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed.

Only heterosexual people? How "newspeak" of you. :lol:

No doubt the exact definition has shifted over the milleniums, but has there been a time when it involved a union that wasn't between a man and a woman?


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you shouldnt mix the "church" marriage (or wedding) with "legal" (or state) marriage.

legal mariage is just a means for officially registering a partnership.


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Hmm, well you can turn right to the new testament book of romans, chpt 1 and read wht it has to say about homosexuality. But there is no excuse or reason to be hateful or angry at the people, just stand up for what you believe. I think thats all that PTC has done. You don't know too much about the religions that you hate, do you?

Oh, fer crap's sake, I don't hate religions. Heck, I'm a huge fan of reading about them, especially the older ones in the older languages.

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Likewise, many mainstream denominations recommend the "Left Behind" books for their followers, and those, besides being atrocious prose distinctly unworthy of their status as best sellers, are a sort of hateful pornography of self-righteousness, glorying in the death and destruction of millions, so long as those millions are the wrong kinds of people (athiests, Muslims, Buddhists, gays, people who maintain their lawns outside of the specification of their homeowners associations, etc). Yet there is no outrage about this in mainstream Christianity. These people are selling you smug self-righteousness, morally-acceptabe hate, and the religious joy of genocide, and somehow the Christian mainstream eats it with a spoon and begs for more.

This looks like a poorly considered example of using the behavior of a very minor group to make sweeping assertions about Christianity in America.

Please tell us which mainstream denominations are recommending these books - The Roman Catholic Church? The United Methodist Church? PCUSA? PCA? ECUSA?


Baptist ministries fairly commonly use them. A quick google search revealed a number of speaking engagements for the authors at Baptist conferences. You yourself already discovered that one of these was the best-selling novel of 2001, and you can bet it wasn't Hindus doing the buying.

Perhaps I should limit my statements more to the evangelical mainstream. However, they're the visible ones, and other Christian denominations don't make themselves heard. As has often been said of Muslims world-wide, where's the outrage?

And I don't hate religion, despite your accusations to the contrary. There is great promise in the tenets of Christianity, as they come through the new testament. However, those tenents seem to have given away to the fight to keep gay people from gaining full recognition as equal citizens of the republic, while newly-built megachurches show that the moneychangers are pointedly back in the temple.


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Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed. Curiously enough, the church didn't create marriage at all. Otherwise, pre-Christian Rome wouldn't have had marriages, nor would the Indo-Aryans and Hittites have documented marriage-types long before the Hebrews.

Differing ideas of family structure in various parts of the world have yielded vastly different ideas and senses of connection. Anthropologists call these "kinship systems," and a little research would do you some good.

I'm sure that instead, you'll get back to ignoring the fundamental truths of history, because that way, it's easier to keep gay people from having the same rights you do.

You really do have a knack for pulling up obscure points in an effort to muddy the waters.

Since you seem to know so much about the histories of marriage, perhaps you can give us some examples of Gay Marriage having mainstream acceptance in developed societies throughout the ages.


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Of course, by 'newly thought up rights,' you mean rights currently enjoyed only by heterosexual people.

Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed.

Only heterosexual people? How "newspeak" of you. :lol:

No doubt the exact definition has shifted over the milleniums, but has there been a time when it involved a union that wasn't between a man and a woman?

c.f. Sparta

c.f. pederastical system of Greece

c.f. poetry of catullus

c.f. kinship systems of native americans

c.f. polygamous unions in recent US history

There have been lots of systems. You're fooling yourself about history, and it's a shame. You have the potential to be understanding.

That's not the point, though. The point is that any basic sense of fairness dictates that you should extend to your fellow human beings those rights you crave for yourself. Do unto others as you would have them do unto, and everyone will be happier. Yet you won't. You insist on rules that hurt gay people, and benefit you none. It's cruel and unconscionable.

But I guess you're the religious man, so your cruelty, your unfairness is justified by god.

It's all okay, then.


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You really do have a knack for pulling up obscure points in an effort to muddy the waters.

Since you seem to know so much about the histories of marriage, perhaps you can give us some examples of Gay Marriage having mainstream acceptance in developed societies throughout the ages.

These are not obscure points muddying waters. This is history. This is the way the world works.

You choose to ignore it, thereby refusing to understand the way in which cultures and ideas have shifted through-out history.

Under normal circumstances, this would be no skin off my nose. What account is the ignorance of another man? But this time, your ignorance is a common one, one common enough that it's an excuse to hurt people. You've been framing this debate so far, but it's ridiculous. Every citation you've asked for, I've given. My data is right. That's enough.

Fucking justify your prejudice.

My (guy) friend's boyfriend got in a car accident and ended up in the hospital. My friend wasn't allowed in to see him. Fucking justify that.


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Baptist ministries fairly commonly use them. A quick google search revealed a number of speaking engagements for the authors at Baptist conferences. You yourself already discovered that one of these was the best-selling novel of 2001, and you can bet it wasn't Hindus doing the buying.
More than likely, it was Christians - in repsonse to the "prophetic" attack on 9/11

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Perhaps I should limit my statements more to the evangelical mainstream. However, they're the visible ones, and other Christian denominations don't make themselves heard. As has often been said of Muslims world-wide, where's the outrage?
Maybe if these "End Days" believers start flying commercial planes into our buildings we'll see more outrage.

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And I don't hate religion, despite your accusations to the contrary. There is great promise in the tenets of Christianity, as they come through the new testament. However, those tenents seem to have given away to the fight to keep gay people from gaining full recognition as equal citizens of the republic, while newly-built megachurches show that the moneychangers are pointedly back in the temple.
I might be more inclined to believe you if you ever had anything positive to say about Christianity in this country.


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The point is that any basic sense of fairness dictates that you should extend to your fellow human beings those rights you crave for yourself.

Rights require qualification.

I can't have the right to bear children because I'm not a woman.

I can't have the right to be gay because I'm not sexually attracted to men.

I can't have the right to be an award-winning author because I can't write well.

Gay couples cannot marry because they are not of the opposite gender to each other.

We have basic human rights which we are born with. Every other right requires qualification.


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My (guy) friend's boyfriend got in a car accident and ended up in the hospital. My friend wasn't allowed in to see him. Fucking justify that.

That's the law isn't it?

Or do you think we should have a right to break the law without penalty as and when it's convenient?


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And I don't hate religion, despite your accusations to the contrary. There is great promise in the tenets of Christianity, as they come through the new testament. However, those tenents seem to have given away to the fight to keep gay people from gaining full recognition as equal citizens of the republic, while newly-built megachurches show that the moneychangers are pointedly back in the temple.
I might be more inclined to believe you if you ever had anything positive to say about Christianity in this country.

I'd be more inclined to conclude that you didn't hate gay people if you ever had anything good to say about them.

But ultimately, you don't give a shit. Maybe you've never had a close gay friend, so you've never seen what they go through on a routine basis. You don't hear the "Hey, faggot!" yelled from the passing trucks, you don't see the assholes throwing elbows in a crowd, you've never been up front and center for a vicious verbal assault, like the one a different friend of mine endured last week, where the proprietor of a cemetary he was walking past yelled "You'll burn in hell, you little butt-fucking faggot!"

And ultimately, you don't want to. It might mean you'd have to own up to your obvious prejudice, and you might have to understand in actual terms the harm that it does.


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Ironically, (some) homosexuals feel they are entitled to completely rewrite the definition of marriage, to insure that they get certain rights that they never previously had....

You mean rights like not being turned down from a job because your private consentual actions were considered illegal in many areas until 2003? Or not being subject to 'legal' harassment in many public institutions including schools because of a lack of a mandatory non-harassment policy that includes being gay? Or not having your lifestyle listed as a psychological disease until 30 years ago? Where marriage is concerned, the explanation I listed above should suffice. Oh, and then there's that little thing called the 14th Amendment...

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...and they think that by not being given these newly thought up rights, they are somehow being marginalized.

Talk about your sense of entitlement. :roll:

Because there was a time in the history of America, at least, where gays WEREN'T marginalized???

As for the BSA, I personally think it's wrong for the government to intervene in their activities and policies as a private group. This is a stance I've always had, because private groups that aren't breaking the law should be entitled to continue as such. My problem is with the BSA's inconsistency - they'll be a pseudo-public group, expecting entitlement to things that public non-profit groups are entitled to, then stand behind the 'private group' argument when it's socially convenient.

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you shouldnt mix the "church" marriage (or wedding) with "legal" (or state) marriage.

legal mariage is just a means for officially registering a partnership.

Couldn't have said it better myself. This is why the argument can be made for secular gay marriage to reinforce the separation of church from state in America, because it's a legal institution no church ever has to recognize, but without detriment to society. If religious institutions would view it as such, there would be no problem. Since there is such controversy, that speaks volumes about our ability to distinguish the two.

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Since you seem to know so much about the histories of marriage, perhaps you can give us some examples of Gay Marriage having mainstream acceptance in developed societies throughout the ages.
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No doubt the exact definition has shifted over the milleniums, but has there been a time when it involved a union that wasn't between a man and a woman?
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Please tell us which mainstream denominations are recommending these books - The Roman Catholic Church? The United Methodist Church? PCUSA? PCA? ECUSA?
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Can anyone produce a single discrimination case, involving any boys active in the scouts?

If the answers matter so much to you, then take an elementary 1st year college course and learn to do your own fucking research.


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My (guy) friend's boyfriend got in a car accident and ended up in the hospital. My friend wasn't allowed in to see him. f---ing justify that.

That's the law isn't it?

Or do you think we should have a right to break the law without penalty as and when it's convenient?

There was a law here in Georgia saying black people would have to use seperate facilities to white people, another law saying a black person would have to give up a seat to a white person, another law saying a black person could never marry a white person.

I guess they should have just shut up and gotten along, because we can't break the law just 'cause it's convenient.

Oh wait. That's basically evil and abhorrent. I hope you're getting the picture, here.


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Oh wait. That's basically evil and abhorrent. I hope you're getting the picture, here.

No, not really. I can see that you're playing an irrelevant race card to try to win an argument which is making you look increasingly foolish though.

Black people have no choice but to be black. Homosexuals do have a choice about whether to get married.

I notice you completely ignored my comment that rights require qualification, whcih is not surprising considering you can't tell the difference between being black and being gay.


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The point is that any basic sense of fairness dictates that you should extend to your fellow human beings those rights you crave for yourself.

Rights require qualification.

I can't have the right to bear children because I'm not a woman.

I can't have the right to be gay because I'm not sexually attracted to men.

I can't have the right to be an award-winning author because I can't write well.

Gay couples cannot marry because they are not of the opposite gender to each other.

We have basic human rights which we are born with. Every other right requires qualification.

That wins the award for the best confusion of logic in arenas that have nothing to do with each other.

So when the law said that people of different races couldn't marry in America, was that an acceptable law? When the law said that women and minorities weren't allowed to vote in America, was that an acceptable law? Are these basic human rights, or external qualifications? Where's the distinction? You seem to be able to gauge the status quo of what supposedly can and can't be done, and your capacity for thought ends there.

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My (guy) friend's boyfriend got in a car accident and ended up in the hospital. My friend wasn't allowed in to see him. Fucking justify that.


That's the law isn't it?

Or do you think we should have a right to break the law without penalty as and when it's convenient?

Why don't you go ahead and think about that one for a minute...
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Oh wait. That's basically evil and abhorrent. I hope you're getting the picture, here.

No, not really. I can see that you're playing an irrelevant race card to try to win an argument which is making you look increasingly foolish though.

Because equating being gay with your ability to write a book is a natural and logical comparison??

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Black people have no choice but to be black. Homosexuals do have a choice about whether to get married.

So does that mean that if black people had a choice about whether or not to be black, they would choose to be white? And actually, homosexuals do not currently have a choice about whether or not to get married, as federal law prohibits such. But heterosexuals do...

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I notice you completely ignored my comment that rights require qualification, whcih is not surprising considering you can't tell the difference between being black and being gay.

Then please, share with us your definition of 'qualification.' Because your argument is looking pretty irrational at the moment.


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Oh wait. That's basically evil and abhorrent. I hope you're getting the picture, here.

No, not really. I can see that you're playing an irrelevant race card to try to win an argument which is making you look increasingly foolish though.

Black people have no choice but to be black. Homosexuals do have a choice about whether to get married.

I notice you completely ignored my comment that rights require qualification, whcih is not surprising considering you can't tell the difference between being black and being gay.

Blonde_loves_bolts mostly had this covered, but I'm going to respond anyway.

Your point about race versus sexual orientation are ridiculous. I guess black people and white people do have a choice about whether to get married. The logic applies in the same way.

And rights do need some qualification, it's just that you believe that gay people are somehow undeserving of the rights that you would claim for yourself.

For you, this is some kind of little game, wherein keeping gays from having equal treatment under the law earns you some points somewhere, but for lots of people, me included, that attitude and the long history of antagonistic prejudice that comes along with it, is doing direct harm to people I care about.

You're hurting people. Don't forget that that's what this is about. Getting your way means having people suffer needlessly.


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Of course, by 'newly thought up rights,' you mean rights currently enjoyed only by heterosexual people.

Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed.

Only heterosexual people? How "newspeak" of you. :lol:

No doubt the exact definition has shifted over the milleniums, but has there been a time when it involved a union that wasn't between a man and a woman?

c.f. pederastical system of Greece

You mean pedophilia?


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Of course, by 'newly thought up rights,' you mean rights currently enjoyed only by heterosexual people.

Anyone who thinks marriage has been the same for thousands of years is at best ill-informed.

Only heterosexual people? How "newspeak" of you. :lol:

No doubt the exact definition has shifted over the milleniums, but has there been a time when it involved a union that wasn't between a man and a woman?

c.f. pederastical system of Greece

You mean pedophilia?

Yes, I mean pedophilia. I didn't say they were all good systems, but then, marrying very young girls to older men wasn't that awesome an idea by modern standards either, nor the system of prima nocte common in medieval europe (just part of traditional marriage at the time, you understand).

Then again, given the divorce rate, our modern idea of marriage isn't working out so hot, either.

It's a damned funny thing that the state most amenable to gay marriage has one of the lowest divorce rates in the country.


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And rights do need some qualification, it's just that you believe that gay people are somehow undeserving of the rights that you would claim for yourself.

