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paborden
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Thanks guys, I've edited this post 'cause I don't need any more responses. Appreciate your comments (and flames)...all of it's been way useful feedback for me.
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paborden wrote: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? I'm currently refining the nuts and bolts of a mental training product for climbers that I've spent the last two years of my life developing, time spent sitting at the feet of gurus far and wide, learning their secrets, so I could finally bring them to the climbing community. At long last, that day has arrived. Thing is, I need testimonials from people. So, I'm looking to trade this knowledge for testimonials, assuming you like the work, of course. Not sure what form this will take yet -- maybe a weekend workshop, maybe a few hours one-on-one. If you're interested in getting your mental game up to par, and possibly providing a video testimonial, please shoot an email to paborden (at) gmail (dot) com. First, though, a disclaimer: by the end of our time together, you might have decided climbing's no longer for you. If you're willing to take that risk, email me anyway. Oh, and you've got to be in the Northeast to take part. I'll also be glad to answer any questions in this post.
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May 27, 2009, 1:27 AM
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What, pray tell, is a 'mental pill'? Once you explain that, what is a 'magic mental pill'? 3rd, how did you learn anything sitting and not doing? 4th, your search couldn't have been that good- I never once notice you sitting at MY feet !
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paborden
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I should say, closest thing to a magic mental pill I've found yet. Not at liberty to go into too much detail here, apart from saying this is very revolutionary stuff. Interested parties, in the NE, especially in NYC, should contact me. I usually charge a couple hundred dollars an hour to do this work with people, so this is a golden opportunity for the open minded.
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Strong werk by angry so far in this thread.
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spikeddem wrote: Strong werk by angry so far in this thread.
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In reply to: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? I'd be extremely skeptical, and expect someone making such a claim to actually have some evidence for it, rather than fishing for suckers.
In reply to: I'm currently refining the nuts and bolts of a mental training product for climbers that I've spent the last two years of my life developing, time spent sitting at the feet of gurus far and wide, learning their secrets, so I could finally bring them to the climbing community. If you are still refining the product, then it doesn't exist yet, which means your first statement is false, which increases my skepticism. Plus, appealing to the "guru factor" is weak sauce.
In reply to: At long last, that day has arrived. Thing is, I need testimonials from people. So, I'm looking to trade this knowledge for testimonials, assuming you like the work, of course. Not sure what form this will take yet -- maybe a weekend workshop, maybe a few hours one-on-one. If you're interested in getting your mental game up to par, and possibly providing a video testimonial, please shoot an email to This is troubling. Don't you personally know any climbers? I could scratch up a half dozen "testimonials" (among the weakest forms of evidence, BTW) with a few phone calls. Stop trying to sell me something. I'm working this side of the street.
In reply to: First, though, a disclaimer: by the end of our time together, you might have decided climbing's no longer for you. If you're willing to take that risk, email me anyway. Oh, and you've got to be in the Northeast to take part. So, your "magic pill", might make you stop climbing? Quite a side effect. And, you need to not just be willing to travel to the northeast, but to actually "be" there? Odd. I'm in the northeast, have the relevant background, and I think I have the requisite trust level around here to really help your product. But based on what you've said, I think it's the biggest pile of crap I've ever heard. Provide some details, or STFU. Or, maybe just very creative trolling, in which case, well done.
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paborden wrote: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? .
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this is gonna be an awesome thread
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paborden wrote: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? Then I would say you were a lying scam artist. Jay
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paborden wrote: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? I'd say you were one of Arno Ilgner's disciples and he already has a forum on this site, so you're a little late to the game. On the other hand, I'm still receiving financial opportunities from Nigeria, so there may be a market opportunity with "late adopters".
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Hey guys, thanks for the responses so far. Forgive me for being a bit hyperbolic in the initial post, but I kinda like being over the top, what can I say. Anyway, I wanted to address some specific concerns. * You have to be in NYC or the NE because that's where I am. And while I'm willing to give my services away for free initially, I'm not willing to travel for free too. That said, if you're interested, you can still PM me, and maybe I'll be in your neck of the woods soon. * The product has not been completed yet. I haven't decided how I'm going to market it, or what form it will take (book, DVD, etc), or even if I'm going to publicly release it at first. I might just take it to the pros and let them have it as their little secret for some time. * I appreciate that you're calling bs. It shows you're looking out for others on that board, which is awesome stuff. Also, my claims are rather monumental, and you're good to question them. * I could get my amigos to give me testimonials, but that would be silly, wouldn't it. Endorsements from a friend are easy to come by. Plus, in my experience, it's generally much better working with people I don't know too well, better results that way. * I may start posting regular installments about all this stuff on my blog, but until then I'll be keeping most of it to myself. I'm honestly torn about what to do. As a peculiar blend of hypnosis, tibetan buddhism, and the like, what I teach people is experience based and about as useful in print as "let me tell you the mechanics of crimping"...i.e. doesn't help. * Yep, you might stop climbing as a result. You might also decide to quit your job and buy a VW Camper Van, only to climb full time. * And thanks, I didn't know Arno had his own forum. I'll check it out...his stuff is always quite inspiring...that said, this isn't Arno's work. Be well guys...and keep the questions coming, I'll answer the ones I can.
