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caughtinside
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hey badsanta, do you mind telling us your name, so that none of us accidentally climbs with a total asshole? thanks.
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alpinismo_flujo
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socalclimber wrote: Nobody was making any excuses. You just made an assumption. What an asshole. Please re-read entire thread for plenty of assumptions and excuses...my post was merely poking fun at ALL of us (climbers).
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caughtinside
May 14, 2007, 10:53 PM
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I remember this guy. What a jerk. I pity the poor folks who end up climbing with him. James, do us all a favor and quit climbing.
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socalclimber
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alpinismo_flujo wrote: socalclimber wrote: Nobody was making any excuses. You just made an assumption. What an asshole. Please re-read entire thread for plenty of assumptions and excuses...my post was merely poking fun at ALL of us (climbers). OOPS, sorry, I wasn't refering to you. We must have posted on top of each other. I was refering to badsanta. By the way, I have read the thread multiple times. Again sorry, I wasn't addressing you. Robert
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naronaro
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badsanta wrote: Thedejongs, correct, I WON'T climb with anyone that has almost killed someone. I encourage you to do so to show me the error of my judgements. They can practice their belay skills on YOU. Using an ATC or a 'thin' rope is no excuse for dropping a leader. I've held plenty of leader falls with both. Noob has nothing to do with it, a new belayer can hold leader falls if they are competent. BAD Santa... READ Thedejongs comment again. I think you misunderstood what that climber was saying. I have spoke with the belayer you don't know him. He has just as much passion for this sport as anyone on this forum. His in-experience is what caused this accident. Not to mention I spoke with Donna and she knew he was a noob without lead belaying experience. If he ever wants to come climb with me I will let him belay me... supervised but I will let him belay me. Dude it was an accident. I would have to agree with Socal Climber.. that was an Asshole comment.
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naronaro
May 15, 2007, 3:11 AM
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WHAT? JAMES WASSER your BadSanta? Bro come on man, how can you say that about the belayer who dropped Donna.... Bro you really kicked the climber when he is already down. HEY NEXT TIME WE CLIMB well talk about "TACT". I am ready for Suicide Rock. Ingrid is taking me to Tahquitz this weekend. So next weekend I am free. Contact me... REMEMBER JAMES.. TACT!
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jt512
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naronaro wrote: WHAT? JAMES WASSER your BadSanta? Bro come on man, how can you say that about the belayer who dropped Donna.... Bro you really kicked the climber when he is already down. HEY NEXT TIME WE CLIMB well talk about "TACT". I am ready for Suicide Rock. Ingrid is taking me to Tahquitz this weekend. So next weekend I am free. Contact me... REMEMBER JAMES.. TACT! You're still willing to climb with this sociopath? Jay
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climbsomething
May 15, 2007, 4:25 AM
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By all accounts, Donna is a nice person. So I'm sorry a thread about her fall has been hijacked by so much negativity. At the same time, I won't deny that seeing badepic get his karmic due is great theater. If he continues to work for it, I can post some of the contents of his unhinged psycho PMs, and I know of others who can too. /ostracism
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murf
May 15, 2007, 2:54 PM
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Epicsanta - I have only one thing for you.... may you get all the rewards you deserve.Oh, and the offer is still open BTW. I hope Donna is continuing to recover. -Murf
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socalclimber
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I'm going to attempt to guide this thread back on topic. Please post Donna's progress. I wish her the best!
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baja_java
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to naronaro jt512 wrote: You're still willing to climb with this sociopath? apparently Naro and James Wasser aren't all that different. both have limited climbing experience and an overzealous penchant to appoint themselves instructors to unwary beginners, and with similar scatterbrains to match
jt512 wrote: One inadequately trained n00b got dropped by another inadequately trained n00b. couple of sundays ago, my friends and i happened to be climbing at the same spot where a big gathering of this group was. from a day's interaction with them and subsequent discussion with Naro himself, i don't find Jay's BS-cutting assessment all that far off, considering the random teach-by-committee approach that i've witnessed with this group. being that, Donna wasn't the only person responsible for what competence her belayer had up til that day of the accident. all of his so-called "teachers" are too. please don't drone on and on about how bad the belayer already feels. every one of you so-called "teachers" should feel the same. at minimum, the belayer's one and only job is to lock off on a fall. that means to do so even if you're yanked off-balanced, to do so even if your best friend's girlfriend starts giving you a blowjob in the middle of a belay. barring a lightning strike to the head or a jaguar leaping out of a tree and chomping you in the crotch, there's no if's or but's about that lock-off. and yet this very basic and mandatory skill is not successfully taught. even if a new, thinner, dry-treated rope was used in a standard tube device, the lock-off may be more difficult, but not impossible. if that's a contributing factor, every one of these "teachers" should've been aware of the consequence of this combo in inexperienced hands. and why did no one swap to him a better belay device to use with that rope. if he had a glove, why didn't anyone tell him to put it on. if not, why didn't anyone suggest he tape his brake hand? so yes, Jay's assessment is quite accurate, on both counts Donna. i don't know you, only what little i've read here and elsewhere. you seems like a kind, giving person. hope you heal up soon and able to be back on the rock, and get to climb with better people Sean
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alpinismo_flujo
May 15, 2007, 8:14 PM
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I think this thread has drifted well. -We don't know Donna and honestly is she going to read it? Don't get me wrong, I wish her the best and hope she recovers so she can back to enjoying life. However, it seems as though there's some bad belayers amongst us? Not sure...at least there is a general concern about it or has this just become a lynch mob looking for a neck to swing?? Do we need a new thread to continue this discussion/belay bashing or .....?