I don't claim them, I qualify for them.

You want the qualifications changed? Ask whoever set them. In the case of marriage, that's the church, and they've said no.

Like I said before, why don't homosexuals just make up their own institution? They've been told no. Why not just accept it and build something of their own?


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And rights do need some qualification, it's just that you believe that gay people are somehow undeserving of the rights that you would claim for yourself.

I don't claim them, I qualify for them.

You want the qualifications changed? Ask whoever set them. In the case of marriage, that's the church, and they've said no.

Like I said before, why don't homosexuals just make up their own institution? They've been told no. Why not just accept it and build something of their own?

Maybe you're just unfamiliar with law in the US, but it ain't the church you have to go to for a marriage license.

As to your last question, it's because it's prejudice and discrimination.

We tried separate but equal before. It doesn't turn out very equal.


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it's prejudice and discrimination.

It's no more prejudice and discrimination than my not being able to be homosexual. I just don't qualify.

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We tried separate but equal before. It doesn't turn out very equal.

Really? When was that?


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And rights do need some qualification, it's just that you believe that gay people are somehow undeserving of the rights that you would claim for yourself.

I don't claim them, I qualify for them.

This isn't a discussion about applying for a bank loan - it's about human rights and civil liberties. You don't present you demographics to a higher power to see which rights you're eligible for.

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You want the qualifications changed? Ask whoever set them. In the case of marriage, that's the church, and they've said no.

The church is not the state, and vice versa; the state is the one responsible for protecting its citizens, which should not be contingent on how loudly the marginalized groups make their case heard. But since we (well, some of us) live in reality, what happens when the governing entity, which is comprised of humans, not higher forces, sanctions inequality regardless of changes in circumstance? Who do you 'talk' to then??

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Like I said before, why don't homosexuals just make up their own institution? They've been told no. Why not just accept it and build something of their own?

Pray (for lack of a better word) you tell us what kind of an institution this would be? And what kind of authority it would have??


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And rights do need some qualification, it's just that you believe that gay people are somehow undeserving of the rights that you would claim for yourself.

I don't claim them, I qualify for them.

You want the qualifications changed? Ask whoever set them. In the case of marriage, that's the church, and they've said no.

Like I said before, why don't homosexuals just make up their own institution? They've been told no. Why not just accept it and build something of their own?


Their own institution does not gain them access to the same equal treatment under the law that heterosexual couples enjoy. I don't think most gay couples that wish to wed are seeking the Pope's permission. They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

There has been a push for equal rights and treatment under the law in this county (and I would venture to say the rest of the civilized world) for quite some time. Look at the 13th, 14th, 15th and 19th amendments to just the US constitution (a document on which many other democratic nation's own constitution is based) to see the progression of this country slowly realizing that all men and women of whatever race should have the same rights as white men.

Sexual orientation is no different. The argument that homosexual marriage would crumble the foundation of such a great institution as is marriage is crap. What crumbles that foundation is people like Brittany Spears who get drunk and married in Las Vegas on Saturday night and annul it on Monday. That sort of shit happens all the time while gay couples who have been in loving, committed, monogamous relationships for decades can't see each other in the hospital when one is involved in a car wreck. They can't adopt children, they can't enjoy the same protection the laws of decent and distribution offers a surviving spouse, they can't walk down the street in most communities holding hands like I do with my wife without being verbally (and sometimes physically) assaulted.

Styndall and BLB are right, there is no justification for it. It is blind prejudice and it is wrong. And anyone who supports it is wrong.


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it's prejudice and discrimination.

It's no more prejudice and discrimination than my not being able to be homosexual. I just don't qualify.

That's at least an original explanation, concerning one's heterosexuality. Still, not being gay is one thing; using that explanation as a means of privileging the demographic(s) that you do fit into is another.

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We tried separate but equal before. It doesn't turn out very equal.

Really? When was that?

Plessy v. Ferguson until Brown v. Board of Education, in the legal sense, anyway.


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Plessy v. Ferguson until Brown v. Board of Education, in the legal sense, anyway.

Neither of those cases has anything to do with sexual orientation and they are therefore irrelevant.

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Pray (for lack of a better word) you tell us what kind of an institution this would be? And what kind of authority it would have??

Why are you asking me to set you up with an alternative to marriage? Why don't you do it yourself?

Ah, here's the truth: not only are you not going to accept that there could be an alternative, you're not even going to try. Instead you're going to keep crying for what you can't have.

What's your plan? Are you going to force churches to perform marriage ceremonies for homosexuals?

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They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

They can have all those rights with just a couple of pieces of paperwork and a brief visit to a lawyer.

But that's not what you really want, is it?


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Their own institution does not gain them access to the same equal treatment under the law that heterosexual couples enjoy. I don't think most gay couples that wish to wed are seeking the Pope's permission. They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

What's wrong with "civil unions"?


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They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

They can have all those rights with just a couple of pieces of paperwork and a brief visit to a lawyer.

But that's not what you really want, is it?


I am a lawyer, and will tell you that no, they cannot have the same rights with a brief visit to a lawyer and a couple of pieces of paper. There are certain rights, in several areas of the law, that a spouse has by virtue of legislation than cannot be by-passed by contract.


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But that's not what you really want, is it?


I'm not sure exactly what this means. I have no hidden agenda. I have no homosexual friends that are more than just distant acquaintences (not by choice, just by circumstance). I am a white, Christian, heterosexual, married man. But above all that I am a human being. Certain things are inherently wrong regardless of what some book says. Denying equal treatment under the law of man (not God's law) solely by reason of one's sexual orientation is wrong. Your belief in your God and how he/she will treat homosexuals has nothing to do with whether or not the state of Tennessee will grant a marriage certificate to a couple of dudes.


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Plessy v. Ferguson until Brown v. Board of Education, in the legal sense, anyway.

Neither of those cases has anything to do with sexual orientation and they are therefore irrelevant.

But again, your comparison of literary aptitude to gays being allowed to marry HAS relevance??

Let's not forget that history repeats itself, though the details and demographics may change. The idea of 'separate but equal' has been proven to be unequal. That time it was about race, currently it seems to be about sexual orientation.

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Pray (for lack of a better word) you tell us what kind of an institution this would be? And what kind of authority it would have??

Why are you asking me to set you up with an alternative to marriage? Why don't you do it yourself?

Ah, here's the truth: not only are you not going to accept that there could be an alternative, you're not even going to try. Instead you're going to keep crying for what you can't have.

Those blinders that surround your eyes must really be starting to chafe. At this point, an 'alternative' is not going to solve anything. This is why the secular institution must modify current policy.

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What's your plan? Are you going to force churches to perform marriage ceremonies for homosexuals?

Do you know how to read?? I just said that SECULAR marriage reinforces the separation of church and state PRECISELY because churches never have to perform a ceremony that they don't want to. Because we're talking about an institution whose originating concepts may have been based on non-secular roots, but that carries much more weight in the legal arena today.

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They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

They can have all those rights with just a couple of pieces of paperwork and a brief visit to a lawyer.

Wrong. The legal and economic privileges associated with marriage are unique to it and cannot be achieved by visiting a lawyer, writing a will and exchanging power of attorney. If it were that simple, this debate probably wouldn't exist. Even in states that have near 'marriage equivalents' like California, the union is null and void once you cross the state line. The secular institution of marriage is more powerful than you think.

Honestly, I could give a shit what politically correct term could be used to describe secular marriage. What matters are the legal rights; the climate has to adapt accordingly.


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Their own institution does not gain them access to the same equal treatment under the law that heterosexual couples enjoy. I don't think most gay couples that wish to wed are seeking the Pope's permission. They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

What's wrong with "civil unions"?

I could spend all day citing examples of law that reference "spouse" and the legal rights that spouse has under the law. Civil Unions are okay, if thay is what heterosexual couple who wish to unite are forced to seek. Then we could spend countless dollars amending each individual law replacing the word "spouse" with "partner" and it would apply to everyone. It wouldn't bother me.

Or, we could simple define marriage to mean the legal union of two consenting adults.

And don't resort to the dumbass argument of "Where do we stop? Next thing you know people will want to marry a goat."


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Their own institution does not gain them access to the same equal treatment under the law that heterosexual couples enjoy. I don't think most gay couples that wish to wed are seeking the Pope's permission. They are asking the State of [Insert state name here] to recognize that they should have the same rights and privileges that all heterosexual married couples have under the laws of the state in which they live, work, pay taxes, vote, etc.

What's wrong with "civil unions"?

Nothing would be wrong, if civil unions were recognized at the federal level and enforceable in all 50 states, along with carrying the same economic and legal privileges as marriage. The word 'marriage' plays too significant a role and is easily misconstrued on both sides of the debate due to its non-secular connotations.

Edited to add: In addition to what wjca brought up about legal language, the eventual overturning of the Defense of Marriage Act would probably bring us back to redefining secular marriage out of continuity and [relative] simplicity. But again, I think there is too much emphasis on the word and not enough on the institution it represents.


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There are certain rights, in several areas of the law, that a spouse has by virtue of legislation than cannot be by-passed by contract.

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I'm not sure exactly what this means.

Yes, I bet you don't. Tell you what: if I offered homosexuals all the rights that heterosexual couples have - which they have at the moment - except the right to get married in a church and call their union a marriage, would they accept it?

Not in a million years, and you know it.


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Yes, I bet you don't. Tell you what: if I offered homosexuals all the rights that heterosexual couples have - which they have at the moment - except the right to get married in a church and call their union a marriage, would they accept it?

Not in a million years, and you know it.

This is some bizarre fantasy of yours. There is currently no legal anything that allows a gay couple the same rights in the same places and, most especially, with the same degree of durability as a legal marriage.


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At this point, an 'alternative' is not going to solve anything.

How do you know?

You're refusing to even think about it, let alone actually try it to see if it works!

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Tell you what: if I offered homosexuals all the rights that heterosexual couples have - which they have at the moment - except the right to get married in a church and call their union a marriage, would they accept it?

Not in a million years, and you know it.

What rock do you live under?? Gay marriage is banned at the federal level in America, meaning any measures passed or amendments made at the state level in support of gay unions end at the state line. Some states are pushing to ban civil unions as well. There are literally thousands of differences between even the most progressive civil union and actual marriage at the moment. And need I remind that even the 'simple visit to the lawyer' costs thousands of dollars and is still contestable in court?

Your assumption is that gays are trying to overtake all that is traditional and holy. You might want to challenge that with fact from time to time.


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At this point, an 'alternative' is not going to solve anything.

How do you know?

You're refusing to even think about it, let alone actually try it to see if it works!

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No, I've seen the present alternative and it's not an acceptable one. Creating another one is not going to solve anything. I'd refer you to some court cases regarding previous 'alternatives' that had similar social and legal consequences, but you don't seem interested in looking at race and sexual orientation in a similar light. So in lieu of that, I guess you're just going to have to take my word for it.


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There are certain rights, in several areas of the law, that a spouse has by virtue of legislation than cannot be by-passed by contract.

Such as?


Under the law of most every state a surviving spouse has the right to elect against the estate of his or her deceased spouse. What this means is that there is no possible way to completely write your spouse out of your will. The surviving spouse, by law, will receive a share of the estate.

If someone dies without a will (i.e. intestate), the laws of intestacy will provide the surviving spouse with a certain percentage of the estate.

Under ERISA, a participant cannot make certain changes to the named beneficiary of most pension plans without the express written consent of the participant's spouse.

The presence of a spouse in a meeting I have with a client does not taint the protection of confidentiality of the attorney/client privilege. The presence of anyone else (other than my secretary or paralegal or other attorney in my firm) does.

Unless you are legally married, you cannot file a federal or state income tax return as "married, filing jointly". Depending on the individual situation, this has certain tax disadvantages.

You can make unlimited lifetime gifts to a spouse without any federal or state gift tax consequences and without using any of your unified credit.

At death, you can pass an unlimited amount of assets to a surviving spouse without any federal or state estate tax consequences and without using any of your unified credit.

These are just off the top of my head in the areas law in which I am familiar. The list is likely endless.


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Yes, I bet you don't. Tell you what: if I offered homosexuals all the rights that heterosexual couples have - which they have at the moment - except the right to get married in a church and call their union a marriage, would they accept it?

Not in a million years, and you know it.

I have no idea what homosexuals would accept and what they wouldn't. All I know is that the way the system is now is wrong.


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oh good lord. It is such a simple solution to let gay and lesbian couples get married and have the marriage be recognized by the state.NO need for some fancy schmancy civil union or what ever the hell you want to have it.

trad, no one wants to force any church or religious organisation to perform a wedding. Really, that's such a lame argument. My husband and i never forced our way into the catholic church and demanded they marry us non catholics. We never asked the local synagogue to perform the ceremony.

gay marriage is functioning quite well in canada. The country hasn't fallen apart, no one is forced to perform marriages, and life goes on!!!!!


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wjca covered that very well and in detail; I just wanted to add that there are officially 1138 benefits, at the federal and state levels, that marriage has that present civil unions do not and cannot.


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I have no idea what homosexuals would accept and what they wouldn't. All I know is that the way the system is now is wrong.

Then why are you championing a cause which you don't understand?

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Have a look at the UK.

Civil unions here have every single right that marriages have. Are the gay community happy with that?

Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.


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I have no idea what homosexuals would accept and what they wouldn't. All I know is that the way the system is now is wrong.

Then why are you championing a cause which you don't understand?

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Have a look at the UK.

Civil unions here have every single right that marriages have. Are the gay community happy with that?

Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.

Are saying that I don't understand what is and what is not fair, right and just? Are you saying the I don't understand compassion for another human being? Are you saying I don't understand the law? In this thread I have tried to stay away from personal attacks and profanity (I'd have to go back to see if I was successful), but damn. You are a jackass sometimes.


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Have a look at the UK.

Civil unions here have every single right that marriages have. Are the gay community happy with that?

Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.

I am not as familiar with UK law and climate as I am its American counterpart, but I find it hard to believe the fallacious notion that gays are just not satisfied, no matter how many rights they 'take' from heterosexuals, as you seem to be alluding.