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May 27, 2009, 1:09 PM
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i just have this invision of you cooking meth in your basement telling us you have this magic drug that will make us climb like sharma. if im wrong im all ears.
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paborden
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"i just have this invision of you cooking meth in your basement telling us you have this magic drug that will make us climb like sharma. if im wrong im all ears. " That's some funny shite. I'll admit, it DOES sound, just a bit, like I'm hawking meth. But you have to admit, if I'm not *crazy,* then you're curious. I'm going to step away from all the flaming for a second. (Forgot how forums kill productivity). I trust if you're actually interested, and not just internet posing, then you'll PM me.
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paborden wrote: Endorsements from a friend are easy to come by. Endorsements for ineffective treatments are easy to come by to. If you give a group of 100 people a worthless treatment, a few are bound to improve due to random or placebo effects, but they will believe that their improvement was due to the product. You get endorsements from those few people, and ignore the majority who received no benefit. Sound like a plan? Jay
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paborden wrote: I trust if you're actually interested, and not just internet posing, then you'll PM me. Why? What evidence have you given for any rational person to want to PM you? I'm not flaming here, but I'm honestly wondering why any of us should take you seriously. You've given us no reason to.
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Yeah, it's true, I'm not giving you any reason to. I totally get that my promises ring hollow right now and that someone not willing to discuss methodology in detail isn't taken seriously. That said, this is a public forum, and rc.com at that, so I'm not willing to go into depth here. So, those who are curious, and who are willing to take a risk have PMed me. Those who want proof now are waiting. It really is that simple.
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a magic pill to boost performance sounds amazing. is it a steroid? an amphetamine? pretty sure either of those might make you want to stop climbing, too. i should start taking a magic pill rather than continuing to eat all of this weak sauce.
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paborden wrote: Yeah, it's true, I'm not giving you any reason to. I totally get that my promises ring hollow right now and that someone not willing to discuss methodology in detail isn't taken seriously. That said, this is a public forum, and rc.com at that, so I'm not willing to go into depth here. Why, because someone might duplicate your combination of hypnosis and Tibetan meditation, and take it to market first? You're a fucking joke. Jay
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paborden
May 27, 2009, 3:41 PM
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*sigh* JT, I already sent you a PM saying I'd answer any questions you have in private. No need to be so angry about things.
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paborden wrote: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? I’d say it was a placebo suppository….. and for all the good it did I may as well shoved it up my ass.
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paborden wrote: So, those who are curious, and who are willing to take a risk have PMed me. Those who want proof now are waiting. It really is that simple. Dude, come on, no one PMed you.
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paborden wrote: *sigh* JT, I already sent you a PM saying I'd answer any questions you have in private. No need to be so angry about things. I'm not angry. I'm just calling bullshit. Edit: And for the record, your PM said nothing about your be willing to answer questions in private. Jay
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God, I fucking hate salespeople.
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"Hey Jay, Thanks for the response to my post. I appreciate the doubting :) Anyway, next time you're out east, look me up if you're curious about what I do (other than the scam artist part lol). Peter " That was the PM. To me, "look me up" constituted an offer. If that wasn't obvious enough, to reiterate, I'd be glad to answer any questions you may have in private. Thanks for your patience with this, guys. I'm notoriously bad about describing what I do.
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acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] One way you see behind the veil and become a stronger climber. But, you may not climb. The other you go back to your banal existence of pulling down 5.12 on plastic holds.
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I don't think you understand. You are not going to make yourself look good by doing anything but ignoring JT512. He is a master of the craft of making you look like a douche. And trust me, you really don't need any help in that department.
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T-3. Maybe 4, if you can get a few more pages out of it. J
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irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] No, it's more like this. Now there's a very useful instrument.
