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robbovius
Feb 10, 2009, 2:01 PM
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clausti wrote: [it's just the people who don't really ever admit to being mad or resentful of their kids, but who at the same time will spout both "this is the hardest thing ever" and "this is the most awesomest thing ever" that kind of give me a weird vibe.
I refer you to Seb's ...
"4. Also, until you're a parent, you have absolutely no idea what it's like. "
People tend to look at human development based on the scale of Infancy to early adulthood, making off each emotional and behavioural stage in development ascneding to adulthood, What's forgotten or overlooked, is that this developpment continues well into adulthood. Parrent hood is another developmental stage in the toality of the individual human life.
a whole new set of instinctually driven emotional states and behaviours awaken that I am convinced one cannot experienced without being part of a successful breeding couple.
yup, raising kids is partly the hardest and longest ascent you'll ever make, a giant pain in teh ass some days you'll wish would just go AWAY!...
but then, they'll score some achievement, or evidence some ability that surpasses your own, or show signs of embracing their own destiny, and there's this glow of affection adn pride and...well you feel like you're going to crty and laugh and your head is going to explode you feel so happy...
it has very little to do with the mind game your describing, a sort of post traumatic stress rationalization disorder.
Until you have you're own kids, you won't ever know.
(This post was edited by robbovius on Feb 10, 2009, 2:02 PM)
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