According to the Equality Network, which is Scotland's GLBT campaign resource, Scotland's amended civil unions law just took effect in December 2005. With that recent of a legal change, do you really think that the social climate has adjusted?? Until Lawrence v. Texas was ruled in 2003, homosexual activity (and certain heterosexual activity, to be fair) was subject to being illegal in many parts of the U.S. Do you think the more conservative regions are that quick and willing to accept that it's no longer acceptable to criminalize homosexual acts?


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Are saying that I don't understand what is and what is not fair, right and just? Are you saying the I don't understand compassion for another human being? Are you saying I don't understand the law?

No, I'm saying that you admitted yourself that you "have no idea what homosexuals would accept and what they wouldn't".

That doesn't make you very well qualified to argue their case.


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wjca covered that very well and in detail; I just wanted to add that there are officially 1138 benefits, at the federal and state levels, that marriage has that present civil unions do not and cannot.

Could this have anything to do with federal laws concerning same sex civil unions? Or states that don't recognize these unions?


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No, I'm saying that you admitted yourself that you "have no idea what homosexuals would accept and what they wouldn't".

That doesn't make you very well qualified to argue their case.

No, it just proves that you are very quick to remove a sentence from its context and spin a different, even more outlandish take on it.


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I am not as familiar with UK law and climate as I am its American counterpart, but I find it hard to believe the fallacious notion that gays are just not satisfied, no matter how many rights they 'take' from heterosexuals, as you seem to be alluding.

So, you admit that you don't know much about UK law, but you think I'm wrong about it anyway?

Well that makes loads of sense.

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Nevertheless, as I said, homosexuals now have equal legal rights here, but they're not happy, because that's not what they really wanted. They really wanted the government to force the church to make fundamental changes to their religion.

The marriage issue was just a smoke screen, as it is in your case.


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wjca covered that very well and in detail; I just wanted to add that there are officially 1138 benefits, at the federal and state levels, that marriage has that present civil unions do not and cannot.

Could this have anything to do with federal laws concerning same sex civil unions? Or states that don't recognize these unions?

It accounts for the capacity of civil unions verses marriage in accordance with federal law. It doesn't count differences between civil unions, but it does have to do with individual states' powers in regulating them. Some of it has to do with federal tax law (even though domestic partnerships in California are very close to marriage, federal tax law still recognizes a gay partnership as being comprised of two single individuals), some of it involves immigration law, etc. Some of the differences are as 'subtle' as the fact that Mary Cheney's partner is not entitled to any official federal surveillance protection, whereas if she had a husband, he would be afforded the same security benefits as she is.


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Have a look at the UK.

Civil unions here have every single right that marriages have. Are the gay community happy with that?

Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.

I am not as familiar with UK law and climate as I am its American counterpart, but I find it hard to believe the fallacious notion that gays are just not satisfied, no matter how many rights they 'take' from heterosexuals, as you seem to be alluding.

Your views on BSA might shed some light on this. :wink:

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I am not as familiar with UK law and climate as I am its American counterpart, but I find it hard to believe the fallacious notion that gays are just not satisfied, no matter how many rights they 'take' from heterosexuals, as you seem to be alluding.

So, you admit that you don't know much about UK law, but you think I'm wrong about it anyway?

Well that makes loads of sense.

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Nevertheless, as I said, homosexuals now have equal legal rights here, but they're not happy, because that's not what they really wanted. They really wanted the government to force the church to make fundamental changes to their religion.

The marriage issue was just a smoke screen, as it is in your case.

i call bullshit.........sources please.


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Nevertheless, as I said, homosexuals now have equal legal rights here, but they're not happy, because that's not what they really wanted. They really wanted the government to force the church to make fundamental changes to their religion.

The marriage issue was just a smoke screen, as it is in your case.

What the crap? If you're under the impression that I want to force the Baptists across the street to perform marriages that they wouldn't, then you're either insane, stupid, or (more likely) a little of both.

Churches here aren't legally obligated to marry anybody. There are some around that won't marry people of two different races. Hell, our fine Christian Bob Jones University didn't even allow inter-racial dating until the 21st century. The point is that the government here will not force churches to marry anyone. WILL NOT.

Your skull is thick and logic-resistant, but I think if you ponder on that for a few minutes, you'll understand.


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I am not as familiar with UK law and climate as I am its American counterpart, but I find it hard to believe the fallacious notion that gays are just not satisfied, no matter how many rights they 'take' from heterosexuals, as you seem to be alluding.

So, you admit that you don't know much about UK law, but you think I'm wrong about it anyway?

Well that makes loads of sense.

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Considering that you have proven yourself to have the reasoning capabilities of a 6 year old? No, I'm not going to automatically take your word on it.

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Nevertheless, as I said, homosexuals now have equal legal rights here, but they're not happy, because that's not what they really wanted. They really wanted the government to force the church to make fundamental changes to their religion.

The marriage issue was just a smoke screen, as it is in your case.

Oh, because you're such an expert on American law?

And let me guess, those personal insights you divulged have to do with your numerous interactions with friends who are gay, who confidentially addressed these issues with you, and that's your qualification??

I'll tell you that in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage, who take stances on certain individuals, parties, and judgments in a 'for or against' absolutist context. Does that give you the ability to discern what the community wants? And even if that were the case, how does it threaten your dogma? Based on your previous posts, I'd say your viewpoints are more extreme on the conservative end than any of these greedy gays you continue to criticize.


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Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.


The really sad part about this issue is that the clergy and the churches who are suppose to be an extension of God would deny the ceremony to gays who are in love.

God is love. Two people of the same sex love each other. Love is an extension of God. They are children of God.

Pretty simple.

God is not a hypocrite...Religion is.


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I am not as familiar with UK law and climate as I am its American counterpart, but I find it hard to believe the fallacious notion that gays are just not satisfied, no matter how many rights they 'take' from heterosexuals, as you seem to be alluding.

Your views on BSA might shed some light on this. :wink:

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(they're) overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives.

I've got to hand it to you, thorne, you really have a unique way of spewing random unrelated banter at really odd times.

I can call the BSA a reactionary organization while still believing they, as a private group, are entitled to their opinions and policies. My entire basis for posting the article I did was that they were trying to function in a hypocritical manner by claiming rights not entitled to private organizations.


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in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage

So you yourself are an extremist?

Yes, you said: "The word 'marriage' plays too significant a role and is easily misconstrued on both sides of the debate due to its non-secular connotations".

Wow.

I've never seen anyone tie themselves in knots like you do.


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I'll tell you that in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage, who take stances on certain individuals, parties, and judgments in a 'for or against' absolutist context.

It's those extremeists who are driving the effort. Considering most Americans are against gay marriage, wouldn't it make more sense to make a concerted effort to obtain the legal benifits of marriage without stomping on the majoritiy's wishes.


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Your skull is thick and logic-resistant, but I think if you ponder on that for a few minutes, you'll understand.


No, he won't.


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Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.


The really sad part about this issue is that the clergy and the churches who are suppose to be an extension of God would deny the ceremony to gays who are in love.

God is love. Two people of the same sex love each other. Love is an extension of God. They are children of God.

Pretty simple.

God is not a hypocrite...Religion is.

Bob preaching about religion. :shock:
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Bob preaching about religion.

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in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage

So you yourself are an extremist?

Yes, you said: "The word 'marriage' plays too significant a role and is easily misconstrued on both sides of the debate due to its non-secular connotations".

Wow.

I've never seen anyone tie themselves in knots like you do.

You're an incomprehensible idiot.

As I've stated numerous times, I could care less if my option was called a civil union IF it afforded the same rights as marriage. I don't give a shit what it's called. Those on either extreme either take offense at the word marriage being used to purportedly assign change to a non-secular tradition (sound familiar, tradman??), or they believe that gays are not socially equitable until they are specifically allowed to marry. Slight difference.

Like I've said, it's about having equitable legal opportunities. Demanding that the secular institution be called marriage takes away from the fight for equal opportunity by focusing on social inequality, for which a name change isn't the solution.


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Not on your life. They want marriage, in churches, and they want the clergy to be forced to perform the ceremony.



The really sad part about this issue is that the clergy and the churches who are suppose to be an extension of God would deny the ceremony to gays who are in love.

God is love. Two people of the same sex love each other. Love is an extension of God. They are children of God.

Pretty simple.

God is not a hypocrite...Religion is.


Bob preaching about religion. Shocked
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No preaching...just showing how hypocritical (religion) is. That's worth laughing at...

Religion is for people like you and Tradman.


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Tradman and Thorne...do you really believe that God is against gays unions in the chruch??


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Laughing

A bigger laugh is you calling yourself a "follower of God".


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Tradman and Thorne...do you really believe that God is against gays unions in the chruch??

"gays unions in the chruch" :shock: I wonder what you DID edit. :lol:

Considering there's nothing in the Bible supporting gay marriage, I'd guess God doesn't support it.

Getting back to the OP - Can anyone produce an example of a boy being kicked out of the Boy Scouts because he was gay or an atheist?

Just one.... single.... solitary... example???


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Tradman and Thorne...do you really believe that God is against gays unions in the chruch??

"gays unions in the chruch" :shock: I wonder what you DID edit. :lol:

Considering there's nothing in the Bible supporting gay marriage, I'd guess God doesn't support it.

Getting back to the OP - Can anyone produce an example of a boy being kicked out of the Boy Scouts because he was gay or an atheist?

Just one.... single.... solitary... example???

For being gay.

For being atheist.

*Disclaimer: I google searched these. They are from the internet. I do not attest for their validity, as I am not personally privy to the surrounding facts of either story, nor have I heard the other party's take on the matter. As with anything else found online, take these with a grain of salt. Blah, blah, blah. Other lawyer covering his ass stuff.


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God is not a hypocrite...Religion is.


Tradman and Thorne...do you really believe that God is against gays unions in the chruch??
This is what the new testament has to say about homosexuality, so that you're all on the same page. It comes from the English Standard Version which is the most current, litteral translation of the greek texts. Lets assume that this is Gods book, that he took steps to assure that whats in it is what he wants us to know and he kept out what man wanted to add. Thats not much of a stretch if you assume that its Gods book.
I have included extra verses so you get the full context of the text. Text in bold pertains to the discussion at hand.

Romans1:
16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. 17 For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith for faith,as it is written, The righteous shall live by faith. 18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth.

19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. 21 For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Claiming to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles. 24 Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, 25 because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; 27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. 28 And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. 29 They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, 30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31 foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32 Though they know God's decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.


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This is what the new testament has to say about homosexuality, so that you're all on the same page. It comes from the English Standard Version which is the most current, litteral translation of the greek texts. Lets assume that this is Gods book, that he took steps to assure that whats in it is what he wants us to know and he kept out what man wanted to add. Thats not much of a stretch if you assume that its Gods book.


First you have to believe that God said that.


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This is what the new testament has to say about homosexuality, so that you're all on the same page. It comes from the English Standard Version which is the most current, litteral translation of the greek texts. Lets assume that this is Gods book, that he took steps to assure that whats in it is what he wants us to know and he kept out what man wanted to add. Thats not much of a stretch if you assume that its Gods book.

First you have to believe that God said that.

Since we're talking about Christians, most would consider this a given. Please try to keep up.

Or do you think outsiders (including many detractors) should determine faith doctrine?


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I am very proud of myself for getting to page 6 before feeling violently ill and wanting never to return to this site.

Many thanks to the drivel-mongering bigots and homophobes. You made my day.


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*Sigh*...labels, labels...

Well, I suppose there's always the option of applying for citizenship in Belgium.


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I am very proud of myself for getting to page 6 before feeling violently ill and wanting never to return to this site.

Many thanks to the drivel-mongering bigots and homophobes. You made my day.

If only we could all be as open and tolerant as you. :oops:


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When the shoe fits...
That's just it JR, the shoe doesn't fit and to assume it does is nothing but a display of misperception or ignorance.


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That's just it JR, the shoe doesn't fit and to assume it does is nothing but a display of misperception or ignorance.

One could just as easily say that to assume it doesn't is nothing but a display of misperception or ignorance. Please explain to me how your view on Gays is not bigoted and prejudiced. Please explain to me how your view is not homophobic. If you aren't afraid of them, why are you so god damned opposed to them marrying?


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Since we're talking about Christians, most would consider this a given. Please try to keep up.

Or do you think outsiders (including many detractors) should determine faith doctrine?

Think whatever you want...God is not homophobic. Your faith doctrine is!


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Think whatever you want...God is not homophobic. Your faith doctrine is!

You speak so authoritatively. Do you have any proof that the posted verses do not represent the word of God? Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. :lol: :lol: :lol:


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Since we're talking about Christians, most would consider this a given. Please try to keep up.

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Think whatever you want...God is not homophobic. Your faith doctrine is!

You speak so authoritatively. Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. :lol: :lol: :lol:

If god didn't like gays he wouldn't have made them.


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Since we're talking about Christians, most would consider this a given. Please try to keep up.

Or do you think outsiders (including many detractors) should determine faith doctrine?

Think whatever you want...God is not homophobic. Your faith doctrine is!

You speak so authoritatively. Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. :lol: :lol: :lol:

If god didn't like gays he wouldn't have made them.


I don't know, he also made AIDS. Its a tough call.


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Since we're talking about Christians, most would consider this a given. Please try to keep up.

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Think whatever you want...God is not homophobic. Your faith doctrine is!

You speak so authoritatively. Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. :lol: :lol: :lol:

If god didn't like gays he wouldn't have made them.

You support Creationism? :shock:


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You speak so authoritatively. Do you have any proof that the posted verses do not represent the word of God? Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. Laughing Laughing Laughing

Being a homophobic is a HUMAN Fault. You and your RELIGION are homophobic.

God is perfect.


Simple shit...that goes way over your bible thumping head. :lol:


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If god didn't like gays he wouldn't have made them.
I don't know, he also made AIDS.

I think Jesse Helms addressed this some years back.


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You speak so authoritatively. Do you have any proof that the posted verses do not represent the word of God? Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. Laughing Laughing Laughing

Being a homophobic is a HUMAN Fault. You and your RELIGION are homophobic.

God is perfect.

Simple s---...that goes way over your bible thumping head. :lol:

Your response has nothing to do with my post.

It's fun to watch you make idiotic claims and try to act like you've got a clue. :roll:


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Think whatever you want...God is not homophobic. Your faith doctrine is!