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bill413 wrote: irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: No, it's more like this. Now there's a very useful instrument. I like the units: fecal/sec.
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jt512 wrote: bill413 wrote: irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] No, it's more like this. [image]http://img82.imageshack.us/img82/6183/bullshitamplifierdetect.gif[/image] Now there's a very useful instrument. I like the units: fecal/sec. Is that metric or imperial?
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bill413 wrote: jt512 wrote: bill413 wrote: irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] No, it's more like this. [image]http://img82.imageshack.us/img82/6183/bullshitamplifierdetect.gif[/image] Now there's a very useful instrument. I like the units: fecal/sec. Is that metric or imperial? Universal
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angry wrote: jt512 wrote: I'm not angry. It would be a violation of the TOS if you were. Actually, it would be pretty funny if were. Jay
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spikeddem wrote: bill413 wrote: jt512 wrote: bill413 wrote: irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] No, it's more like this. [image]http://img82.imageshack.us/img82/6183/bullshitamplifierdetect.gif[/image] Now there's a very useful instrument. I like the units: fecal/sec. Is that metric or imperial? Universal Useless device here. I’ve re-checked it several times and the needle is always pegged.
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Toast_in_the_Machine wrote: spikeddem wrote: bill413 wrote: jt512 wrote: bill413 wrote: irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] No, it's more like this. [image]http://img82.imageshack.us/img82/6183/bullshitamplifierdetect.gif[/image] Now there's a very useful instrument. I like the units: fecal/sec. Is that metric or imperial? Universal Useless device here. I’ve re-checked it several times and the needle is always pegged. I think that's more a commentary on the circles you're testing it in than on the device.
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Toast_in_the_Machine wrote: spikeddem wrote: bill413 wrote: jt512 wrote: bill413 wrote: irregularpanda wrote: acorneau wrote: [image]http://www.tmxclan.com/BlueRedPill.jpg[/image] No, it's more like this. [image]http://img82.imageshack.us/img82/6183/bullshitamplifierdetect.gif[/image] Now there's a very useful instrument. I like the units: fecal/sec. Is that metric or imperial? Universal Useless device here. I’ve re-checked it several times and the needle is always pegged. Funny, it reads zero when I look at it.
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paborden wrote: "Hey Jay, Thanks for the response to my post. I appreciate the doubting :) Anyway, next time you're out east, look me up if you're curious about what I do (other than the scam artist part lol). Peter " That was the PM. To me, "look me up" constituted an offer. If that wasn't obvious enough, to reiterate, I'd be glad to answer any questions you may have in private. Thanks for your patience with this, guys. I'm notoriously bad about describing what I do. Well, Peter, it seems you have opened the door regarding making the content of pm's public . I have communicated with Peter on the private side a bit, and if anybody's interested, I'll put the contents here. If it's time to let it die, I'll leave it alone. In other news, the genius of "the strong work of angry", is seen clearly in the edit to the first post. You are a wily veteran. Old age and treachery will beat youth and skill every time. Edited to try to fix cheesetitting.
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paborden wrote: Thanks guys, I've edited this post 'cause I don't need any more responses. Appreciate your comments (and flames)...all of it's been way useful feedback for me. well for historical, here's the original :), go go google cache
paborden wrote: What if I told you there's a magic mental pill you could take to climb harder? I'm currently refining the nuts and bolts of a mental training product for climbers that I've spent the last two years of my life developing, time spent sitting at the feet of gurus far and wide, learning their secrets, so I could finally bring them to the climbing community. At long last, that day has arrived. Thing is, I need testimonials from people. So, I'm looking to trade this knowledge for testimonials, assuming you like the work, of course. Not sure what form this will take yet -- maybe a weekend workshop, maybe a few hours one-on-one. If you're interested in getting your mental game up to par, and possibly providing a video testimonial, please shoot an email to paborden (at) gmail (dot) com. First, though, a disclaimer: by the end of our time together, you might have decided climbing's no longer for you. If you're willing to take that risk, email me anyway. Oh, and you've got to be in the Northeast to take part. I'll also be glad to answer any questions in this post. (This post was edited by paborden on May 26, 2009, 6:17 PM)
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onceahardman wrote: Well, Peter, it seems you have opened the door regarding making the content of pm's public . I have communicated with Peter on the private side a bit, and if anybody's interested, I'll put the contents here. If it's time to let it die, I'll leave it alone. I have to admit, I'm curious.