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bones
May 15, 2007, 9:03 PM
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There are many people out there with delusions of experience (and good belay skills). Apparently some, like James and Randee (hehe), are notorious enough to be known by all SoCal climbers who have been around for awhile, but the poor noobs have no idea who these people are. Maybe a thread outing known people like this could be useful. And remember, just because someone hasn't caused an accident yet doesn't necessarily make them safe... they may have just been lucky so far.
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alpinismo_flujo
May 15, 2007, 9:17 PM
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bones wrote: There are many people out there with delusions of experience (and good belay skills).Maybe a thread outing known people like this could be useful. So true - but how do you create a criteria to gauge the competence of the belayer before throwing them to the dogs? I understand about giving a test, etc...but this is cyber land. Do you just go by one's reputation? How they post? Looking at their resume?
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bones
May 15, 2007, 9:40 PM
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"alpinismo_flujo wrote: but how do you create a criteria to gauge the competence of the belayer before throwing them to the dogs? I understand about giving a test, etc...but this is cyber land. Do you just go by one's reputation? How they post? Looking at their resume? Don't know. Maybe just create a thread where people post up about exceptionally bad experiences with climbers who grossly misrepresent themselves and/or are very dangerous (to their partners safety).
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alpinismo_flujo
May 15, 2007, 9:51 PM
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The Thread of Shame? In a perfect world that would work, but then politics, a noob that thought he knew but really didn't know how to judge or some old angry girlfriend/boyfriend would muddy it up with unfounded opinions. However, it would make good reading (as long as I didn't make the list)...
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climbsomething
May 15, 2007, 9:55 PM
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bones wrote: There are many people out there with delusions of experience (and good belay skills). Apparently some, like James and Randee (hehe), are notorious enough to be known by all SoCal climbers who have been around for awhile, but the poor noobs have no idea who these people are. Oh my gosh! I remember her! Are you sure,, you just didnt want to date her,,a strong woman who had just completed,,, a solo roadtrip??!! I appreciate the public-service sentiment, but I'm a little uneasy about the idea of having a running thread dedicated to that kind of thing. I think word gets around well enough, and karma eventually takes care of itself on a case-by-case basis, as illustrated above.
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caughtinside
May 15, 2007, 9:57 PM
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climbsomething wrote: bones wrote: There are many people out there with delusions of experience (and good belay skills). Apparently some, like James and Randee (hehe), are notorious enough to be known by all SoCal climbers who have been around for awhile, but the poor noobs have no idea who these people are. Oh my gosh! I remember her! Are you sure,, you just didnt want to date her,,a strong woman who had just completed,,, a solo roadtrip??!! I appreciate the public-service sentiment, but I'm a little uneasy about the idea of having a running thread dedicated to that kind of thing. I think word gets around well enough, and karma eventually takes care of itself on a case-by-case basis, as illustrated above. Do not Many Men Want to Date Her?
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alpinismo_flujo
May 15, 2007, 10:02 PM
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badsanta wrote: There is a safety obligation to the climbing community to let us make an informed decision -badsanta, that's the smartest thing you've said in this thread... I think the belayer should stand up and give a full account of what happened. This would help all of us understand what happened and why. We could all learn from it. Let's hear from you (belayer).....I'm calling you out.
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alpinismo_flujo
May 15, 2007, 10:28 PM
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bones wrote: yeah... I tried to get wit Randee... nuttin' finer dan a hardwoman who dogged her way up classic climbs all over da country, and carries her gear in plastic grocery bags, and can't figure out how to operate the remote key to open the car door. Too bad for me she had to move on. sigh. I don't know who that is or the story behind it, but sounds like an interesting Country Song....you got the rest of the lyrics?