You speak so authoritatively. Perhaps you can tell us what is God's take on gay marriage. :lol: :lol: :lol:

If god didn't like gays he wouldn't have made them.

You support Creationism? :shock:

Not at all. But if I am gonna argue from a bible standpoint, I gotta use a bible standpoint. :-)


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If god didn't like gays he wouldn't have made them.
I don't know, he also made AIDS.

I think Jesse Helms addressed this some years back.

Who said god doesn't like AIDS? God seems to enjoy causing suffering to perfectly good people so I don't see how AIDS is any differant. I'm sure that if the people who wrote the bible had any concept of AIDS/HIV they would have included it in the prophecies for the end of the world. You know god will give all the unbelievers AIDS/HIV then smite them down with the 7 plagues or some other such nonsense.


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if I am gonna argue from a bible standpoint, I gotta use a bible standpoint. :-)

Not that you actually believe any of what your saying. :wink:


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I'll tell you that in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage, who take stances on certain individuals, parties, and judgments in a 'for or against' absolutist context.

It's those extremeists who are driving the effort. Considering most Americans are against gay marriage, wouldn't it make more sense to make a concerted effort to obtain the legal benifits of marriage without stomping on the majoritiy's wishes.

Again, your statement emphasizes the problem with confusing the secular and non-secular institutions of marriage. And if it would help make the law equitable, I personally would be entirely fine with calling secular marriage, as pertains to gay couples, something else.

Still, by your assertion, everyone who is a minority with a political agenda is an extremist. It's actually a lot more complicated than that. The extremists I mentioned aren't driving the effort in America; they're just the most visible parts of it that garner disproportionate media attention.


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Not that you actually believe any of what your saying. :wink:

Well no I actually very strongly believe what I am saying...

IF god exist THEN god created gays, AND he must be cool with them. (Probably all in the plan to deal with over population... there is a plan right?)

IF god does NOT exist THEN gays are a natural phenomena AND the argument of the religious type is moot.

I believe both those IF's. I just don't believe that god exists.


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I'll tell you that in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage, who take stances on certain individuals, parties, and judgments in a 'for or against' absolutist context.

It's those extremeists who are driving the effort. Considering most Americans are against gay marriage, wouldn't it make more sense to make a concerted effort to obtain the legal benifits of marriage without stomping on the majoritiy's wishes.

Again, your statement emphasizes the problem with confusing the secular and non-secular institutions of marriage.
Doesn't this presume the two are separate entities, not different aspects of the same entity - which (I presume) is how most Americans view marriage.

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And if it would help make the law equitable, I personally would be entirely fine with calling secular marriage, as pertains to gay couples, something else.
Something like "civil unions"? :wink:

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Still, by your assertion, everyone who is a minority with a political agenda is an extremist.
Seems like you're twisting my words.


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Please explain to me how your view on Gays is not bigoted...
I tolerate homosexuals just fine. If it came to violence against them, I feel that's reprehensible and would be among the first to come to their aid. You seem to think that because a person understands that what they do is a choice, that person is intolerant. Well, you're wrong.

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Please explain to me how your view is not homophobic. If you aren't afraid of them, why are you so [expletive] opposed to them marrying?
I don't fear the peace loving homosexual in any way. I'm opposed to the rending of the most basic unit of society, the marriage and family and its redefining by a relative small, but vocal minority. I feel that marriage is a sanctified union of one man and one woman and that it was instituted by God.

People that refer to those that believe like myself as 'homophobes' are guilty of slander in the worst degree and come across as more intolerant than I stand accused of.

Do you think that the God I believe in hates the homosexual? No, He doesn't and I wouldn't put my trust and faith in a god that did. My God hates sin. We all sin, man. Thankfully, He has prepared a way for us to escape the coming judgement through His only begotten Son, Jesus.


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Doesn't this presume the two are separate entities, not different aspects of the same entity - which (I presume) is how most Americans view marriage.

Precisely. Secular marriage is not the same as marriage in the religious tradition. However, when people voice their objections to gay marriage in the secular sense, it is quite common for them to cite the role of religion. The idea that marriage is one all-encompassing term is a misconception.

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And if it would help make the law equitable, I personally would be entirely fine with calling secular marriage, as pertains to gay couples, something else.
Something like "civil unions"? :wink:

As I've said before, IF civil unions became legally equitable to marriage (which they're presently not), I would 100% support that distinction. The terminology is trivial; the ramifications aren't.

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Still, by your assertion, everyone who is a minority with a political agenda is an extremist.
Seems like you're twisting my words.

Then please feel free to correct me.


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And if it would help make the law equitable, I personally would be entirely fine with calling secular marriage, as pertains to gay couples, something else.
Something like "civil unions"? :wink:

Like what Americans went about systematically banning in 2004 and 2005 in their zeal to keep gay people from having anything like marriage?


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And if it would help make the law equitable, I personally would be entirely fine with calling secular marriage, as pertains to gay couples, something else.
Something like "civil unions"? :wink:

Like what Americans went about systematically banning in 2004 and 2005 in their zeal to keep gay people from having anything like marriage?

They banned civil unions?


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Doesn't this presume the two are separate entities, not different aspects of the same entity - which (I presume) is how most Americans view marriage.

Precisely. Secular marriage is not the same as marriage in the religious tradition. However, when people voice their objections to gay marriage in the secular sense, it is quite common for them to cite the role of religion. The idea that marriage is one all-encompassing term is a misconception.
Technically you may be right, but I bet if you conducted a poll asking people whether or not they viewed their legal marriages as a separate entity from their religious marriages, the overwhelming majority would consider them interconnected.

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Still, by your assertion, everyone who is a minority with a political agenda is an extremist.
Seems like you're twisting my words.
Then please feel free to correct me.
Reread what I said. It's pretty simple language. :wink:


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Technically you may be right, but I bet if you conducted a poll asking people whether or not they viewed their legal marriages as a separate entity from their religious marriages, the overwhelming majority would consider them interconnected.

Understandable, but the role of the law is to keep church and state separated for legal purposes.

In regards to your question about civil unions being banned, Virginia specifically banned civil unions in 2004, while most states settled on amendments to their constitutions that would ban the prospect of gay marriage by redefining the term in the family code.

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Reread what I said. It's pretty simple language. :wink:

Simple language and language spoken by a simple person are not quite the same. :wink:


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Reread what I said. It's pretty simple language. :wink:

Simple language and language spoken by a simple person are not quite the same. :wink:

True. But this has nothing to do with you inferring things that are way off the mark. :wink:


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And if it would help make the law equitable, I personally would be entirely fine with calling secular marriage, as pertains to gay couples, something else.
Something like "civil unions"? :wink:

Like what Americans went about systematically banning in 2004 and 2005 in their zeal to keep gay people from having anything like marriage?

They banned civil unions?

In many cases, yes. Take a look at the amendment to Georgia's State Constitution.

There's a big subset of Americans that wants to keep gays from having rights anything like straight people do.


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Reread what I said. It's pretty simple language. :wink:

Simple language and language spoken by a simple person are not quite the same. :wink:

True. But this has nothing to do with you inferring things that are way off the mark. :wink:

Which is a practice you seem to be quite familiar with. :wink:


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They banned civil unions?

In many cases, yes. Take a look at the amendment to Georgia's State Constitution.

There's a big subset of Americans that wants to keep gays from having rights anything like straight people do.

How is life out on the fringes? :lol: :lol: :lol:

So the Georgia state legislature banned civil unions? What's the history of domestic partnership initiatives in the state legislature?

How 'bout you offer up a few more of those "many cases" of civil unions being banned. :wink:


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Reread what I said. It's pretty simple language. :wink:

Simple language and language spoken by a simple person are not quite the same. :wink:

True. But this has nothing to do with you inferring things that are way off the mark. :wink:

Which is a practice you seem to be quite familiar with. :wink:

I know you are...... :roll:


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I know you are...... :roll:

Bitch, you don't know me!
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They banned civil unions?

In many cases, yes. Take a look at the amendment to Georgia's State Constitution.

There's a big subset of Americans that wants to keep gays from having rights anything like straight people do.

How is life out on the fringes? :lol: :lol: :lol:

I'll take your word on Georgia. How 'bout you offer up a few more of those "many cases" of civil unions being banned. :wink:

Like I said, Virginia banned civil unions as well as amending their state constitution to ban gay marriage; Arkansas, Georgia, Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon and Utah all banned gay marriage in 2004; California banned gay marriage in 2000.


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Some people act so surprised when there's an unfavorable reaction to their actions.


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I'll tell you that in America, we also have a handful of extremists who think that the solution fundamentally lies in the word marriage, who take stances on certain individuals, parties, and judgments in a 'for or against' absolutist context.

It's those extremeists who are driving the effort. Considering most Americans are against gay marriage, wouldn't it make more sense to make a concerted effort to obtain the legal benifits of marriage without stomping on the majoritiy's wishes.

And just to clarify something that you can't seem to get on your own, political endeavors by a minority group is not the same as lettting the most zealous extremists within a given group direct such endeavors.


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They banned civil unions?

In many cases, yes. Take a look at the amendment to Georgia's State Constitution.

There's a big subset of Americans that wants to keep gays from having rights anything like straight people do.

How is life out on the fringes? :lol: :lol: :lol:

So the Georgia state legislature banned civil unions? What's the history of domestic partnership initiatives in the state legislature?

How 'bout you offer up a few more of those "many cases" of civil unions being banned. :wink:

How's life deep in a pit of denial?

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Today's reply brief notes that similar initiatives have passed in other states and have subsequently been used to cause harm to same-sex couples. Michigan's Attorney General has claimed that the amendment passed there bans domestic partner health benefits for state employees. Similarly, a Utah court is being asked to decide if that state's amendment bars Salt Lake City from providing domestic partner health benefits to its lesbian and gay employees. An Ohio amendment has been used as basis to deny straight unmarried couples access to protections from the state's domestic violence laws.

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Eleven states will have constitutional amendments on their ballots next Tuesday. Eight of the amendments seek to ban gay marriage, civil unions, domestic partnership and other legal arrangements for gay couples while four would only prohibit same-sex marriage.


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Some people act so surprised when there's an unfavorable reaction to their actions...

This isn't about the personal opinions of Americans. It's about the state's duty to uphold and enforce its laws. The supreme law of the land is the US Constitution, which overrules the Defense of Marriage Act and all aforementioned state amendments with the 14th Amendment. The only way to legally ban gay marriage would be to enact another amendment to the US Constitution, which (ironically) is something the majority of Americans do not support.

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And just to clarify something that you can't seem to get on your own, political endeavors by a minority group is not the same as lettting the most zealous extremists within a given group direct such endeavors.

Agreed. So what prompted you to immediately declare my response as indicative of my own personal extremism?


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One of the zingers that occasionally gets smuggled into the "God condescends against gay folk" arguments–and indeed, is peppered throughout this thread--is this whole business of "choice," that people freely chose their sexual orientation and when it doesn't square with Jesse Helms or some other cranky whack job the person is perpetrating an intentional "sin" against his/her own soul, God, and these United States.

While the evolutionary psychologists would agree that there is no empirical or biological evidence that homosexuality is strictly genetic or biologically driven, only the bisexuals amongst us would claim they exercise any conscious choice about their attractions. While sexuality is probably best considered in terms of a continuum, where no one is absolutely gay or absolutely straight, most people are clearly and naturally driven to one gender or the other. The "choice" card denies this natural, and most likely instinctual (involuntary and autonomous) drive and allows anti-gays to consider homosexuality as something contrived and abnormal. This leads to the belief that homosexuality does not actually exist at all in any natural sense, rather we actually all are heterosexual, and that homosexuals consciously choose, or are demonically driven, or are simply mistaken about who they really are in order to partake in debauchery cha cha cha.

I mention this because the "choice" card is widely held by most anti-gay activists and underscores most all of their arguments. Such a position is in my mind a classic case of wholesale denial, a very primitive defense mechanism that provides a default position so they never have to deal straight up with what the fact that there really are gay people in the first instance. If they accepted that gays actually exist and that their drives are in fact natural for them, then those who insist that God created everything would have to concede that God intentionally created gays–and I wouldn't expect to see that trotted out any time soon by those currently condemning homosexuality. I don't doubt that they actually believe this "choice" hogwash, otherwise they wouldn't be so paranoid that the behavior might get passed on by association (to, perhaps, a Scout Leader), and then spread to infect otherwise straight folk like some terrible contagion. Such a belief (and it's only a belief) betrays a profound ignorance about how instinctual energies actually operate in people (far below the level of conscious choice). One thing's for sure–when you try and repress or deny instinctual energies (aggression, territoriality, sexuality, et al) they will nevertheless operate but in ways that are very destructive to the host. All of this is well established in the psychological literature–by the folks who actually study these things–but it's of no import to a closed mind.

Bottom line: Most all of the arguments against gays and gay behavior hinge on wholesale denial that they actually exist in any viable, natural way. Instead, gayness is a sin, an abomination, a distortion of nature itself. Until this issue is hauled to the light of day and summarily debunked, real progress and true assimilation is, in my opinion, impossible, and every argument or discussion about gays will founder on the rocks of stupidity and false beliefs.

Lastly, there is the very human and very real issue that Styndall brought up pages back: that "You're hurting people. Don't forget that that's what this is about. Getting your way means having people suffer needlessly."

If you've ever been hurt, abused, or crushed into the ground like a roach, you know that this kind of soul murder is indescribably grievous, to say nothing of loosing the dreaded Inner Critic, who can eat a person alive with self loathing and self hatred. If you consciously and intentionally do this, under the guise of righteousness, you've truly lost your soul to the Dark Side.

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While I can only yield assent to your post there's one thing I'd refute:

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... only the bisexuals amongst us would claim they exercise any conscious choice about their attractions.

I can't remember a moment I ever thought something like "This boy/girl is intelligent, cute, good looking and financial reliable, I think I choose to feel attracted now."

While being physical attracted happens often enough to provide a certain space for decisions, the 'choice' gets pretty narrow if we're talking about an attraction which is supposed to stand a long term partnership, widely referred to as love. How many times in your life you felt true love? Once? Two times? Now, would you have dismissed the object of your desire just because he/she was lacking 'appropriateness' in the eyes of your surroundings?