In reply to: In other news, the genius of "the strong work of angry", is seen clearly in the edit to the first post. You are a wily veteran. Old age and treachery will beat youth and skill every time. :applauds:
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Peter's #1: Hey man, Thanks so much for your reply, and for your skepticism. ;) Would love to talk more about what I do, and answer any questions you might have, as well as get any feedback from you that you might have. As you can imagine, though, I just don't want to do it in an internet forum, especially not rc.com, so either phone or in person (better). I'm in NYC right now and am up in the gunks fairly frequently, so let me know. Best, Peter My response: Peter, I am a licensed health car professional in private practice. I get calls from sales reps making all kinds of claims regarding the efficacy of their products. You have already made one false claim, and very likely two (You "usually charge hundreds of dollars an hour for this"). For WHAT? Something you haven't identified, and metaphorically refer to as a pill? my practice is evidence-based. Your product, whatever it is, seems based in "gurus" and other mysticism. Identify the product, and talk about it here, on the PM side. If you do so within two days, I'll keep it private. If not, I'll copy and paste this correspondence on the public side, to alert potential victims. OAHM Peter's #2: Hey man, Thanks for getting back to me. The claim that I charge hundreds of dollars an hour is quite true. Only I don't do it in the climbing community, my main work is helping people do the same work, but with dating and relationships. My weekend workshops cost $1795 for three days, somewhere between three and twelve people usually sign up, you can do the math from there. You can imagine then that it's pretty obvious to both of us that I'm not going to make similar money from climbers, and I'm rather satisfied with what I'm making in other arenas. Thus, this is mainly a matter of releasing a product that, I feel, will bring immense value to the climbing community, and value that extends beyond their climbing life. Why charge and be so secretive, then? Well, first, as you can tell, I'm still figuring out how to articulate my work best, so being secretive is somewhat a byproduct of that and, second, people tend to only value what they pay for. As for the gurus and mysticism thing, well, I guess I dug a hole for myself there. Totally understand how that may have come across wrong. That said, a large portion of the work I do is derived from what gurus (i.e. Eckhart Tolle, Tony Robbins) teach. And a lot of it does come from mysticism. However, I've got about as much disdain for those folks as you do. Their methods are inexact, hard to follow, and often smack of quackery. I can't stand feel good bullshit, so you can imagine what I think of most of that stuff. What I should have said, is that what I'm bringing to climbers is about as close to a magic pill as I could imagine. If that was too over the top, or misleading, I apologize. It wasn't meant to come across that way, and as a health care guy, I understand your sensitivity to the issue. The difference between what I teach and quackery is that, as opposed to the hippie dippy, positive affirmation, bullshit that those guys teach, there's a system to my madness, and one that gets to the root of a lot of issues for people (hence, the disclaimer in the first post). The product itself hasn't been developed yet, hence my post in the first place. Was that the first bogus claim you were referring to? I've spent the last two years learning what I'm about to bring to the climbing community, to the point that the product itself is pretty much an afterthought. As for the work itself, one-on-one (or at least in-person) work is a huge component of it. What I do, to put it as simply as possible, is teach climbers how never to have off days, or off moments. Teach them how to be "in the zone" at all times, and this is based on specific methodology and strategies that have barely been released in the public sphere. It's complicated stuff, and stuff that's hard to communicate in PM (phone is better, if you're interested, I'm more than willing). Another way to put it would be that if you've ever had one of those moments when you've been in the zone, there's a way you were carrying yourself that's 1) different from how you normally carry yourself somatically and 2) different from how anyone else carries themselves. My work is all about teaching you the somatic position you hold when you're in the zone, climbing at your best, and teach you the ability to reset to this whenever you want to (say, when you're clipping). And this is done, not through some mantra or other bs, but by teaching you to trigger certain muscles that I'd almost guarantee are at the fringe of your current awareness. Another huge component of all of this is bran network functions and how, if one of networks 1-6 is being misused, symptoms will often appear in one's climbing. And this is very common. This misuse often stems from a traumatic event in childhood, which is very common in our society. To give you an example, until about 15 years ago, a common practice amongst midwives was to cut the umbilical cord too soon, thus making a child's first breath painful -- a traumatic event -- and thereby slightly impede breathing going forward. One of many examples. There's a ton for me to go into about this stuff, so if you'd like to know more, please let me know. Be well, Peter My reply: Peter, you said you'd answer specific questions, so I'll keep this brief. 1) How many people have you helped climb measurably harder? 2) How do you know that your method caused the improvement? Did you use a control? 