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tansofun
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alpinismo_flujo wrote: I don't know who that is or the story behind it, but sounds like an interesting Country Song....you got the rest of the lyrics? While we're getting off topic, lets go hiking
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climbsomething wrote: bones wrote: There are many people out there with delusions of experience (and good belay skills). Apparently some, like James and Randee (hehe), are notorious enough to be known by all SoCal climbers who have been around for awhile, but the poor noobs have no idea who these people are. Oh my gosh! I remember her! Are you sure,, you just didnt want to date her,,a strong woman who had just completed,,, a solo roadtrip??!! The famous 11,000-mile trip from coast to coast. Jay
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naronaro
May 16, 2007, 6:34 AM
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baja_java wrote: to naronaro jt512 wrote: You're still willing to climb with this sociopath? [image]http://photos4.meetupstatic.com/photos/member/8/3/b/5/highres_753717.jpeg[/image] [image]http://photos3.meetupstatic.com/photos/member/4/d/a/0/highres_919872.jpeg[/image] apparently Naro and James Wasser aren't all that different. both have limited climbing experience and an overzealous penchant to appoint themselves instructors to unwary beginners, and with similar scatterbrains to match jt512 wrote: One inadequately trained n00b got dropped by another inadequately trained n00b. couple of sundays ago, my friends and i happened to be climbing at the same spot where a big gathering of this group was. from a day's interaction with them and subsequent discussion with Naro himself, i don't find Jay's BS-cutting assessment all that far off, considering the random teach-by-committee approach that i've witnessed with this group. being that, Donna wasn't the only person responsible for what competence her belayer had up til that day of the accident. all of his so-called "teachers" are too. please don't drone on and on about how bad the belayer already feels. every one of you so-called "teachers" should feel the same. at minimum, the belayer's one and only job is to lock off on a fall. that means to do so even if you're yanked off-balanced, to do so even if your best friend's girlfriend starts giving you a blowjob in the middle of a belay. barring a lightning strike to the head or a jaguar leaping out of a tree and chomping you in the crotch, there's no if's or but's about that lock-off. and yet this very basic and mandatory skill is not successfully taught. even if a new, thinner, dry-treated rope was used in a standard tube device, the lock-off may be more difficult, but not impossible. if that's a contributing factor, every one of these "teachers" should've been aware of the consequence of this combo in inexperienced hands. and why did no one swap to him a better belay device to use with that rope. if he had a glove, why didn't anyone tell him to put it on. if not, why didn't anyone suggest he tape his brake hand? so yes, Jay's assessment is quite accurate, on both counts Donna. i don't know you, only what little i've read here and elsewhere. you seems like a kind, giving person. hope you heal up soon and able to be back on the rock, and get to climb with better people Sean THIS FORUM WAS SET UP TO SUPPORT DONNA, AND HELP HER THROUGH A TOUGH TIME. DON'T TURN THIS INTO A PERSONAL ISSUE. OUR DISCUSSION WAS PRIVATE. ADULT'S DON'T BRING PRIVATE DISSCUSSIONS TO THE PUBLIC. PERSONALLY I DON'T GIVE A SHIT HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN CLIMBING OR HOW WELL YOU KNOW THE CRAFT ...ACCIDENT'S HAPPEN.. .. CHECK THE "IN MEMORY OF..." SECTION. YOUR PRETTY QUICK TO POINT FINGERS AND BLAME. NEXT TIME YOU HAVE SOMETHING PERSONAL TO SAY TO ME. LET'S KEEP IT BETWEEN US.. EMAIL ME.. OR WE CAN GO OVER IT IN PERSON. WE CAN RESOLVE ANY ISSUES YOU HAVE.
In reply to: Donna. i don't know you, only what little i've read here and elsewhere. you seems like a kind, giving person. hope you heal up soon and able to be back on the rock, and get to climb with better people DUDE YOU DON'T KNOW HER, DON'T TRY TO SOUND ALL SINCERE AND THEN BASH HER FRIENDS... "BETTER PEOPLE"? THERE ARE OVER 200+ CLIMBERS IN OUR GROUP FROM THE VALLEY DOWN TO SAN DIEGO... ANYWAYS I AM NOT GOING TO GET INTO IT HERE. THIS FORUM IS FOR DONNA. YOU DON'T KNOW HER... HAVE BEEN TO THE HOSPITAL IN COLTON?... I HAVE BEEN THERE TWICE ALREADY. IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING POSITIVE TO SAY...SHUT YOUR MOUTH.
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