Sorry. I'd say anybody who's claiming that choice of partner has primarily to do with concious decisions has no idea what love is about. No idea.

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The idea that homosexuality is acceptable because it is natural is fatally flawed.

I think the mistake is this: it incorrectly combines two separate ideas to contrive a desired conclusion.

The two ideas are the idea of something which is "naturally occurring" and the idea of something which is "desirable and normal". They are combined into the one word, "natural".

There can be no doubt that homosexuality is naturally occurring. But then again, so are cerebral palsy, down's syndrome, leukemia and a host of other conditions. None of these could be said to be normal or desirable in simple biological terms.

So it seems that not everything which occurs naturally is healthy or desirable. What about homosexuality? Well, in simple biological terms, a condition which prevents an animal from reproducing could never be reasonably described as desirable or normal, for a large number of sound reasons.

Does this make me homophobic? No, any more than I'm cerebral palsy phobic or leukemia phobic. They're simply naturally occurring conditions which are in no way the fault of those who have them, so it would make no sense to hate or fear them. They're not morally "good" or "bad" in any conceivable way, but they're definitely not normal or desirable.

This is important - if you find yourself objecting to the comparison between down's syndrome and homosexuality, you should take a hard look at your attitude towards down's syndrome. It is not a "bad" condition, it's just a genetic flaw, a biological circumstance which in no way makes a person good or evil. Objecting to having homosexuality, apparently another biological circumstance, compared to it would only show that you think down's syndrome is wrong or bad in some way.

Summing up: homosexuality is a naturally occurring phenomenon. However, not all naturally occurring phenomena are normal or desirable. To claim that homosexuality should be encouraged because it occurs naturally simply doesn't make sense.


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What about homosexuality? Well, in simple biological terms, a condition which prevents an animal from reproducing could never be reasonably described as desirable or normal, for a large number of sound reasons.

There's a flaw in this argument since in many cases a great number of individuals of a population never take part in procreation. This refers to insects as well as primates. Following the cheap biologistic argument, it would be - in contrary to what you said - highly desirable to have those who are not meant to procreate be homo- or even better bi-sexual. This would increase the cohesion of the herd.
Your 'sound reasons' are just a bunch arguments made to fit a picture built on prejudice.

Besides that we're not talking about an on/off switch for homosexuality (as your sick down syndrom comparison may suggest). According to any modern psychology people aren't strictly home or hetero but something inbetween. Obvious, since social affection and sexual attraction are mostly different occurences of the same underlying mechanism.

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There's a flaw in this argument since in many cases a great number of individuals of a population never take part in procreation.

So what? In biological terms - not behavioural ones - it's still not a good idea to have a heritable trait which causes people not to procreate. In evolutionary and biological terms, it's counterproductive.

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we're not talking about an on/off switch for homosexuality (as your sick down syndrom comparison may suggest).

Down's exists in degrees too. Its effects are more severe in some than in others. But people with down's are quantificably down's or not, just as humans are quantifiably attracted to the same sex or not.

As I said before, your idea that comparing homosexuality to down's is "sick" only indicates that you think down's is wrong or bad in some way. I don't. You are the prejudiced one in this, not me.


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So what? In biological terms - not behavioural ones - it's still not a good idea to have a heritable trait which causes people not to procreate. In evolutionary and biological terms, it's counterproductive.

So in evolutionary and biological terms, it's counterproductive for ants and bees to have workers who aren't able to procreate? Nope.

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Down's exists in degrees too. Its effects are more severe in some than in others. But people with down's are quantificably down's or not, just as humans are quantifiably attracted to the same sex or not.

I really want to see you quantify attraction. Litmus or what? I think the results would be pretty shocking for you...

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As I said before, your idea that comparing homosexuality to down's is "sick" only indicates that you think down's is wrong or bad in some way. I don't. You are the prejudiced one in this, not me.

The sick about the comparison is that you well know what you provoke with it. Homosexuality is not a desease nor a defect (I'm happy to argue with you if Down is, but not in this thread). Or you could as well say that to be left handed is.

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So in evolutionary and biological terms, it's counterproductive for ants and bees to have workers who aren't able to procreate? Nope.

Apples and oranges.

Those species has a separate process for reproduction which humans do not have, so their biological and evolutionary imperatives are different. Both species also have six legs, but that doesn't mean that it would be normal or desirable for a human to have the same.

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The sick about the comparison is that you well know what you provoke with it.

No. I put a particular note in my post to ensure that you understood what the root of any discomfort was. If you don't think down's syndrome is wrong or bad, then why do you object to homosexuality being compared to it? They are both biological conditions which are neither good or bad in my eyes. What do you see?


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No. I put a particular note in my post to ensure that you understood what the root of any discomfort was. If you don't think down's syndrome is wrong or bad, then why do you object to homosexuality being compared to it? They are both biological conditions which are neither good or bad in my eyes. What do you see?

I see someone who on purpose brings in associations to deseases/defects into a discussion where those don't fit. I also see this one trying to hide his well thought provocation in sweet 'I'm a good guy' terms to make the troll even more subtle.

As regards content I already said why the comparison is simply wrong.

As for the apples and oranges: They're both biological tools of procreation. Admittedly not gay by any means. :wink: But what you do is presume the very 'evolutionary imperative' I did question in my statement. That's where the snake bites its tail.

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I see someone who on purpose brings in associations to deseases/defects into a discussion where those don't fit.

They're both biological conditions. There are respects in which they are different, but in the relevant respects - that they're naturally occurring and that the person who has them has no choice, they are the same.

The simple fact is this: unlike worker bees, human beings are biologically intended to procreate. Therefore a biological condition which causes them to not procreate cannot be termed useful or normal.


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*Sigh*...labels, labels...

Well, I suppose there's always the option of applying for citizenship in Belgium.

I am sure some of the anti-Christ (no pun intended) comments sting you and thorne and tradman as much as the heterocentric/anti-gay comments sting me. I apologize for, in retaliation, having labeled you as a bigot and homophobe (though that is what your comments demonstrate), if that insulted you. Since you have labeled myself and others (as hell-bound destroyers of decent living) on occassion, hopefully you understand.

Now, in an effort towards understanding each other as human beings and not as labels with contradictory political agendas - here is an open invitation for you to visit me. I will put you up in my home and show you around Europe. Only one rule: I won't preach to you about your lifestyle and you won't preach to me about mine. Since you have gay friends (as I remember from the don't-ask thread) and I have a Catholic mother, we should have practice at that. Right?


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Some people act so surprised when there's an unfavorable reaction to their actions...

This isn't about the personal opinions of Americans.
Actually it is.. What do you think drives much of politics in the country? Does the phrase "will of the people" ring a bell?

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It's about the state's duty to uphold and enforce its laws. The supreme law of the land is the US Constitution, which overrules the Defense of Marriage Act and all aforementioned state amendments with the 14th Amendment. The only way to legally ban gay marriage would be to enact another amendment to the US Constitution, which (ironically) is something the majority of Americans do not support.
Is that what the Supreme Court said?

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And just to clarify something that you can't seem to get on your own, political endeavors by a minority group is not the same as lettting the most zealous extremists within a given group direct such endeavors.

Agreed. So what prompted you to immediately declare my response as indicative of my own personal extremism?
What are you talking about?


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I see someone who on purpose brings in associations to deseases/defects into a discussion where those don't fit.

They're both biological conditions. There are respects in which they are different, but in the relevant respects - that they're naturally occurring and that the person who has them has no choice, they are the same.

As is skin colour. But I bet that even in the most daring mood you wouldn't have come up with a comparison between being black and the Down syndrom.

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The simple fact is this: unlike worker bees, human beings are biologically intended to procreate. Therefore a biological condition which causes them to not procreate cannot be termed useful or normal.

Sorry, there's no intension in biology. All we can say is that human beings are able to procreate. Still that does not necessarily mean they have to to be 'useful' for the continuity of the species.

The argument anyway would only be of relevance if you see gay/straight as a strict dichotomy, which it isn't. I'd be well able to procreate if I spent 99% of all my sexual energy in homosexual encounters. The 1% rest could result in more offspring one of your 'normal' couples is able to handle.

And as we're at it: Monogamy isn't exactly the best concept for mass reproduction too.

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Sorry, there's no intension in biology. All we can say is that human beings are able to procreate. Still that does not necessarily mean they have to to be 'useful' for the continuity of the species.

No, but you can safely say that a trait which means they don't procreate is not useful. This is not complicated.

To determine if it's a desirable trait, simply look at what would happen if every example of the species had that trait.

Now, useful or not?


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Sorry, there's no intension in biology. All we can say is that human beings are able to procreate. Still that does not necessarily mean they have to to be 'useful' for the continuity of the species.

No, but you can safely say that a trait which means they don't procreate is not useful. This is not complicated.

To determine if it's a desirable trait, simply look at what would happen if every example of the species had that trait.

Now, useful or not?

Brings us back to the bees... but I won't argue any more on a topic which is made on the wrong assumption: gay/straight is not a dichotomy. Period.

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Brings us back to the bees... but I won't argue any more on a topic which is made on the wrong assumption: gay/straight is not a dichotomy. Period.


I didn't say it was. In fact I said, "Down's exists in degrees too. Its effects are more severe in some than in others. But people with down's are quantificably down's or not, just as humans are quantifiably attracted to the same sex or not".

The fact that there are degrees of sexual preference has no relevance. Just because one person has a less extreme version of an undesirable condition doesn't mean it's no longer undesirable.

You can leave the argument if you want, and I'll thank you for your input so far. But I'm not going to let you introduce pointless and irrelevant asides about other species, monogamy or degrees just to spare your feelings by allowing you to avoid addressing the main point.


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To determine if it's a desirable trait, simply look at what would happen if every example of the species had that trait.

Now, useful or not?

Not sure if that is a valid argument, tradman.

Evolution is most successful when a group is genetically diverse and provides opportunities for mutation, especially when the environment changes - it is not not advantageous for a species to head towards the honing of one "special" trait. All the dinosaurs were cold-blooded and they did well for millions of years until... it wasn't so nice to be cold-blooded anymore. Luckily, there were a few mammals running around... the dregs of the food chain until things changed.

Anyway, since there is no empirical data to prove either nurture vs. nature, I don't think it is especially helpful to argue about it as it relates to homosexuality. But I will say that if you argue nature, useful or not, it doesn't seem that homosexuality is a poorer trait to have than heterosexuality since we're still around.


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The fact that there are degrees of sexual preference has no relevance. Just because one person has a less extreme version of an undesirable condition doesn't mean it's no longer undesirable.

It has a high relevance. A 0/1 decision would hinder any '1' being from procreating. A preference in degrees does not or not necessarily. Let's pretend sexual preference of all human were 50/50. Lots of sex, maybe lots of 'useless' sex, but still more than enough to save us from extinction.

On the other hand, the 'useless' sex could as well serve a purpose: We know that the Bonobos have sex to solve tensions in social live. We know that sex is healthy. We know that sex is... fun?

Many species have sexual inactive members (or even homosexual, this is not exclusive to humans) in their populations which do support the reproduction of the species in other ways. To call them 'undesirable' would put an odd justification on a phenomenon which is in fact strictly natural.

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Evolution is most successful when a group is genetically diverse and provides opportunities for mutation, especially when the environment changes

Failure to procreate is not a trait that is passed on. It contributes nothing to genetic diversity.

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it doesn't seem that homosexuality is a poorer trait to have than heterosexuality since we're still around.

This is just a reformulation of, "it's natural so it's okay".


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Evolution is most successful when a group is genetically diverse and provides opportunities for mutation, especially when the environment changes

Failure to procreate is not a trait that is passed on. It contributes nothing to genetic diversity.

Ah, but homosexuals are perfectly able and many are willing to procreate. Big difference between can't and won't. Anyway, you're forgetting bisexuals.

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it doesn't seem that homosexuality is a poorer trait to have than heterosexuality since we're still around.

This is just a reformulation of, "it's natural so it's okay".

You're semi-right. I really don't care if it's natural or not, personally. It's a very easy decision for me: it is who I am. I don't care why it's who I am any more than I care that I'm mixed race, any more than I care that I'm a female. I was reformulating to fit your discussion regarding evolution, specifically.


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Many species have sexual inactive members (or even homosexual, this is not exclusive to humans) in their populations which do support the reproduction of the species in other ways. To call them 'undesirable' would put an odd justification on a phenomenon which is in fact strictly natural.

Again, this is just a formulation of "it's natural so it's okay", and not even a well-disguised one.


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Ah, but homosexuals are perfectly able and many are willing to procreate.

So you think that which gender you have sex with is just a matter of choice?

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Yes I know, but it doesn't fit.


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Many species have sexual inactive members (or even homosexual, this is not exclusive to humans) in their populations which do support the reproduction of the species in other ways. To call them 'undesirable' would put an odd justification on a phenomenon which is in fact strictly natural.

Again, this is just a formulation of "it's natural so it's okay", and not even a well-disguised one.

See my bit above re: I don't care if it's natural or not.

I think what I'm not understanding is: why do you care so much?? How does whom I sleep with, and who I decide to share my life with possibly affect you?


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Again, this is just a formulation of "it's natural so it's okay", and not even a well-disguised one.

You were the only one to argue against "it's natural so it's okay", so I don't have to disguise it. Better than "it's not normal, so it's not okay" anyways.

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I think what I'm not understanding is: why do you care so much?? How does whom I sleep with, and who I decide to share my life with possibly affect you?

Now that's a question worth asking.

Do I care whether you're gay? No.

Do I care about you as a person? Yes, as I care about all people, regardless of their race, colour or creed.

But because I care about people, I don't want them to have to live their lives in ways that are not ideal. I'd prefer that my friend David hadn't died of leukemia. I'd prefer that my friend Robert didn't have spina bifida.

They are and were both great guys, and I love them to bits exactly as they are or were. But that doesn't mean I think leukemia or spina bifida are okay. I don't think those conditions should exist at all. They should be researched, tested and eliminated.


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You were the only one to argue against "it's natural so it's okay", so I don't have to disguise it. Better than "it's not normal, so it's not okay" anyways.

Go back to the start of my posting and you'll see why "it's natural so it's okay" doesn't work.


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I think what I'm not understanding is: why do you care so much?? How does whom I sleep with, and who I decide to share my life with possibly affect you?