3) Name 5 people who got better as a result of your methods, and please provide a method of contacting them, so I can verify your findings. If your methods are not transparent, skeptics will rule the day. Peter's #3 Interspersed with my reply to save space: In reply to:As for #1 & #2, I can't comment because I'm only just now starting to bring these techniques over to the climbing community. You CAN answer. The answer is zero. You have helped zero climbers, and you have no mechanism in place to assess improvement. The answer to #2 is NO. In reply to:I'm 100% confident myself that they'll be effective (otherwise I wouldn't bother) but I realize my own confidence isn't enough. Hence the post. 100% confident? When your dentist fills a cavity, he or she is not 100% it will relieve your pain, because fewer than 100% will receive benefit. There are no medical procedures which are 100% effective. You are continuing to make false claims, and this is getting foolish. In reply to:I'm looking to give my work away for free and see what people get out of it. If it doesn't work for anyone? No product. I'm not here to sell things. I believe that all behavior is purposeful. There is some motivation for you doing this. I suspect your motive is not purely for the good of others, but rather to enrich yourself. My evidence is your lack of forthrightness. In reply to:More on #2. If you were doing this, what type of control would you use? I think you brought up a lot of really valid stuff in your posts, so any feedback you could give on this would be appreciated. What would you need to feel confident what I'll be testing works, and isn't a fraud? I am not really interested in teaching you how to convince people of the "100% confidence" you claim, without any support. In reply to:#3. No climbers yet, though I'm meeting with some this week. I've got a fair number of former clients in other arenas who I could put in touch with you if you're interested. However, I would have to speak with you on the phone first. I can't just have people contacting my clients willy nilly, with no clear benefit on my part, by a party I don't know personally, and whose phone etiquette I can't vouch for. So there we have it. You are interested in personal "benefit", and therein lies your motivation. In reply to:Any other suggestions are welcome. Try selling your products elsewhere. You will be rightfully flamed here. You have talked about many things your system is not. You have provided no detail about what it is.
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paborden wrote: I might just take it to the pros and let them have it as their little secret for some time. ... it's generally much better working with people I don't know too well, better results that way. ... As a peculiar blend of hypnosis, tibetan buddhism, and the like ... I do believe you are Drukpa Kunleyreturned to bless us with your "Flaiming Thunderbolt of Wisdom."( NSFWbut traditional drawing .) "tibetan buddhism, and the like" seriously? "and the like"????Sounds like you just took a bunch of stuff that sounded spiritual to you and crammed it together? If you are serious tell us who you are and show us what you've done. Unless you can produce picture of you on something like "free rider" we are getting better advice for free. If you can't you are just some anonymous dude in new york city trying to start a cult and I doubt you have a friend who would vouch for you. I'm not Buddhist or religious but close friends and family are and i've studied it. So far you are coming off as trying to make a buck off it in the most disgusting way possible.
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He's peddling a panacea. You can use the same technique to get laid more often, climb harder, and do whatever else he can think of that extract money from gullible people. http://www.meetup.com/charmistry-philly/ Jay
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First, thank you onceahardman. Very interesting. - Several invitations to contact him (especially by phone) without identifying info. - dating and relationship (with >2 people) sessions (seminars? speed dating?) definitely translate into climbing & physical performance...oh, wait. - In reply to: difference between what I teach and quackery is that, as opposed to the hippie dippy, positive affirmation, bullshit that those guys teach, there's a system to my madness, Wait - I thought that the quacks had a system (and madness) too. - In reply to: Another way to put it would be that if you've ever had one of those moments when you've been in the zone, there's a way you were carrying yourself Interesting, I've had moments where I'm in the zone in other fields ... and it has more to do with focusing in those areas, being focused, not having distractions....and not very much to do with physical carriage. God knows I've sat in the same poor postural position and not been in the zone. - In reply to: Another huge component of all of this is bran network functions and how, if one of networks 1-6 is being misused, symptoms will often appear in one's climbing. And this is very common. This misuse often stems from a traumatic event in childhood, which is very common in our society. Sorry to anyone who is going to savage me for this, but I understand that this is a tenet in L.Ron Hubbard's view of impediments to human development. - In reply to: To give you an example, until about 15 years ago, a common practice amongst midwives was to cut the umbilical cord too soon, thus making a child's first breath painful -- a traumatic event -- and thereby slightly impede breathing going forward. So, the perception that we have more people with asthma now than then... Or am I wrong about this? - I fully agree with onceahardman - 100% is bogus. Especially for something involved in athletic or psychological performance. And especially for a product that "is not developed yet." Drat - and here I was hoping that I'd take a magic pill & be able to climb 5.14 tomorrow (provided I paid for overnight shipping).
