dingus wrote:
One thing I have personally noted - my pet peeves are not necessarily those of my partners.
Example: a lazy belay habit in trad is to allow the leader to pull the slack through the belay device, rather than feeding. This makes my blood boil. A couple of my partners are all 'whatever.'
So I had to make a decision - kill them or deal with the issue.
I split the diff and only killed one of them. I'm certainly watching the leader closely if she's sketch, if she's cruxing, if she asks.
DMT