Now that's a question worth asking.

Do I care whether you're gay? No.

Do I care about you as a person? Yes, as I care about all people, regardless of their race, colour or creed.

But because I care about people, I don't want them to have to live their lives in ways that are not ideal. I'd prefer that my friend David hadn't died of leukemia. I'd prefer that my friend Robert didn't have spina bifida.

They are and were both great guys, and I love them to bits exactly as they are or were. But that doesn't mean I think leukemia or spina bifida are okay. I don't think those conditions should exist at all. They should be researched, tested and eliminated.

Okay, well, if it helps - I am not dying. I do not consider my life a "condition". I am living my life in an ideal way, and I feel truly blessed. I love my life. I have amazing parents, an amazing partner, amazing friends. I get to climb, I get to travel, I get to meet all sorts of interesting, wonderful folks- I love people too.

What you think is an ideal life may not be so for others. And what you have said, taken to an extreme, borders on old eugenics arguments from the pre-WWII era. The Nazis thought they were doing a great favor to the world by eliminating Jews. - Not trying to compare you to a Nazi at all, I'm just saying that when we want to eliminate difference because we think our way is best, it is egotistical and it is a dangerous slippery-slope.


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What you think is an ideal life may not be so for others. And what you have said, taken to an extreme, borders on old eugenics arguments from the pre-WWII era. The Nazis thought they were doing a great favor to the world by eliminating Jews. - Not trying to compare you to a Nazi at all, I'm just saying that when we want to eliminate difference because we think our way is best, it is egotistical and it is a dangerous slippery-slope.

It's not a slippery slope at all, and as I said to Tisar, it's not even complicated. Homosexuality is not a useful biological trait.

I'm not suggesting that homosexuals should be killed or anything like it. In fact I think homosexuals should be cherished, loved and valued like everyone else should be.

I am however suggesting that just because people are homosexual now doesn't mean we should tolerate future generations missing out on the same things as they do.


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In fact I think homosexuals should be cherished, loved and valued like everyone else should be.



Except they should not be allowed to marry each other and live under the same rules of law that heterosexuals enjoy and control. Equal, but separate, right?


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I am however suggesting that just because people are homosexual now doesn't mean we should tolerate future generations missing out on the same things as they do.

Well, I don't feel that I'm missing out on anything. I'm bisexual. I think you might be missing out, tradman. Perhaps we should alter everybody, so that future generations do not have to tolerate suffering like you...

I'm being facetious (well, kind of) but... do you see how my opinion could scar you if I was in a majority?


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Perhaps we should alter everybody, so that future generations do not have to tolerate suffering like you...

Again, I'm not saying we should alter anybody unless they want it. Everyone should be tolerated just as they are, but future generations whould not be made to endure the problems we have in this one. Why keep things the same? Shouldn't we be progressing?


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I am however suggesting that just because people are homosexual now doesn't mean we should tolerate future generations missing out on the same things as they do.

I'm just about to puke. You talk about things 'future generations' might be missing? Missing what? To be socially accepted? It's up to you to change that. To have sexual encounters with the opposite sex? It lies in the eye of the beholder if that's a loss. To be 'biological useful'? Most people in our society aren't.

Don't you think that it's arrogant, narrow minded and maybe not just a little fascistoid to declare that everybody who doesn't fit your small world 'misses something'.

gd is right. You might be the one who absolutelly misses something here. It's not about sexuality though...

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Missing what?

The opportunity to have their own children, for one thing. They could certainly adopt, but that has more than enough problems of its own to discount it as an ideal solution.

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Don't you think that it's arrogant, narrow minded and maybe not just a little fascistoid to declare that everybody who doesn't fit your small world 'misses something'.

No. I think its factually correct that people who can't have their own children are missing something, since everyone else has that opportunity and they don't.


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Perhaps we should alter everybody, so that future generations do not have to tolerate suffering like you...

Again, I'm not saying we should alter anybody unless they want it. Everyone should be tolerated just as they are, but future generations whould not be made to endure the problems we have in this one. Why keep things the same? Shouldn't we be progressing?

Well, you missed my point, which is that your idea of progress and my idea of progress are two different things if I think a world full of bisexual people would be - as the Italians say - OTTIMO (perfect).

Actually, I just like the world as a diverse place.


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Actually, I just like the world as a diverse place.

So do I!

Tell you what: I have a dud kidney. It's a genetic condition which my kids might get. As I get older, it gets worse. I've already had to start watching my diet, and I'll not be able to enjoy alcohol for much longer. It won't kill me, but it's bloody painful, it stops me from doing some things and there's no solution.

Should my kids and other people's kids have to go through the same as me so our world can be nice and diverse?

Or should we try to find out what causes it and stop it from recurring?


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What you think is an ideal life may not be so for others. And what you have said, taken to an extreme, borders on old eugenics arguments from the pre-WWII era. The Nazis thought they were doing a great favor to the world by eliminating Jews. - Not trying to compare you to a Nazi at all, I'm just saying that when we want to eliminate difference because we think our way is best, it is egotistical and it is a dangerous slippery-slope.

It's not a slippery slope at all, and as I said to Tisar, it's not even complicated. Homosexuality is not a useful biological trait.

I'm not suggesting that homosexuals should be killed or anything like it. In fact I think homosexuals should be cherished, loved and valued like everyone else should be.

I am however suggesting that just because people are homosexual now doesn't mean we should tolerate future generations missing out on the same things as they do.

Not a slippery slope .... ???

So in your perfect world what kind of sex is permissible? Can adolescents masterbate? Adults? What about sex with birth control? Oral sex? Anal sex? Sex on a date? How are these biologically useful? And pornography? Even if it's not biologically useful? What if someone wants to look at gay pornography but can't bring himself (or herself) to participate in gay acts? Are these things permissible in your perfect world? To what extent would you intefer in the lives of others because they violate your idea of normal, clean, 'biologically useful' sex?

Once you've started deciding what kind of sex is permissible for other people, outside of some criteria such as 'mutual consent', you've started your way down one of the slipperiest slopes known to man.


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Actually, I just like the world as a diverse place.

So do I!

Tell you what: I have a dud kidney. It's a genetic condition which my kids might get. As I get older, it gets worse. I've already had to start watching my diet, and I'll not be able to enjoy alcohol for much longer. It won't kill me, but it's bloody painful, it stops me from doing some things and there's no solution.

Should my kids and other people's kids have to go through the same as me so our world can be nice and diverse?

Or should we try to find out what causes it and stop it from recurring?

Well, sorry about your kidney - but it is a health issue. I don't have a health issue. I don't feel like I'm "going through" anything. Like I said - my life is fantastic. I think anybody would be lucky to step in my shoes for a day.


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I think the solution may be geography. Perhaps we could instill a system of diverse, but separate. How about this? We send all the gays to Australia. They could still produce lesbian porn down there, right? We could then send all the blacks to Africa. But what about gay black people? Madagascar? Yes, we'll send all the gay black people to Madagascar. While we're at it, we could send all the jews to, say, Ireland. It would fix that little middle east issue. What are the Irish gonna do, throw potatos at us? Screw 'em. Who am I missing? What about gay jews? Tasmania or New Zealand perhaps? Or black jews? Or was Sammy Davis, Jr. the last one? I think all the Chinese will start eating each other soon or later, so that potential mess should take care of itself.

Once we get rid of the Mexicans (plans are already in progress for that), I think we should definately start looking to get rid of some other undesireables. Are there many gay Mexicans? Cause the could create problems.


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Shriek! Squeal!

I didn't say anything about eliminating options people have.

I said we should eliminate things which stop them from having options.


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I have a dud kidney. ...I'll not be able to enjoy alcohol for much longer. It won't kill me, ...

Sorry to hear about that. But the no alcohol thing sucks and it might kill you. You're Scottish, right? Who ever heard of a sober soccer hooligan?


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Perhaps we could instill a system of diverse, but separate.

I don't think that would be a very good idea.


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I said we should eliminate things which stop them from having options.


Such as drafting legislation that inherently discriminates against people for being gay and wanting to marry?


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I didn't say anything about eliminating options people have.

I said we should eliminate things which stop them from having options.

So what about the sodomy laws. Should they be removed?


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... Like I said - my life is fantastic. I think anybody would be lucky to step in my shoes for a day.

Dave, I really think you should hold on for a minute and put your focus on this statement - which btw is hopelessly true for me too.

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So what about the sodomy laws. Should they be removed?

What are they?

There's no such thing where I live.


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So what about the sodomy laws. Should they be removed?

What are they?

There's no such thing where I live.

Historically you had them in Scotland until recently. But see how laws about sexuality can evolve and become more enlightened? Why not marriage too? Or maybe you think sodomy laws should be reinstated?

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The UK has historically had similar laws, but the offence is known as buggery, not sodomy, and is usually interpreted as referring to anal intercourse between two males or a male and a female. Buggery was made a felony by the Buggery Act in 1533, during the reign of Henry VIII. In 1885, Parliament enacted the Labouchere Amendment [4], which prohibited gross indecency between males, a broad term that was understood to encompass most or all male homosexual acts. It was under this law that Oscar Wilde was convicted and imprisoned. Following the Wolfenden report, sexual acts between two adult males, with no other people present, were made legal in England and Wales in 1967, in Scotland in 1980 and Northern Ireland in 1982.

In the 1980s and 1990s, attempts were made by gay rights organizations to equalize the age of consent for heterosexuals and homosexuals, as the age of consent for homosexuals was set at 21, while the age of consent for heterosexuals was 16. Efforts were also made to modify the "no other person present" clause so that it dealt only with minors. In 1994, Conservative MP Edwina Currie introduced an amendment to Criminal Justice and Public Order Bill which would have lowered the age of consent to 16. The amendment failed, but a compromise amendment which lowered the age of consent to 18 was accepted. The age of consent remained 18 until the Sexual Offences (Amendment) Act 2000 which further reduced it to 16, and the "no other person present" clause was modified to "no minor persons present". Today, the universal age of consent is 16 in England, Scotland, and Wales. The age of consent for both heterosexuals and homosexuals remains at 17 in Northern Ireland.


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Texas...not 1894 but 1990's. Right-wing assholes.

Texas

* Statute: 21.06, Homosexual Conduct. Unconstitutional under Lawrence v. Texas.
* Penalty: $500
* Classification: Misdemeanor
* Restrictions: Same-sex only, Case law in conflict

The state Republican Party platform explicitly opposes the decriminalization of sodomy, stating that "the practice of sodomy tears at the fabric of society" and "contributes to the breakdown of the family unit."

Also see the section on Lawrence and Garner v. Texas
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Sec. 21.01. Definitions.

In this chapter:

(1) "Deviate sexual intercourse" means:

(A) any contact between any part of the genitals of one person and the mouth or anus of another person; or

(B) the penetration of the genitals or the anus of another person with an object.

(2) "Sexual contact" means any touching of the anus, breast, or any part of the genitals of another person with intent to arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person.

(3) "Sexual intercourse" means any penetration of the female sex organ by the male sex organ.

Acts 1973, 63rd Leg., p. 883, ch. 399, Sec. 1, eff. Jan. 1, 1974. Amended by Acts 1979, 66th Leg., p. 373, ch. 168, Sec. 1, eff. Aug. 27, 1979; Acts 1981, 67th Leg., p. 203, ch. 96, Sec. 3, eff. Sept. 1, 1981; Acts 1993, 73rd Leg., ch. 900, Sec. 1.01, eff. Sept. 1, 1994.

Sec. 21.06. Homosexual Conduct.

(a) A person commits an offense if he engages in deviate sexual intercourse with another individual of the same sex.

(b) An offense under this section is a Class C misdemeanor.

Acts 1973, 63rd Leg., p. 883, ch. 399, Sec. 1, eff. Jan. 1, 1974. Amended by Acts 1993, 73rd Leg., ch. 900, Sec. 1.01, eff. Sept. 1, 1994.


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Link, please.


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Tradman wrote:Tell you what: I have a dud kidney. It's a genetic condition which my kids might get. As I get older, it gets worse. I've already had to start watching my diet, and I'll not be able to enjoy alcohol for much longer. It won't kill me, but it's bloody painful, it stops me from doing some things and there's no solution.

Should my kids and other people's kids have to go through the same as me so our world can be nice and diverse?

Or should we try to find out what causes it and stop it from recurring?

So are you saying that being gay is a disease and we should find a cure for it??

Yes or no.


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No, it's not a disease.

If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.


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Thorne...www.sodomylaws.org/usa/texas/texas.htm


Tradman wrote: No, it's not a disease.

If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.

If two people love each other and find happeness...what is there to prevent?

This is getting weird...


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No, it's not a disease.

If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.

WTF :roll:

what harm does homosexuality present to society or individual?


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No, it's not a disease.

If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.

But wouldn't that biological intrusion cross over into the same territory as abortion, which your camp has already declared an abomination?? Weeding out the less desirable is kind of a catch-22 if you're a reactionary Christian.


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tradman wrote: If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.

You (tradman) stated that you are a follower of GOD. If being gay is biological ...God did it. Why would you want to prevent what God made??


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I wonder how Darwin would view homosexuality.

Bob,
Does that link say how many people were prosecuted under that law in recent history (like the last 30 years)?

And lets not overlook you're talking about a law that was enacted in the 1800s.


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No, it's not a disease.

If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.

But wouldn't that biological intrusion cross over into the same territory as abortion,

Wow! Talk about your stretches. :lol:

This analogy might apply if someone was talking about the termination of living homosexuals.


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I wonder how Darwin would view homosexuality.

Who cares???

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Does that link say how many people were prosecuted under that law in recent history (like the last 30 years)?

It didn't say.

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And lets not overlook you're talking about a law that was enacted in the 1800s.

And lets not overlook that it took 130 + years and the US Supreme Court to call the law unconstitutional.


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No, it's not a disease.

If it's biologically determined, yes we should look at whether it would be beneficial to prevent it.

But wouldn't that biological intrusion cross over into the same territory as abortion,

Wow! Talk about your stretches. :lol:

This analogy might apply if someone was talking about the termination of living homosexuals.

Not quite - if the scientific talk turned to methods of 'prevention.'


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I wonder how Darwin would view homosexuality.