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jt512 wrote: He's peddling a panacea. You can use the same technique to get laid more often, climb harder, and do whatever else he can think of that extract money from gullible people. http://www.meetup.com/charmistry-philly/ Jay Wait - what?????!!!
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onceahardman wrote: Try selling your products elsewhere. You will be rightfully flamed here. You have talked about many things your system is not. You have provided no detail about what it is. People always have and always will buy snake oil.
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In reply to: To give you an example, until about 15 years ago, a common practice amongst midwives was to cut the umbilical cord too soon, thus making a child's first breath painful -- a traumatic event -- and thereby slightly impede breathing going forward. One of many examples. Be well, Peter I'm sorry but I just gotta grab this one, cause you don't seem to quite have your facts straight. Babies start breathing before their umbilical cord is cut. While it is true that modern midwifes have shown health benefits to waiting until the cord stops pulsing to cut (more like 15 minutes instead of the 5 typical of standard hospital births) this has nothing to do with breathing, it's about blood volume. Breathing is always established before the cord is cut. (my wife is midwife)
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"onceahardman wrote: Well, Peter, it seems you have opened the door regarding making the content of pm's public . I have communicated with Peter on the private side a bit, and if anybody's interested, I'll put the contents here. If it's time to let it die, I'll leave it alone. I typically respect your opinion and paborden does sound like he's selling a bridge coated in snake-oil... but your subsequent emails crossed a line that he, as best I can tell, did not: publishing others' pms. Specifically, he published a message which he sent to you as an offer to discuss things further. It's pretty clear to me that this does not constitute "opening the door regarding making the contents of pms public." While he may be publishing an IM, it is the first IM he sent to you, and contains absolutely no sensitive information. It's a big step from his publication of that message (which, again, is one that he wrote and sent to you) to your posting of a fairly extensive correspondence. You may think this guy's a snake-oil salesman, and frankly that's the obvious thing to think, given his posts, but you gave away the moral high ground when you tried to justify posting a bunch of private correspondence with the rationale that "he opened the door."
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glytch wrote: "onceahardman wrote: Well, Peter, it seems you have opened the door regarding making the content of pm's public . I have communicated with Peter on the private side a bit, and if anybody's interested, I'll put the contents here. If it's time to let it die, I'll leave it alone. I typically respect your opinion and paborden does sound like he's selling a bridge coated in snake-oil... but your subsequent emails crossed a line that he, as best I can tell, did not: publishing others' pms. Specifically, he published a message which he sent to you as an offer to discuss things further. It's pretty clear to me that this does not constitute "opening the door regarding making the contents of pms public." While he may be publishing an IM, it is the first IM he sent to you, and contains absolutely no sensitive information. It's a big step from his publication of that message (which, again, is one that he wrote and sent to you) to your posting of a fairly extensive correspondence. You may think this guy's a snake-oil salesman, and frankly that's the obvious thing to think, given his posts, but you gave away the moral high ground when you tried to justify posting a bunch of private correspondence with the rationale that "he opened the door." Peter published the contents of a PM to jt512, not to me. I'm not sure if you are a lawyer (I am not, but I have been to court several times). I respect your opinion, but this business of "opening the door" to private communication is, I think, pretty straightforward. It's less important what his publication contained, and more important that he published a PM of any kind. If a lawyer out there says I'm wrong, fine, I'll take the permanant banning or whatever the punishment is. I think I did the right thing. I think the law would come down on my side here.
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macherry
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Public posting of PMs is not against TOS or forum rules. It's generally looked upon as bad form. remember kids, it's the internet and just like e-mails, private messages cannot be taken back once they're out there.
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onceahardman
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macherry wrote: Public posting of PMs is not against TOS or forum rules. It's generally looked upon as bad forum. remember kids, it's the internet and just like e-mails, private messages cannot be taken back once they're out there. I agree, macherry, posting of PMs is bad "form". Generally. I made a judgement call for one particular instance. I still think that in this particular instance, it was necessary to shine some light, to make the cockroaches scatter. Some thought it good, others not. I apologize to those whom I caused to take offense. EDIT: I have received over 4 pages pf PMs, mostly on the subject of injuries. Clearly, making them public is not something I do on a regular basis.
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macherry
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oops, form. not forum...it's been a long weekend
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Completely Asinine Metaphysical Poop
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