Considering that homosexuals have survived genocide, violent persecution, cultural isolation, and can still fight in the military? Probably favorably.


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Who cares???
It sounds like you're opposed to scientific inquiry. :(

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And lets not overlook you're talking about a law that was enacted in the 1800s.

And lets not overlook that it took 130 + years and the US Supreme Court to call the law unconstitutional.

I see. A 130 year old law, that almost never is enforced, finally gets overturned and your take is "Texas...not 1894 but 1990's. Right-wing assholes."
You're a model of objectivity.


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The reason I sort of hijacked this thread and pointed it toward the nature/biology/instinctual energy question is that I know, from long experience dealing with the issue, that (as I said) you will rarely if ever find any anti-gay platform that is not build on homosexuality being an aberration, a condition, or a pathology that they will contrast with a disease model of some kind. The disease and pathology model was prevalent and even part of the psychiatric literature till a few decades ago. And it wasn't because of gay lobbyists that they dumped this model, rather because when they actually studied the issue they found that the pathology model didn't fit and was just a default position for what they had previously misunderstood.

Tradman took issue with my using the word "natural" to describe homosexuality, and of course, and predictably, went on to contrast "natural" with a disease model, perhaps not knowing, or not caring, that professionals (not left-wing pinko morons, but folks who actually studied the issue) scrapped this model decades ago.

Nevertheless, at a deeper level than even the natural and instinctual angle is the issue of legitimacy and authenticity. This is close to home for me–just another straight person--since I was adopted and early on had to wrestle with the whole stigma of being an "illegitimate" human being. And that's probably the final straw that anti-gay folk will not give up regardless of what anyone else says: Homosexuality and homosexuals are illegitimate and inauthentic perversions of the one and only legitimate and authentic human archetype: the heterosexual.

The reasoning here rests on the premise that we need some inherent and divine or biological "reason," pretext or cause to be alive, and the degree to which we are legitimate and authentic human being rests on how faithfully we adhere to and live out that reason, pretext or cause. For the anti-gay folk–who normally are hooked up with various doctrinal religions groups--authenticity and legitimacy are most often linked to our desire to procreate, something that, ironically, Jesus never got around to doing.

As I mentioned yesterday, the importance of openly dragging this out for discussion is that it underlies virtually every anti-gay argument, and nothing can proceed till this is hashed out. Though the analogy is not perfect, you can see in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict the intractable situation both find themselves in when neither will accept the other has the right to exist, something clearly expressed in the following graph:

"But because I care about people, I don't want them to have to live their lives in ways that are not ideal. I'd prefer that my friend David hadn't died of leukemia. I'd prefer that my friend Robert didn't have spina bifida.

"They are and were both great guys, and I love them to bits exactly as they are or were. But that doesn't mean I think leukemia or spina bifida are okay. I don't think those conditions should exist at all. They should be researched, tested and eliminated."

The is another rather ham-fisted effort to contrast homosexuality with the disease model, assuming that gay folk need some kind of medical correction to restore their authenticity. Of course this is simply a not-so-veiled effort to pronounce homosexuality as inauthentic, illegitimate and undesirable, a pathology that should be "researched, tested and eliminated."

Of course there have been decades of research and testing conducted on the topic, but none of that ever made its way into the quote, which as it stands is monstrous denouncement that implies an ethnic-cleansing kind of anodyne is the best and "final" solution. But since the experts insist that homosexuality is not strictly biological or genetic, how might homosexuals be "corrected" or "fixed," and who, and on what authority, will determine the curriculum?

At bottom you have a simple case of denial--that homosexuality is real and it's simply part of life, as normal, ideal, legitimate and authentic to some as heterosexuality is to others. To suggest that a homosexual is somehow missiong out on an "ideal" life by not throwing down with the opposite sex is almost laughably ignorant, and shows not even the most basic understanding of how the human animal actually operates.

At least the bull is out in the open now, and till he's dealt with, no real progress can happen.

JL


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You're a model of objectivity.

Nice try.

I am the model of objectivity...especally compared to what, Texas, You and Tradman think on the suject of gays and their lifestyle.


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I see. A 130 year old law, that almost never is enforced, finally gets overturned and your take is "Texas...not 1894 but 1990's. Right-wing assholes."
You're a model of objectivity.

Nice try.

I am the model of objectivity...especally compared to what, Texas, You and Tradman think on the suject of gays and their lifestyle.

The world through Bob's eyes. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

When's your bitch coming back?


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The world through Bob's eyes. Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

When's your bitch coming back?

You never left. :lol: :lol: :lol:


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The world through Bob's eyes. Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

When's your b---- coming back?

You never left.

The world through Bob's eyes. :lol: :lol: :lol:
the boy ain't got a clue.


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It's been brought to my attention that I implied something incorrectly.

The fact of the matter is Bob is Rufus's bitch.

Sorry for the confusion, folks. :wink:


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Bob,
Does that link say how many people were prosecuted under that law in recent history (like the last 30 years)?

And lets not overlook you're talking about a law that was enacted in the 1800s.

Lawrence versus Texas, late 1990s, I believe.

http://www.sodomylaws.org/lawrence/lawrence.htm


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It's been brought to my attention that I implied something incorrectly.

The fact of the matter is Bob is Rufus's bitch.

Sorry for the confusion, folks. Wink

Really funny how your back-woods, bible-thumping-homphobic mind works when you can't address the issue at hand. :lol:


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It's been brought to my attention that I implied something incorrectly.

The fact of the matter is Bob is Rufus's b----.

Sorry for the confusion, folks. Wink

Really funny how your back-woods, bible-thumping-homphobic mind works when you can't address the issue at hand. :lol:

Specifically, what issue were you addressing that I failed to address?

You never answer these kinds of direct questions, so I don't expect you to do anything different this time. :wink:


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Bob,
Does that link say how many people were prosecuted under that law in recent history (like the last 30 years)?

And lets not overlook you're talking about a law that was enacted in the 1800s.

Lawrence versus Texas, late 1990s, I believe.

http://www.sodomylaws.org/lawrence/lawrence.htm

Your point?


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Thorne wrote: It's been brought to my attention that I implied something incorrectly.

The fact of the matter is Bob is Rufus's bitch.

Sorry for the confusion, folks. Wink

It's been brought to my attention that this may violate the TOS. :lol:

Thorne...don't worry you are still my one and only BIATCH on this site.


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And so this thread has now gone where most decent threads always go. It was pretty good while it lasted.


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I wonder how Darwin would view homosexuality.

Bob,
Does that link say how many people were prosecuted under that law in recent history (like the last 30 years)?

And lets not overlook you're talking about a law that was enacted in the 1800s.

Lawrence versus Texas, late 1990s, I believe.

http://www.sodomylaws.org/lawrence/lawrence.htm

Your point?

Uhhhh Thorne. I think his point was that the law was ruled unconstitutional BECAUSE it was used to prosecute a gay pair in 1998. So, although it was used to prosecute someone in 1998, since then it's been ruled unconstitutional and camhead's giving you the last example where the law was actually used to prosecute someone.

But I could be wrong. This just seems like the most obvious answer to your question.

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Did this thread just get yanked out of circulation for a bit? If so, why?


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.. if he were coming out here and firing out racial slurs and saying we should go back to slavery more people would see the problem with it.

Hey, where do you get off bashing slavery? Slavery is clearly okay acording to the bible, so whats wrong with you? I think slavery should be reinstituted right away. I figure that blacks are owed about 300 years of being able to own white slaves.


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Yanqui,

I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.

What I was addressing was bobd's misleading/bullshit posts. :wink:

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I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.

What I was addressing was bobd's misleading/bullshit posts. Wink

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What mis-leading...that there are Right-wing A-holes in Texas or the Sumpreme Court calling the law unconstitutional...or that you are my....?

One would have to wonder why that law stayed around as long as it did..so the reference to 1990.

There is nothing misleading in my quotes.

Prove them wrong.


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My (guy) friend's boyfriend got in a car accident and ended up in the hospital. My friend wasn't allowed in to see him. Fucking justify that.

Not that it helps, or matters, but many hospitals (for example, the one where I work,) are including "domestic partner" as one of the "allowed" people on the list of permitted visitors. Ours even will accept the word of a domestic partner for a "Do Not Resuscitate" order (i.e. "Living will.") There's more to it than that, of course.... certain criteria must be met... but it's a small step in the right direction.

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My problem is with the BSA's inconsistency - they'll be a pseudo-public group, expecting entitlement to things that public non-profit groups are entitled to, then stand behind the 'private group' argument when it's socially convenient.

Universities have been doing that same thing for years, BLB. What makes them different?


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i just got married a few months ago, and i don't remember hearing about jebus or any other church stuff at the ceremony. i didn't see anything like that at the court house when i got my license either. i do like the idea of my wife being able to make medical decisions for me if i am incapacitated, and that she will get my stuff without a hassle if i get the chop. mostly, i am grateful for the ability to use her private club memberships so i can go drinking in salt lake city.

i am very happy to be married, and even happier that the church had nothing to do with it. i don't think the church is particularly worried that i didn't invite it to my wedding.

i don't really see why anyone else should be denied if i can happily and legally be married with absoutely no church involvement and without the institution of marriage crumbling. i know that even though i have no religious feelings at all, my wedding was a wonderful and very emotional event for me. i am very sorry that my gay friends can't have the same experience yet. no matter how committed or long term you are, there is something about the marriage experience that really can't be duplicated.

aside from the legal implications, my problem with calling it a civil union instead of a marriage is that a separate word for an institution marginalizes it. words have a lot of power to bring people together or keep them apart. i don't believe we should be further isolating people who are not doing anyone any harm.

its no consolation to people living through the present day, but i have little doubt that in 50-100 years people will look back at our treatment of homosexuals no differently than we look back at the segregation era. even while utah passes bans on gay marriages, good things are happening. i know that recently rio tinto, a huge and very conservative mining corporation, began offering equal health benefits to same sex partnerships. that blew my mind, especially in light of declining health benefits in general these days. things will slowly change for the better.


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It's actually pretty easy to come up for a plausible evolutionary hypothesis for homosexuality.

It's fairly well established that sexual characteristics (overt and otherwise) are determined very early on in gestation by the hormonal environment of the foetus at particular time points. These hormones are a combination of those produced by the foetus itself and those produced by the mother (a good reason why taking the pill if you think you might be pregnant is a very bad idea). This is powerful enough that in extreme cases a genetically female child may develop as a male, or vice versa.

Now, say mother (or baby) produces a mildly elevated amount of estrogen during this period, whether driven by genetic signals or otherwise. To a female foetus, this is no problem, and may even be a blessing, leading to a very "girly" girl with all the characteristics we men find so attractive. To a male foetus, however, this slants the development of the brain towards the female phenotype, giving a man that is fundamentally attracted to other men. Reverse the situation with testosterone, and... well, you get the picture.

This is a very simplistic model, obviously, but it is just one potential mechanism for how a potential for homosexuality may be passed on in families, and even selected for, even if no gay person ever had children. All that would be required for a positive selection is for their siblings to have more children than usual.


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I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.

The decision that Lawrence v. Texas overturned in 2003 really wasn't that old, unless 1986 is now considered old.


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Universities have been doing that same thing for years, BLB. What makes them different?

Are you referring to public or private universities?


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Yanqui,

I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.


The decision that Lawrence v. Texas overturned in 2003 really wasn't that old, unless 1986 is now considered old.

My point that flew right over Thorne head.


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Universities have been doing that same thing for years, BLB. What makes them different?

Are you referring to public or private universities?

Yes.


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I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.

The decision that Lawrence v. Texas overturned in 2003 really wasn't that old, unless 1986 is now considered old.

Separate case, involving a separate law in a separate state. I guess the distinctions are not that obvious... to some. (HEY BOB, PERHAPS YOU CAN GET WJCA TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU!!!)

Blondie - you do like jumping to fallacious conclusions. In the first pages of this thread, you talked about having a favorable opinion of the BSA of a generation ago, but now they are "overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives".... but you never said how they've changed. Was the BSA (of old) accepting of openly gay and/or atheist troup leaders? Or is this a situation where recent developments were non-issues a generation ago?

Please enlighten me.


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My point that flew right over Thorne head.

You am to smart four me, bOB.


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Yanqui,

I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.

The decision that Lawrence v. Texas overturned in 2003 really wasn't that old, unless 1986 is now considered old.

Separate case, involving a separate law in a separate state. I guess the distinctions are not that obvious... to some. (HEY BOB, PERHAPS YOU CAN GET WJCA TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU!!!)

Blondie - you do like jumping to fallacious conclusions. In the first pages of this thread, you talked about having a favorable opinion of the BSA of a generation ago, but now they are "overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives".... but you never said how they've changed. Was the BSA (of old) accepting of openly gay and/or atheist troup leaders? Or is this a situation where recent developments were non-issues a generation ago?

Please enlighten me.

In reality the BSA wouldn't have had to change at all from how they started and in todays culture they would rightfully be viewed as "overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives". Our present culture doesn't hold the same values that it did when the BSA started, any one could see that. So maybe its the culture thats overrun with antireligious zealots trying to polarize everybody else.
Juts the other side of the coin.


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Separate case, involving a separate law in a separate state. I guess the distinctions are not that obvious... to some. (HEY BOB, PERHAPS YOU CAN GET WJCA TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU!!!)

thorne, you're an idiot. In this case, a legal idiot at that.
:roll:

Bowers was a US SUPREME COURT case, as was its successor, Lawrence v. Texas. Had you clicked on the link I conveniently provided, you would have/should have noticed that. When such cases are decided, it takes a separate Supreme Court case to overturn the precedent set by that ruling (8th grade US Government class, anyone?). But if my explanation is falling on deaf ears, maybe you can get wjca can explain it to you.


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Bowers was a US SUPREME COURT case, as was its successor, Lawrence v. Texas. Had you clicked on the link I conveniently provided, you would have/should have noticed that.

I really showed my ass on that one. You were right. I was wrong.

Now, how about telling me how about telling me how the BSA has changed from a generation ago.


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I really showed my ass on that one. You were right. I was wrong.


And nobody wants to see that pasty, white thing. Not even the gay dudes that may be lurking in this thread.


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Thorne wrote: I really showed my ass on that one. You were right. I was wrong.


Like I said...the point when right over your little, bible-thumping head.


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*Sigh*...labels, labels...

Well, I suppose there's always the option of applying for citizenship in Belgium.

I am sure some of the anti-Christ (no pun intended) comments sting you and thorne and tradman as much as the heterocentric/anti-gay comments sting me. I apologize for, in retaliation, having labeled you as a bigot and homophobe (though that is what your comments demonstrate), if that insulted you. Since you have labeled myself and others (as hell-bound destroyers of decent living) on occassion, hopefully you understand.

Now, in an effort towards understanding each other as human beings and not as labels with contradictory political agendas - here is an open invitation for you to visit me. I will put you up in my home and show you around Europe. Only one rule: I won't preach to you about your lifestyle and you won't preach to me about mine. Since you have gay friends (as I remember from the don't-ask thread) and I have a Catholic mother, we should have practice at that. Right?
I don't know how I missed this earlier. Thank you for your generous and gracious invitation. Though a trip to Europe is not in my immediate plans, I appreciate it nonetheless.

And yes, you're quite right in assuming I don't 'preach' to my gay friends. So, if you ever find yourself in Florida I sincerely extend the same invitation to you.


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Yanqui,

I'm well aware of the case and it's implication. It was about an absurdly out of date law, that was basically unenforced until the Lawerence arrest.

The decision that Lawrence v. Texas overturned in 2003 really wasn't that old, unless 1986 is now considered old.

Separate case, involving a separate law in a separate state. I guess the distinctions are not that obvious... to some. (HEY BOB, PERHAPS YOU CAN GET WJCA TO EXPLAIN IT TO YOU!!!)

Blondie - you do like jumping to fallacious conclusions. In the first pages of this thread, you talked about having a favorable opinion of the BSA of a generation ago, but now they are "overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives".... but you never said how they've changed. Was the BSA (of old) accepting of openly gay and/or atheist troup leaders? Or is this a situation where recent developments were non-issues a generation ago?

Please enlighten me.

In reality the BSA wouldn't have had to change at all from how they started and in todays culture they would rightfully be viewed as "overrun by religious zealots as a means of polarizing the organization due to charged political motives". Our present culture doesn't hold the same values that it did when the BSA started, any one could see that. So maybe its the culture thats overrun with antireligious zealots trying to polarize everybody else.
Juts the other side of the coin.

Perhaps there is a significant difference between the concept of an anti religious zealot and a religious zealot. It seems to me that the religious zealot wants to force his beliefs on others while the anti religious zealot has no beliefs to enforce so is only forcing his government to not be religious, since this happens to be what is written into our constitution I don't see much of a problem. If you have an example of an anti religious zealot trying to use the government to enforce their lack of belief on others or to try to remove the belief from a person, like the religious right does (yes, imposing Christian right beiliefs on our government structures is pushing out the beiliefs of others), then I would be very opposed to this. One thing that Christians miss when they try to say that this is a Christian country is the imposition that this is on others who are not.


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Hey jerrymyuh, it's a matter of taking BACK this country. it has strayed far from the Christian nation you erroneously believe Christians think it might be....putz.


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Hey jerrymyuh, it's a matter of taking BACK this country. it has strayed far from the Christian nation you erroneously believe Christians think it might be....putz.

"Taking back this country"?? From who, in what way? If you mean that the country should be a better nation and should be more moral, I can agree with that. As far as it straying from being a Christian nation, do you really think it ever was? I am absolutely willing to support the good deeds of Christians and their desire to help people be better people. However, there are a number of activities of right wing Christians which to many non-christians are not desirable. Should my tax dollars and government support these secular activities?


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He wrote: "It seems to me that the religious zealot wants to force his beliefs on others while the anti religious zealot has no beliefs to enforce so is only forcing his government to not be religious."

But why? Because he/she believes this is better, truer, more scientific, more humane, and all that jazz. So you ask, "How do you know that?" and you're fed a bunch of shuck and jive, or quotes from authorities, or get stonewalled with technical jargon and screwy re-definitions, or lambasted for having to ask in the first place when in fact very few people know much of anything in terms of broad-stroke, human activities. When you actually look, almost everything to do with human relations is based on beliefs, often fobbed off as "the plain and active truth."

The B.S. of A. believe that if they were to allow gay scout leaders in their ranks the Children of God would run the risk of being sodomized or encouraged, by tacit approval, to sodomize their fellow man. Or you might move up the ladder of beliefs to other beliefs that -- if the sodomy angle is too much (and it is) -- that at the very least gay scout leaders are anti-God and anti-Christian, or bad examples, or just plain bad as described and defined by yet other beliefs based a distored vew of what a gay person actually is. And this last belief is that a gay person is false and inauthentic and mentally, emotionally and sexually diseased. This last belief--homosexuality as pathology--is the last line of defense of the kook and the zealot, and when it's proffered as something different than a belief (for example, at true, as a self-evident fact, et al), you have nothing less than the Devil's work being conducted in the name of God.

Somebody wrote that: ". . . there are a number of activities of right wing Christians which to many non-christians are not desirable." Such activities are also found lacking by many Christians. When literalist interpretations of any sacred text are proffered as "fact," there's alway Hell to pay.

It's totally jackass to even be discussing this in 2006. What the hell . . . are you kidding me?

JL


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Your tax dollars already support secular activities. You're probably pretty content that they do.


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He wrote: "It seems to me that the religious zealot wants to force his beliefs on others while the anti religious zealot has no beliefs to enforce so is only forcing his government to not be religious."

But why? Because he/she believes this is better, truer, more scientific, more humane, and all that jazz. So you ask, "How do you know that?" and you're fed a bunch of shuck and jive, or quotes from authorities, or get stonewalled with technical jargon and screwy re-definitions, or lambasted for having to ask in the first place when in fact very few people know much of anything in terms of broad-stroke, human activities. When you actually look, almost everything to do with human relations is based on beliefs, often fobbed off as "the plain and active truth."

The B.S. of A. believe that if they were to allow gay scout leaders in their ranks the Children of God would run the risk of being sodomized or encouraged, by tacit approval, to sodomize their fellow man. Or you might move up the ladder of beliefs to other beliefs that -- if the sodomy angle is too much (and it is) -- that at the very least gay scout leaders are anti-God and anti-Christian, or bad examples, or just plain bad as described and defined by yet other beliefs based a distored vew of what a gay person actually is. And this last belief is that a gay person is false and inauthentic and mentally, emotionally and sexually diseased. This last belief--homosexuality as pathology--is the last line of defense of the kook and the zealot, and when it's proffered as something different than a belief (for example, at true, as a self-evident fact, et al), you have nothing less than the Devil's work being conducted in the name of God.

It's totally jackass to even be discussing this in 2006. What the hell . . . are you kidding me?

JL

:righton:

Well said. Religious-style thinking - "it is this way because I believe/some guy told me/my prejudices say it is" infects, to a greater or lesser extent, every aspect of human endeavour - religious and secular, government and (unfortunately) scientific.

We can't really help it. We're herd animals at heart - we have this built-in drive to follow what the herd leader tells us. Sad really.


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He wrote: "It seems to me that the religious zealot wants to force his beliefs on others while the anti religious zealot has no beliefs to enforce so is only forcing his government to not be religious."

But why? Because he/she believes this is better, truer, more scientific, more humane, and all that jazz. So you ask, "How do you know that?" and you're fed a bunch of shuck and jive, or quotes from authorities, or get stonewalled with technical jargon and screwy re-definitions, or lambasted for having to ask in the first place when in fact very few people know much of anything in terms of broad-stroke, human activities. When you actually look, almost everything to do with human relations is based on beliefs, often fobbed off as "the plain and active truth."

The B.S. of A. believe that if they were to allow gay scout leaders in their ranks the Children of God would run the risk of being sodomized or encouraged, by tacit approval, to sodomize their fellow man. Or you might move up the ladder of beliefs to other beliefs that -- if the sodomy angle is too much (and it is) -- that at the very least gay scout leaders are anti-God and anti-Christian, or bad examples, or just plain bad as described and defined by yet other beliefs based a distored vew of what a gay person actually is. And this last belief is that a gay person is false and inauthentic and mentally, emotionally and sexually diseased. This last belief--homosexuality as pathology--is the last line of defense of the kook and the zealot, and when it's proffered as something different than a belief (for example, at true, as a self-evident fact, et al), you have nothing less than the Devil's work being conducted in the name of God.

It's totally jackass to even be discussing this in 2006. What the hell . . . are you kidding me?

JL

:righton:

Well said. Religious-style thinking - "it is this way because I believe/some guy told me/my prejudices say it is" infects, to a greater or lesser extent, every aspect of human endeavour - religious and secular, government and (unfortunately) scientific.

We can't really help it. We're herd animals at heart - we have this built-in drive to follow what the herd leader tells us. Sad really.

Please join me in encouraging independant thought. I for one end up saying things that in hindsight might seem kind of stupid, just because my idea isn't fully thought out or was off the cuff. But at least the idea was my own and wasn't just regurgitation.


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Ok kids, its been 20 pages, everyone's made their points, time to go to bed and give some other controversy a turn to play.


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Get it, now :?:


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Now that you mention it, I do usually get what I ask for. I'm such a lucky guy.


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Never fear, blonde one, there's plenty of support still out there...

When I land a job, which won't be too long from now, I plan to support the BSA financially and professionally (as a metal craft merit badge/CPR instructor/anything else they can use) faithfully.

I've had it with the intrusions attempted by this ultra-liberal generation.

troll, but a good one: T2


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What I was addressing was bobd's misleading/s--- posts. Wink

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"Texas...not 1894 but 1990's. Right-wing assholes."

And lets not overlook that it took 130 + years and the US Supreme Court to call the law unconstitutional.


What mis-leading...that there are Right-wing A-holes in Texas or the Sumpreme Court calling the law unconstitutional...or that you are my....?

One would have to wonder why that law stayed around as long as it did..so the reference to 1990.

There is nothing misleading in my quotes.

Prove them wrong.

In 1990, half the States (including MA, RI, MD and even DC) had anti-homosexual laws. Were they all Right Wing Assholes?

"It took 130 + years and the US Supreme Court to call the law unconstitutional"? Was there any challenge for the first 100 or so years? By and large, it's constitutionality would have been a non-issue 30, 40 or 100 years earlier. Do you think many people considered it unconstitutional in 1950?

Just wanted to clear that up. :wink:


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In 1990, half the States (including MA, RI, MD and even DC) had anti-homosexual laws. Were they all Right Wing Assholes?

Maybe, however the majority tend to reside in a massive realm comprised of hypocritical political viewpoints.

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"It took 130 + years and the US Supreme Court to call the law unconstitutional"? Was there any challenge for the first 100 or so years? By and large, it's constitutionality would have been a non-issue 30, 40 or 100 years earlier. Do you think many people considered it unconstitutional in 1950?

Just wanted to clear that up. :wink:

Well, considering that [officially] until 1969 the main concern on the 'gay' agenda was finding a way to end 'legal' police abuse at bars and in public places, I don't think the issue of the constitutionality of gay marriage was really on the mainstream radar. There's also that minor fact that homosexuality was legally considered a mental disease until the 1970s (or the 1990s, depending on which US affiliated organization you ask)...

And kudos on taking your sweet time in formulating a response; guess you just can't stay away from gay controversy for long without having withdrawals.


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Maybe, however the majority tend to reside in a massive realm comprised of hypocritical political viewpoints.
How eloquently non-specific. Are you considering a career in politics?

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And kudos on taking your sweet time in formulating a response; guess you just can't stay away from gay controversy for long without having withdrawals.
Only as long as those dreams stay away. :wink:


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Maybe, however the majority tend to reside in a massive realm comprised of hypocritical political viewpoints.
How eloquently non-specific. Are you considering a career in politics?

Considering that my response was a direct response to you, I think any lacking in clarity that you perceived is entirely your problem.

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And kudos on taking your sweet time in formulating a response; guess you just can't stay away from gay controversy for long without having withdrawals.
Only as long as those dreams stay away. :wink:

What, another unknown side effect of Ambien??


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In 1990, half the States (including MA, RI, MD and even DC) had anti-homosexual laws. Were they all Right Wing Assholes?

Maybe, however the majority tend to reside in a massive realm comprised of hypocritical political viewpoints.

WTF does your reply have have to do with my question? Do you frequently answer simple yes or no questions with such gaseous hypotheticals?


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WTF does your reply have have to do with my question? Do you frequently answer simple yes or no questions with such gaseous hypotheticals?

Well, perhaps one day you'll ask a legitimate 'yes or no' question that can sufficiently be answered by a 'yes' or 'no.' In the meantime, I won't provide either/or responses to questions that you've formulated as a means of affirming what you've already convinced yourself of.


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WTF does your reply have have to do with my question? Do you frequently answer simple yes or no questions with such gaseous hypotheticals?

Well, perhaps one day you'll ask a legitimate 'yes or no' question that can sufficiently be answered by a 'yes' or 'no.' In the meantime, I won't provide either/or responses to questions that you've formulated as a means of affirming what you've already convinced yourself of.

.... baffle 'em with bullshit, eh blondie. :wink:


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Is this thread still going? It may be time to move on and let this one die, or I may be forced to start up the old google image search.


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WTF does your reply have have to do with my question? Do you frequently answer simple yes or no questions with such gaseous hypotheticals?

Well, perhaps one day you'll ask a legitimate 'yes or no' question that can sufficiently be answered by a 'yes' or 'no.' In the meantime, I won't provide either/or responses to questions that you've formulated as a means of affirming what you've already convinced yourself of.

.... baffle 'em with s---, eh blondie. :wink:

It really doesn't take much to baffle you, does it?


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[quote "blonde_loves_bolts"][quote][quote][quote]WTF does your reply have have to do with my question? Do you frequently answer simple yes or no questions with such gaseous hypotheticals?[/quote]

Well, perhaps one day you'll ask a legitimate 'yes or no' question that can sufficiently be answered by a 'yes' or 'no.' In the meantime, I won't provide either/or responses to questions that you've formulated as a means of affirming what you've already convinced yourself of.[/quote]

.... baffle 'em with s---, eh blondie. :wink:[/quote]

It really doesn't take much to baffle you, does it?[/quote]

The baffling is in the PTFTW MoFos


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